I'm out just waited for AF now should be here tomorrow. Will try IUI this cycle hopefully that does the trick. I'm guessing with IUI there's not much swaying I can do?
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I'm out just waited for AF now should be here tomorrow. Will try IUI this cycle hopefully that does the trick. I'm guessing with IUI there's not much swaying I can do?
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Hitme I'd go for it, but only you can decide what is best for you. The way I see it is, whenever you get preg, your clients will have a 9 month heads up to try to find someone else if you can't do it. You can't schedule your life around other people's lives. What if you had an "oops" pregnancy... you'd notify who needed notified and make it happen. You clients have no idea if you TTC'd or had an "oops" and any *reasonable* human being would understand and appreciate that long of a heads up. Live your life girl... don't live theirs!
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Hitme I agree with everyone else go for it! Where there's a will there's a way!
Thanks two! I'd love to be cycle buddies again lol can you arrange us to o this week :):) I'm moving into e4d now as I've got no idea whats going on downstairs lol looking forward to your update after your appointment fx fx fx!!Quote:
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Sorry to gate crash but I just had to tell you that my bfp cycle with my current pregnancy I had what I considered a full blown period, had I not been ttc I would have thought nothing of it, I was only on day 16 of my cycle, got a pos opk on day 6 and because my last couple of cycles had been wacky I thought I would take a hpt just in case and it was a bfp! I also had the same thing with my eldest and didn't realise I was 4 weeks further gone than I thought until I had my first scan!! So you are not out yet :-)Quote:
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Just by feeling my cervix it's usually a good indicator I did test this morning and it was negative alsoQuote:
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So, I am back from the trip. I did pretty good keeping my mind off TTC, except when I peeked in here and when I was cramping like crazy. I think I did a little too good not thinking about it all in fact. My diet kinda blew up the last few days :oops:
Tonight is our attempt night but I am thinking of not (attempting that is. Hubby says we are DTD one way or the other :giggle: ). I haven't OPK tested yet but highly doubt I'm surging as I am only on CD 12 and kinda think tomorrow's u/s might give us a better idea of how long of a wait we have until O and I'd hate to BD tonight and find out that it was a bad move for some reason...
Clomid ladies- Have you all noticed being more prone to sudden shifts in emotion for no apparent reason, specifically teariness(is that even a word?)? I ask because lately I will feel like I am about to tear up over absolutely nothing or small things. We were heading home today and I heard the song "A song for my daughter" and it happened, which I guess if I REALLY tried I could make some marginal sense out of. Or I was watching TV, nothing emotional about what I was watching... not even a little and suddenly felt like I was going to tear up. Over and over, over thing REALLY not worthy of tears... just curious if I am the only one :think:
:rofl: I'll do my best..... and as I "said" that I think I just heard my ovaries laugh at me :wink::giggle:Quote:
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(((HUGS)))Quote:
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@Pbn3- It hasn't stopped, but it doesn't seem to be picking up much yet. I didn't think of implantation bleeding. Can it be pink? I guess I will just wait and see. I am surprised that is hasn't picked up yet, so I am a little hopeful again :)Quote:
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Magical what's the turnaround on semen analysis? Will you have answers before next cycle? So sorry to hear your out again :(Quote:
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Absolutely I've read about both pink and brown and even red in some cases. I googled it ages ago and there's heaps of info and even pics of examples if you get a chance to have a look :). fx for you!Quote:
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Magical - So, so sorry. It's so frustrating. I'm hoping IUI gives you some good results. And, I don't know much about it, I would still think by swaying and making your environment less than ideal for sperm you could still be successful for a girl.
Two - glad vacation was good! I'll be anxious to see what happens at your appt tomorrow. Hopefully lots 'o eggs ready to be fertilized with a sticky pink bean! Also, I'm not sure about the tear jerking - I kind of get like that anyway. I have a really soft heart and it doesn't take much for me, so I don't know if Clomid is causing more of it or not.
Kitty - the same happened to me; I had a pretty light/medium period for 3 days. But my temp was still up and when I went to the doctors I had a BFP! It ended in a chemical but don't lose hope just yet!
Pbn - hope you O soon! If rather be in the 2WW wayyyy more than waiting to O!
Hit me - I agree with everyone else. Do it for yourself! You'll never regret putting off those weddings for a baby, but you'll probably regret putting off having a baby for someone else's wedding. As someone else said, had I known the struggle I had ahead of me, I would have TTC even through my own wedding!
I have my progesterone check tomorrow so everything crossed that comes back good! I've had a pretty good about of creamy/wateryish CM the past few days. Yesterday while working out, and today there was a "gush" while just sitting eating lunch. �� I'm hoping this is a good sign, but again, could always just be Clomid. I really want to temp tomorrow, but think I'll just wait and see Wednesday. If it's still up high I'll test Wednesday morning. And just saying that makes me want to tear up lol.
fx taytum!! can't wait for next update!
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:fx: Taytum!
Sorry Magical and Pbn
Hitme I would definitely go for it [emoji1]
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So my line yesterday must have been an evap. :/ This mornings test was totally negative. I've been having af-like cramps for the last 5 hours. I'm thinking af is going to show up tomorrow. Last cycle I had an 11 day luteal phase and tomorrow is 11dpo. I'm super bummed right now. DH is devastated. FX it's only implantation cramping and af stays away!!!!!!!!! Here's my chart. http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/08...0fdb45cdde.jpg
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I'm so sorry magical!!! :bighug:
Kitty, yes, it can be pink.
Hitme, I would definitely go for it!!!!! I think they'll understand! :)
Taytum, FX for you!!
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Sorry momamia [emoji20] hope it is implantation.
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Thanks Daisy! Did you test again today?
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So many (((HUGS))). :pray: for :noaf: for you.Quote:
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Thanks two. I'm feeling so defeated right now. :(
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Hope to hear af doesn't show tomorrow momamia!
Yes I did my line was just as faint as yesterday was wondering if it was an evap line also. I bought some digital tests and I am going to wait a few days to take it.
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FX for you Daisy!!! I have no doubt that you will get an excellent bfp!! :)
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Thanks hope so and hope you do as well [emoji1]
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Mommamia, my heart hurts for you. Lots of thoughts and love that AF stays away and isn't anywhere near you! This is such a hard journey. Don't take it out on yourself; you've done the best you can. And soon you will see a big, strong, healthy BFP! ��
Thanks Taytum and Daisy!! I am trying to stay positive. It's just so hard!!
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Fingers X for Momamia and Daisy.
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You guys are right. And this couple HAS kids and I think if I told them at 3or 4months (ask risk drops) that they'd be understanding. I'd try and do the wedding.... I always have a second shooter anyways, but would maybe hire them as an associate (and run the day) so I can shoot second and feed that baby as I need to. (Or pump).Quote:
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You're right about it seeming significant but it's really not a big deal, just will be uncomfortable to break that news to them. I think it stems from my announcement at my last job when I got pregnant with ds 4. They treated me like shit.
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Believe me... I remember the feeling. (((HUGS)))Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
I had pink spotting 7dpo with ds4. I also got my first bfp that day! I tested at the doctors - using a Dollarama test. I told my doctor I did it while waiting for my turn, so he had me dip one of their hpt strips and it was neg. I think you could totally have IB.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kitty0911
My diet went APE SHIT this weekend. I am just so fed up with it. I wanted ALL the ice cream and I had bacon, high fat dressing AND CHEESE on a sandwich at supper lol! Bacon!!!!Quote:
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So sorry mamas. Im sure im right there with you. Seems we come roaring in each month with high hopes just to be shoved into the dirt.Quote:
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It's awful that you were treated poorly! Sounds like you have a solid workable plan this time though!!Quote:
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Let's see... On the day we went up I had (at home) a yogurt and something else but I can't remember what for "breakfast", then on the road we stopped at McD's and I got a burger I think... but I am not sure. Then once we got up there we stopped at Steak and shake for dinner and I LOVE LOVE LOVE their jalapeno burger and I get to go there so rarely so I got that. Yesterday (sat) I had cereal for and ACTUAL breakfast (had another long drive and wanted to wait as long as possible before stopping for food and cereal was my only option). Then I was STARVING at a gas station and so was my youngest so I got this cheese sausage in a bread roll thing and split it with him. then when I got to the reunion I had lasagna, and about a million calorie cake lol. Then today I had a whopper from Burger King, an iced frappe from a gas station, some pretzels and for dinner- the quickest, easiest and cheapest meal on the PLANET... RAMEN! Lol. To sum it up I had about 6 months worth of red meat and a a week worth of protein, fat and cals in like 3 days. I was awful this weekend but it was SOOOOOOO nice to just eat and not think about it. My norm diet consists on a lot of protein so this low protein thing keeps me from eating a lot of what I am used to (certainly not out to eat all the time, but meat and such).Quote:
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I seriously want to cry.... My positive OPK this morning was so so dark... We decided to have our attempt tonight after our son was asleep. We were about to have the attempt and I tested again and it's stark white now..: how in the world was my window so small. I guess we will still have an attempt but I feel defeated already. Is there even a possibility to be successful now?
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You could have been surging through the night last night and not even known. So, yes, there is a chance :) (((HUGS)))
So even thought my test is negative now... If we BD within the next hour, I could still get pregnant??Quote:
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I misunderstood the question...I thought you were asking if you still had a chance of it being a real O. But I still say Yup :) It takes roughly 2 hours for sperm to make it from vagina to tubes. Most ppl generally O 24-36 hours from +OPK. Lets pretend you know for a fact that your surge started at say midnight last night. It's a good bet then that you would O sometime tonight or tomorrow. Then the egg survives for an additional 24 hours meaning that even if you O'd right this second your hubby's sperm still have a 22 hour jump on the eggs expiration time :) Does that all make sense?Quote:
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edited to correct a math mistake.