Roll-call!! Due June/July/August 2013

Sending hugs mum23. I have days where I feel like the whole world is on top of me. The worse days were definitely earlier on when I was being sick constantly and worrying and feeling sorry for myself as GD had set in big time (and that was before I had a clue).
I starting off team green as I knew when baby is born I will fall in love. The reaon I changed my mind was because the not knowing was causing me more worry and obsession than anything else. I know I don't know for Deffinate that baby is a boy but I'm prepared now and it actually feels easier to know. I could not bare the thought (personally knowing how obsessed I was getting) thinking for nine months it might be a girl when it wasn't.

I know I can't help but sending love, hugs and lots of friendship... That makes me smile when I'm down :)

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Originally Posted by WantingPink

3 boys I know exactly how you feel!! I just found out I am pregnant and I don't want to tell a soul (including my DH) until I know if it is a boy or a girl. Obviously that isn't realistic but I am tired of people asking me if we are going to "try" for a girl. I know the minute I tell people that I will also be bombarded with the "hope it is a girl" comments. I am only 15 dpo and in my mind this baby is already a boy because I am not sure if I can deal with even thinking it is a girl. My Mom has 4 grandchildren and they are all boys!! I hate that people other than me and my DH even comment on it!!!

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Wanting pink congrats dear! I can't stand the "try for a girl" comments! I was getting those before I even announced the pregnancy. I usually just say "well we can try for a girl all we want but it's not up to us" or " if only it were that easy". My best friend is 6 weeks ahead of me and she will be finding out on Wednesday if her intuition is right. She feels it is a girl. I am happy that we don't have to work that day :-/

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Originally Posted by Mum23boys

Hows everyone doing today ? Im feeling a bit low if im honest. I spent all day yesterday feeling sick ( is it even possible to hve MS 24 hours a day ) and today i dont feel any better i am short tempered, emotional and most of all GD is creeping in - i just read the post on what people have been buying for their lottle girls and i couldnt help but cry thinking that ill never get to join in - I really dont want to know until the birth as know it will kill me to hear boy before hand yet on the day i wont care but im really not sure i can go until the end not knowign and feeling like this - the only problem is DH is dead against finding out and i really dont want to lie to him by knowing and pretending i dont.

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I know exactly how you feel. I am adamant about not finding out the gender before the baby is born. I am preparing myself for a boy and even find myself thinking of the baby as a he and just hoping that I am presently surprised. When ds3 was born I was so set on him being a girl that when the doctor finally told us what we had (he forgot to look because most people already know) I immediately said " NOOO" and my husband told me he was sorry, but I knew he was just thrilled. I was fine though within an hour and it didn't matter so I'm just hoping that if I go into the birth assuming it is a boy then I will be better prepared then I will be if I know for sure and have to carry the baby for several months without getting to see or hold it and know it is not what I want.

Welcome and big congrats Wanting Pink!

3boys - I'm so glad that you are feeling better!

just been trying to take everything 1 day at a time. very emotional and sad after the horrible school shooting here :(

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Originally Posted by Atsaukina1

just been trying to take everything 1 day at a time. very emotional and sad after the horrible school shooting here :(

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Aw I know it's absolutely terrible! Feel better soon :(

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Originally Posted by Mum23boys

Hows everyone doing today ? Im feeling a bit low if im honest. I spent all day yesterday feeling sick ( is it even possible to hve MS 24 hours a day ) and today i dont feel any better i am short tempered, emotional and most of all GD is creeping in - i just read the post on what people have been buying for their lottle girls and i couldnt help but cry thinking that ill never get to join in - I really dont want to know until the birth as know it will kill me to hear boy before hand yet on the day i wont care but im really not sure i can go until the end not knowign and feeling like this - the only problem is DH is dead against finding out and i really dont want to lie to him by knowing and pretending i dont.

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Hi mum23 sorry you are feeling sick and down xx hope tomorrow is a better day for you. I am feeling really low at the moment too - gd is rubbish xx

Congrats wanting pink x

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Originally Posted by Atsaukina1

just been trying to take everything 1 day at a time. very emotional and sad after the horrible school shooting here :(

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It's absolutely awful xx no words xx