TTC a BOY February Chit Chat Thread!

I am not sure what you mean Afy but I'm sure the experienced women will know. I have a question about DTD too. So I get to sway boy we want to DTD every 2-4 days. We started doing this in mid January (before we were usually once a week people due to crazy schedules but we are happy that we are making a point to do it more!) and our first attempt is in mid March. Atomic told me it takes 70ish days for sperm to be created so does that mean his sperm won't increase until after the 70 days?

I am so full of the craziest questions, I'm sorry. Hopefully one day I can be helpful to another woman!

Afy you get AF in early May, as soon as bleeding stops start DTD every second day until you get a positive opk then do evening, morning, evening to get lots of swimmers up there. And repeat after each AF until you get a BFP.

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Originally Posted by KikiCal

I am not sure what you mean Afy but I'm sure the experienced women will know. I have a question about DTD too. So I get to sway boy we want to DTD every 2-4 days. We started doing this in mid January (before we were usually once a week people due to crazy schedules but we are happy that we are making a point to do it more!) and our first attempt is in mid March. Atomic told me it takes 70ish days for sperm to be created so does that mean his sperm won't increase until after the 70 days?

I am so full of the craziest questions, I'm sorry. Hopefully one day I can be helpful to another woman!

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That's right it takes 70 days for the changes to take effect so you won't notice an increase in sperm until 70 days has passed.

Yep Afy Princessofpink explained it , so in April you may just want to be DTD every 2 - 4 days with condoms, then after AF in May lose them and continue on that schedule until you see the +opk, then go for it :)

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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

That's right it takes 70 days for the changes to take effect so you won't notice an increase in sperm until 70 days has passed.

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Well that's disappointing but I've never gotten pregnant in my first attempt so I think we'll be at 70 days for our second attempt. Thanks for the info!

Thank you so much ladies I was just over thinking things.. I understand perfectly go for gold in that fertile window!!
Could you guys just remind me again why it's not good for DH to release outside of you rather than inside with condom when DTD

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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

That's right it takes 70 days for the changes to take effect so you won't notice an increase in sperm until 70 days has passed.

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How would we know when 70 day count starts or end? Lol sorry I know sperm takes that Long for changes to take place.. But does that matter to those who already do DTD every 2-4 days?

From what i have read if DH ejaculates inside you he produces more sperm, and if it is regularly even more. I think its a primal thing like if a man masturbates all the time he wont be producing optimal numbers because his body knows it is just getting wasted. I *think* oral sex counts as inside. Here is some interesting reading - http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...ight=jellybean

Something about the hormones too. I read on here somewhere that often one-night stands and mothers not in relationships have girls. Some survival thingie......so if he does it inside, your body thinks you are in a stable relationship and slightly sways boy. God knows if there is any truth in that but its worth a shot!!

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...wrong-way.html

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Originally Posted by afy

How would we know when 70 day count starts or end? Lol sorry I know sperm takes that Long for changes to take place.. But does that matter to those who already do DTD every 2-4 days?

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If DH starts taking sups of any kind or starts releasing every 2-4 days and he wasn't before.....you need to wait 70 days from the first sups or start of 2-4 day release before you start seeing an increase in sperm count!