Me too! Uggghhh! If I get a BFP I can't wait to eat! Haha!
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I am thinking about taking a break. The stress of swaying and ttc is really getting to me.
Shell, I was thinking the exact same thing today. There's just so much pressure.
Are you taking a break from TTC or just from the forum for a bit?
From ttc. Our chances are really limited next cycle anyway. But I realized I'm spending so much time dwelling on ttc stuff that Im missing out on the joy from the kids I already have.
I want a baby so badly. I'm not sure how much I even need for it to be a girl anymore.
That's exactly how I feel.
You're still young...enjoy your kids now.
I don't have much time left....I need to do this now. And I truly do not care, boy or girl - just as long as it's healthy. I'm so ready to be pregnant. I just need to relax to get there.
I hope everything works out for you and that you stick around at least. I love having you here! ♥
Aw, thanks so much. I'm 36 so I've crossed that line. I've never, ever tried this hard to get pregnant -- when I got pg with the baby, I was 33 and we only dtd one time that month, because of dh schedule. I just feel like maybe I've decreased my fertility SO much that my body won't let me conceive.
I'm so sorry youre having to go through this too, sweetie. I'll stick around -- I just can't quit y'all. ;)
I just need to relax, reevaluate, and rest. And maybe it will happen once I've rebooted lol.
I turned 40 in May and everything you just said is how I feel!!
I'm afraid I've messed something up, too. I had the easiest time getting pregnant for all 3 boys, but it was a while ago, and I wasn't trying to diminish my fertility.
I guess we should take it as a good sign that it's taking a while to happen...it's kinda, sorta what we were trying to do, when ttc a girl...it's not supposed to just happen. KWIM? At this point though, I just want a baby...right now.
We'll get there...promise. :) We'll both have sweet little babies in our bellies and our arms before we know it!!
Now go reboot and get back at it!! ;) Love ya, girl!!!
Girls, older age also sways pink. And I think it's stress, not your fertility. I'm 37. You can both do this. I hope bfp's are here in the next month or 2. I love you ladies!!!
Shell you will probably get pregnant as soon as you stop trying! I have to say to anyone over 35 to be grateful you can get pregnant or have your periods still. In my family menopause comes at the ripe ol age of 35-40 and it starts earlier every generation. I have signs of it already starting and I am only 26! This is likely my last baby because this one might kick my system into hyperdrive and push me right into the menopause :-/