Due in March/April/May 2016

I haven't been posting on this thread for a while but I hope all you ladies are doing well?

Congratulations on your boys junie and hitme, I know you are finding it hard at the moment hitme and I hope you have all the support you need to help you get to a better place soon, I'm pleased for you that you may have a little ht light at the end of the tunnel. Xxx
Hi ash, no I haven't found out yet, I'm nearly 19 weeks now so realistically could find out any day but I'm still undecided as to whether or not to stay team green. I have a routine 20 week scan next week so if I get any gender clues I may just go ahead with a gender scan. Scared of finding out and having to deal with the disappointment. Xxx

Thanks again mamas. I'm feeling much better about it today. I know he's going to be a fabulous fit around here, and my ht research is also a little of a saviour. Still not sure is going to happen but it's easier than squashing the full dream into the ground and calling it done. I do not want to sway again. It will be ht or nothing most likely. I'll be 41 or 42, and have to be prepared to dump a lot of money into it... And maybe come out empty handed. I'll feel like a high rolling gambler if I can get my hands on the funds lol
But Dh and I agree it's better than a mustang or a new kitchen or home Reno.... That stuff isn't for life.


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Oh and his name is Pearson.


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Is cooked shrimp safe to have during the first trimester?


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Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime

Oh and his name is Pearson.


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Love his name!!! Your DH is incredible! He is so right about the money! You know what, you won't regret it if you do it! Hang in there sweetie and hold onto this! Learn as much as you can about IVF and then you can hit the ground running when you are ready!!!

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Glad you are feeling better today Hitme. Pearson is gorgeous :)

I think hot cooked shrimp is fine healthygirl. I'm not sure about the cold stuff either.

Love the name. My boys didn't have names for week+ after birth lol.so hard when you have to pick a boy and girl name that I just pick nothing lol. I don't even want to think name right now:)

Glad you are feeling better Hitme and I love the name Pearson. It is fantastic that your DH is supportive of HT in the future. You will have plenty of time to research it and decide on your options.

It's ugly. What I've found out is that it really comes down to your prestesting, but the average success of love birth at my age that I anticipate being at for PGD ivf is 11% first try, at 3 tries it was still less than 35% ... We're talking like $45k ish maybe and sti walk away with nothing. This is such a let down of a week... I am going into that stage where I am mad at my natural emotions. I'll gonna stop posting for a bit bc I really don't want to be a Debbie downer every day.


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You are fine Hitme. Would you consider donor egg or embryo? Embryo would be the cheapest option. That would be my choice I think. I wanted to do donor embryo this time instead of swaying but DH said he wouldn't go for it till we had one more try ourselves first. You could maybe do a cycle and if nothing to transfer then go donor?