Unwirklich just wanted to wish you best of luck and to say I'm so sorry to hear about your brother dying. That must be very painful to deal with.
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Unwirklich just wanted to wish you best of luck and to say I'm so sorry to hear about your brother dying. That must be very painful to deal with.
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Yeah, the last 6 months have been really hard. When I was pregnant the first time I miscarried my brother's wife was too. We both lost them within a month of one another, then about 2 months later my brother died. He was driving a truck for the oil field and they didn't properly maintain the brakes, they ended up failing. He avoided several motorists with a run away tanker, but hit the ditch, rolled and didn't make it. We're still dealing with legal issues from it, then someone broke into his house and stole a bunch of his stuff. My BFP was the first good news I'd had in sometime..this loss really hit me hard, but I'm trying to look on the bright side. Now I have a shot at that summer baby I really wanted and maybe on my brother's birthday, it was my grama's bday too, and one of my nephews.
Oh my unworklich, you've had to deal with a lot..life is so unfair sometimes but love your positive attitide. Am sure god is looking and listening and Will surely grant u ur much awaited wish
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jsophia922 - I think the reason most of us (especially the pink swayers) are going "hard core" is because we've conceived boys before so we feel like our bodies naturally sway blue. Since you've never conceived a boy or girl, you don't really have to be as crazy as some of the rest of us are ! I wouldn't worry at all, it sounds like you naturally might have gotten a boy without even trying and with this site and even a light sway you shouldn't have any problems!
unwirklich - I'm so sorry for all the sorrow and heartbreak in your family! I hope so very much that you get your DG and if not that your next baby will be a sticky healthy baby that brightens your life.
I'm so sorry about your loss unwirklich!! Your brother's death sounds so tragic. I just can't imagine how hard it must be to deal with all of that, and I hope this summer brings some positive events for you and your family. Welcome to our little group:) Your sway still sounds really good to me!
I'm doing fine skipping breakfast since I did that before anyway but I'm having a harder time keeping my fats low. It is like my brain can accept giving up meats or fatty food but not both LOL. Honestly I really dislike thinking about food so much and thinking about what I eat. Before starting LE I just ate whatever I was hungry for and that was a whole lot more enjoyable :D
But avoiding snacking and just eating two big meals has definitely helped keep the calories low even when the meal has french fries in it :D
I read from some women who have been on the diet longer that they sometimes cheat a bit on weekends and I'm also thinking about doing one day a week where while I still skip breakfast, and don't snack, I let myself eat meat, or whatever I am in the mood for. I might get more strict once TTC gets closer.
I'd been on the diet for 12 weeks or so before my BFP, I did best going vegetarian during the day and then having whatever the fam had for dinner but in a smaller portion. Often I still had to eat a sweet to meet the fat intake and caloric needs that way. Not much in salad lol I had lost 10 lbs, though I gained 5 of that back in like 6 weeks.
I had to drop in here and say good luck Unwirklich. You have been through so much. Your losses were so unfair. I am sure your brother will send you a daughter, he is watching over you! I hope you are able to get the due date to land around his birthday, that would be so special!!
I just wanted to say i'm so sorry for your loss Unwirklich!!!
I'm so sorry to hear of all your heartache Unwirklich :( I will send healing vibes your way for your heart.
I am a bit 'adrift' at the moment. I was part of the April-May-June crew...but then we moved our TTC/swaying dates to July-August, so I moved over here. But we appear to have had an "oopsie" this week (not really an oopsie though, I just ovulated uncharacteristically early (which I haven't ever had happen before)). So I guess I am two-week-waiting now. I'm a little bummed we didn't have time to sway. But taking it in stride. Two months doesn't make much difference for me pregnancy-wise, so we will be fine about having a baby a tad earlier than planned. I just really wanted to use these two months to sway some and try for a girl. What we ended up with wasn't "horrible" for pink. But not nearly as strong as I'd have liked. Guess time will tell (in all regards!).
Good luck hotdogz :) I may have actually had a opps last night too. The boys lost my thermometer, and I figured meh it's CD 10 based on the first day of light flow before my loss...noooo way I'll ovulate in the next 4 days....10 pm tonight..watery CM and ovary pain. I bought a new thermometer, kinda hopin not to see a rise in the next few days..catching an egg less than a week after complete loss would be really scary, plus I'd have like no sway but the first egg after a loss thing and vitex/exercise/no breakfast for like 3 days. I should just make him use a condom every time until Aug damn it lol