How we made girls...by girl moms! (PINK DUST!!!)

Reading all this is so interesting! I just recently found out while navigating this site that the shettles method is rubbish, so I'm still like o_0. Anyway, my middle child is a girl. I didn't do any swaying with her - however, I was dieting at the time, successfully losing weight, & frequently working out. I don't remember my diet but it was very low cal & I'm sure it was low protein. I did frequently enjoy Skinny Cow brand items for dessert. Did not smoke, I did drink but not daily or even weekly I don't think. It very well could have been a week without sex when we DTD. It was missionary (that's all my ex & I ever really did XD). My ex was not dieting but he doesn't eat very much regularly. He smokes & drinks daily. None of us took any supplements that I can remember.

Thanks Lex! Let me know how I can help! :)

Having 3 girls and this is what i always do and i never know it will get me a girl.. I never had breakfast,almost everyday i skipped meals and only ate whenever i was hungry and also i don’t munch or snacking anything.. Never drink milks only ate cheese for dairy intake,not really into veggies only love salted broccoli and baby carrots.. Caffeine addict and almost everyday i drive thru for a latte.
We also bd every other day and usually after bd i tend to get up and wash up so its quite fast game and also i neved had any supplements and only ate after i confirmed bfp..

And this time we planned for a boy and it was totally a game changer!I was exactly learn a new things here and reading all in here boys sways here makes lift my spirit.

I need blue dust for my boy journey [emoji7]


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I send u all my blue dust, good luck Lily:babym:

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I have 2 girls and now i am ttc a boy, so changed a lot in my life. Want to share my experience with you.
I never had breakfast, mostly had some fruits or juice or some chocolate after 2 hours I wake up. Also I never had dinner. Only sometimes on some parties or events.
Just good big dinner.
I never drink coffee and tea. Had a lot of coke and water.
I had a lot of cardio, more cardio then weightlifting, always tried to loose some weight, though was never far [emoji16]
Both of my girls were conceived with one attempt in fertile window, 1 or 2 days before O.

Sending you all my pink dust [emoji254][emoji254][emoji254]




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Having 3 girls and this is what i always do and i never know it will get me a girl.. I never had breakfast,almost everyday i skipped meals and only ate whenever i was hungry and also i don’t munch or snacking anything.. Never drink milks only ate cheese for dairy intake,not really into veggies only love salted broccoli and baby carrots.. Caffeine addict and almost everyday i drive thru for a latte.
We also bd every other day and usually after bd i tend to get up and wash up so its quite fast game and also i neved had any supplements and only ate after i confirmed bfp..

And this time we planned for a boy and it was totally a game changer!I was exactly learn a new things here and reading all in here boys sways here makes lift my spirit.

I need blue dust for my boy journey [emoji7]


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Good luck on your boy journey!!

Having 2 girls and trying to sway for a boy, thought i'd share my girl conceptions in hopes it helps anyone! :

- Always ate a low cal diet : skim milk, all low fat dairy, cheese, sour cream etc was always low fat
- would often go long times between meals, or only eat a super light snack or breakfast
- i did eat meat at least 1-2 times a day (chicken beef pork or seafood)
- i love salt, i salt almost almost everything
- was taking a prenatal when conceived both of them
- do not smoke
- drank occasionally (socially)
- coffee is my best friend
- Cardio queen - i run outside or use the elliptical 5-6 times a week. I have always been in shape and a work out addict - more cardio than weights, for sure
- Never used OPK's with my girls, we just BD every other day or so and i didn't know much about my cycle so not sure how close to ovulation they were conceived, but we just casually BD over what i figured was fertile period and got pregnant quickly both times
- conceived my 2nd while breastfeeding my first
- conceived my 2nd right after my first postpartum period
- since i don't know exactly when either was conceived, but we typically always do missionary, they were most likely conceived that way
- i always always got up to pee RIGHT after sex. i never did the whole lay down and not get up for 15 + min thing - i was up right away peed and got on with my day.

Hello everyone x

I am new to this page.

I have 2 beautiful boys and swaying girl.

I’ve read so much miss matched about swaying girls and different supps so I’m confused

I’m unsure about calcium and magnesium - some say it’s ok, others say it sways blue.

What other tips to sway a little girl?

I thought I had my swaying doubt pat but the more I read the more I freak out I’m doing something in big favour.

Is one month enough for taking supps if you recommend and I only start then or?

Thanks a lot ladies and excited to read more things!


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Hi and welcome Shanaye, I would recommend starting a new thread in order to get your questions better answered. This is mainly a thread for ladies to share how they got their girls. To start a new thread, go to the forum you want to post in (for example, here is our TTC a Boy forum https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...onceive-a-boy/) click it open, and then you'll get the new post option. People sometimes miss that they have to open a forum in order to post.

I know it's confusing when different sites recommend different things but please ask ask ask, there is always a reason why.

I got all boys with cal-mag and lots of dairy, and gave it up to get my girl. I understand it's hard to walk away from that but all the other sites base their information on the same claims that are 50 years old and have been debunked by more modern information. It's up to you if you want to limit them, just be sure you don't stay on the diet very long time.

I suggest following HE Diet and having 3 attempts rather than just one, in the fertile window. In this thread there is more info about swaying than you probably ever wanted to know, LOL https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gen...ete-index.html

We have had good results with 6 weeks on the HE Diet plus taking supplements and starting weight training. Have hubby do regular release every 2-4 days to ensure he's making a nice amount of healthy sperm.

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Hi and welcome Shanaye, I would recommend starting a new thread in order to get your questions better answered. This is mainly a thread for ladies to share how they got their girls. To start a new thread, go to the forum you want to post in (for example, here is our TTC a Boy forum https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...onceive-a-boy/) click it open, and then you'll get the new post option. People sometimes miss that they have to open a forum in order to post.

I know it's confusing when different sites recommend different things but please ask ask ask, there is always a reason why.

I got all boys with cal-mag and lots of dairy, and gave it up to get my girl. I understand it's hard to walk away from that but all the other sites base their information on the same claims that are 50 years old and have been debunked by more modern information. It's up to you if you want to limit them, just be sure you don't stay on the diet very long time.

I suggest following HE Diet and having 3 attempts rather than just one, in the fertile window. In this thread there is more info about swaying than you probably ever wanted to know, LOL https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gen...ete-index.html

We have had good results with 6 weeks on the HE Diet plus taking supplements and starting weight training. Have hubby do regular release every 2-4 days to ensure he's making a nice amount of healthy sperm.

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Hey Atomic,
here you right you got boys with cal-mag and reduced dairy. You have told me to do this to sway girl? i am confused by this thread

????? I got my boys with tons of dairy. "Lots of dairy" means NOT reduced dairy. With my youngest two I was also taking cal-mag in addition to eating tons of dairy. I've always had a higher than average dairy intake my whole life, up until when I got my daughter.

The reason I have people take cal-mag is that so many people have heard of the mineral diets. If I don't include that optin in the safest way I possibly can for a sway (which is cal-mag, without vitamin D added, and dairy only within the limits of the LE Diet) many people would go ahead and take it anyway, in ways that may be more blue friendly. I don't make everyone do swaying my way and sometimes I allow people to do optional sway tactics even if I don't believe in them (I also tolerate things like timing for blue swayers and them doing minerals, even though neither works).

If you want to leave the calcium out, that is fine.

Here is what I wrote in your sway plan:
If you would like to include calcium and magnesium, that’s up to you. I do not believe they sway pink and some evidence indicates they may even sway slightly blue, but some people claim to have had success with them.
Several of us went on to conceive girls without cal/mag after getting boy opposites while swaying and taking high doses of cal/mag. Do NOT take the Vitamin D that is sometimes recommended…Vit D seems to sway strongly blue.

So if you could please explain to me what I'm missing here I could clear things up.

When I conceived my daughter sometime in late April of 2018, we weren’t really trying. It happened that ONE time when we weren’t careful. [emoji1787]

I did predominately cardio. I have always liked to run and have never been a weight lifter. It requires too much concentration for me and use exercise as an outlet.

I was finishing up nursing school so I know I wasn’t eating well. I would go prolonged periods of time without eating simply because I was busy. I’d either forget or just didn’t feel like I had time. Looking back, I probably wasn’t eating a lot of protein either. I typically would settle for like Mac n cheese, a pizza, or cereal... whatever was easy for one person. I lived alone so I didn’t cook a lot. I also wasn’t taking any vitamins at the time.

I guess I’m not the most competitive person either. I try to just do my best or improve from my last performance. I make a point to not compete with others.

As far as stress goes, I admit I do get worked up about things I can’t control and tend to feel helpless at that point. However I do have a lot of self induced stress too.

I think overall I was pretty textbook girl mom.


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Hi everyone, new here and swaying boy this time.

Our first was a girl and during that time I was doing a lot of cardio - about 4-5 times a week, regularly skipped breakfast and only really ate when I was hungry, so didn't snack. I had a latte every day. I also wasn't taking any supplements as we were not TTC at the time. I wasn't tracking my cycles and didn't know much about that then but we had an "oopsie" one night so I'm fairly sure it was a one attempt close to ovulation. DH was away for work for a few months so we had a long abstain followed by about a week of FR upon his return. I know we conceived towards the end of that week based on when we had the "oopsie" and then confirmed by ultrasound. DH was also doing daily cardio at that time, probably more than any other type of exercise.

Not sure if I've missed anything, but hope this helps!

Thank you so much ladies!!

So I’ve been on and off browsing gender dreaming since finding out we were having our third daughter. She’s a year now :) but I just wanted to add my experience! I’ve never really taken vitamins except upon finding out I was pregnant and then I always got slack and quit taking them before delivering. I’ve never put any thought into my “diet.” So I never limited what I ate but I always quit when I was full. And it was nothing for me to wait until I was so hungry I was sick before I ate. Not on purpose just because I stay so busy. If I ate breakfast it was always light. I loved grabbing a candy bar and just skipping lunch. Or at least putting it off. I’ve always had a sweet tooth. I used to seriously eat candy every day. I never exercised until this past year. But I was always a busy body and never sat down. I’ve always been very thin. Going between ideal weight and underweight. I stress very easily as does hubby. He also doesn’t have a high sex drive so we normally dtd 1-3 a week. The last two girls I know for sure it was only once in my fertile window. As I was tracking and we weren’t trying. The third was a pull out baby. The second was a “let’s try” then we got too scared and decided we weren’t ready [emoji23]. Good luck ladies and I hope y’all get your girls. [emoji3590]

Love reading all
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I love this thread. Only just found it as still getting used to the site. I’m ttc girl this month after 3 boys [emoji3590]


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Hi ladies
Newbie here hope I can help somebody swaying girl,
I’ve 3 little divas ttc boy now

With my girls it was one attempt at ovulation
1st attempt off conception pill with 1st 2girls
3rd failed IG sway again 1 attempt (never change diet)

Diet was very bad,no breakfast or lunch
Snacked on fizzy juice coffee and chocolate bars
Coffee 5/6 cups a day 2 sugars
No multi vits never worked out
Smoked cigarettes

If anyone has any questions please ask happy to help

Thank you so much!!!

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Don't forget, Vitamin L is the most important thing of all - LUCK. Even if swaying was 80%, there would still be 20% opposites.

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What is vitamin L?

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L for Luck, it's a joke (not a literal vitamin)

:agree: yep just a bit of luck! Good old Vitamin L. :)

Oh I just found this topic! Such a good idea! I have a daughter and we are hoping to try for another

With my daughter I was a vegetarian and eating my meals pretty spaced out as I was working and never had time to snack. I was also on my feet all day but then I would come home and go to the gym 4x a week and definitely losing weight at the time of conception. We also only dtd twice my whole cycle once the day before peak and day of peak. It's amazing reflecting back and seeing how clearly these things line up!
Goodluck to all swaying :)

Thank you so much!!

Hi Atomic,

my english is not very well, but i'm not sure about what you are saying.
My question is : what if i had ovulate from the right side? do i have less chance to be pregnant with a girl?
I have also a dominant right ovary (bigger also) and i ovulate this month on the right side. So if this pattern not give me 75 % chance for a boy, what pattern should it be? Like LLRLLR, to have 50% chance for a girl. I am doing the pcos diet as well. Or is the LRLRLR pattern 50 % chance for girl or boy.

Vitamin "L" is just a joke that means having good luck for your sway.

EVERYONE has a bigger right ovary and most people ovulate more often from the right side in most months. Sometimes, the left ovary takes over for a while. You can't make yourself ovulate from a certain ovary. That would be like hitting the lottery. Please just do your sway and then don't worry about what side you ovulate from.

Thank you atomic.

I understand the vitamine L :)

I try not to worry about things like that.

I just wonder if you still can be pregnant from a girl if you ovulate on the right side, is that still 50 % or does the right side give you more chance to get a boy.

If you have ovulate for a few months on the left side and once on the right side and that time you get pregnant, does that mean you get the 75% for a boy.

If that's true it's better not to get pregnant that month? or am i wrong?

Yes, you can still get pregnant with a girl from the right side and a boy from the left. We have people who have had ultrasounds confirming both.

The truth is we do not know. There was ONE study done that seemed to find that in months where people had a L, L, R ovulation they had 75% chance of a boy (that is still of course 25% girls) but that has never been confirmed by anyone else or followed up on. There were not very many people in the test group. It might have been a fluke.

It's quite expensive to have ultrasounds of your ovulations done every month. I don't recommend that for people because I don't think the expense is justified. You're basically trying to hit the odds at a slot machine (gambling). We are already getting between 66% and 75% with swaying anyway (in people who are NOT tracking their ovulation at all) so my thinking is, just sway, and rely on swaying to work for you.

Thank you for your answer! :)

I hope it’s ok to post my unintentional girl sway. This thread has been super helpful.
I was young, very skinny, eating crap and not regularly. I was extremely active.
I never ate breakfast.
As I was young, I was still up very late and not getting enough sleep.
Drinking way to much and smoking. Ex partner was not smoking but would drink also. (again young 😂)
I really had been doing nothing to help myself or be healthy at all.
No idea when I ovulated, timing or position. I would say BD frequently though.
Not a lot of stress in my life, I was really enjoying life and just having a lot of fun.
There was no real structure or routine in my life back then.

Yes thanks so much!!! Great!

Hello All new member here. Looking for some advice. This is my baby #2, trying to do a girl sway. Planning for TTC in three weeks and started doing the below :
1. Daily Cal and Mag supplements + 2 glasses of milk
2. Tested PH last cycle : 3 days before O = 4.5 - 5, 12 hours after O = 4 - 4.5. (Used PH testing strips). This makes me believe in TTC on O+12 rather than Shettles even though I believed in Shettles a lot earlier.
3. Planning to follow girl diet next three weeks but figure since my PH is kinda optimal, wont follow it to a T.

4.What should I Douche with for O+12 ? This is my biggest concern. My PH is already optimal but DH semen PH is obviously > 7.
5. Anything else I should be following?

Any help would be appreciated!! Desperately trying for a girl this month, and even followed the chinese calendar that says I will have one this month.

I'm going to answer your post in one of the other places you asked it since this is a thread for women who have girls to discuss the stuff they did to get them.

Suffice to say you are doing a lot of things we don't recommend here so anyone else reading this, please talk to me before deciding to do any of this stuff for your sway. :)

Hi Atomic,
My doc said my testosterone is high. Will this affect my pregnancy?
Thank you, Laura

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Also, should i cut out my chocolate milk? i have 250mL everyday. But, i did drink a lot of that while pregnant with my son. Ok-stay away even if it gives Ca. No cheese either bc of my high teststerone. So, just rely on getting Ca fr my CaMg supplement, right?

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Hi Atomic,
My doc said my testosterone is high. Will this affect my pregnancy?
Thank you, Laura

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Are you pregnant now??

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Also, should i cut out my chocolate milk? i have 250mL everyday.

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If you have high testosterone you need to cut out anything sugary entirely and have only full fat dairy, NO SKIM or part skim.

But let's move this conversation to a different thread, ok?? This thread is really meant for people to discuss how they got their girls, and not swaying questions. Come join us in the TTC a girl forum here (you will see the "start new thread" option at the top of this page) https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...nceive-a-girl/ and I can answer all your gender swaying questions there.

K, thank you[emoji3590]

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