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Thank you. I also had GD with DS2 and remember having a quick cry when finding out but this is on a whole different level. I really didn't think I would of found it this hard. My family know that I want to find out and my OH have told his family so I guess I will have to tell them soon.
I hope you get your daughter x
Huge hugs. I'm so sorry you are feeling like this. I know I can't be much help, but please don't be hard on yourself, i think how you are feeling is completely natural when you have wanted something so much. I know it is of no use now whilst everything is so fresh, but from reading the posts in the gender disappointment forums it definitely will get easier.
Im sorry, retrolove. I remember how I felt when I found out baby #3 was another girl (and it looks like baby #4 may be too). I cried and felt so disappointed. If its any consolation, there's something sooooo sweet about that third baby. I adore my third. She's the sweetest little thing ever. I've heard the same thing over and over again when people comment on their 3rd child of the same gender, whether it be all boys or all girls. And yes, it pains me when people say that a family is only perfect if theres each gender. The societal (and family) pressure is so hard. It will get better. As soon as you see his sweet face, you'll fall in love and won't want him to be any different. HUGS!!!
Thank you everyone. I'm already feeling better. Finally told family and they seemed fine which shocked me. I think their reaction was adding to my upset and right now I'm feeling content if that's the right word to use.
I just keep looking at his beautiful 4D images xx
Congrats Retro, that's awesome, you will see just how special he is going to be!
Haven't been upset once today and show most of my work colleagues. Everyone has been great and I've not had any stupid comments :) x
That's the way to be retro, I wish I was like that when I found out with my third, however she's 15mths now and I wouldn't trade her in for 5 boys!! I just wish I didn't experience gd because it would have made my pregnancy wonderful, I regret that.Quote:
Originally Posted by retrolove1
That's great you haven't got silly comments, I was surprised also when I told people we were having another girl, I only had 2 stupid comments, I was expecting more.
I don't think my GD will ever go, I think I'll always be jealous of others because they have what I want. I actually dislike people who have one of each haha. X
When I had my second dd I was a bit bummed but didnt experience the ugly gd & then i actually ended up being so happy that I didnt get the pigeon pair so I never envied people with a boy & girl, its only now that ive had my 3rd dd that I get jelous when I see two of the same gender & then their 3rd is the opposite!Quote:
Originally Posted by retrolove1
I am not confident but first guess is girl