Ok. Going out. Will try once back. Do you need to have VIP membership in FF for that?
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Ok. Going out. Will try once back. Do you need to have VIP membership in FF for that?
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No not at all! I don't have vip either
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Ok. I will go through the screenshot and try to update.
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Feelin better Skyblue. Just nasally and abit worn out.Quote:
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I'm hoping my swab comes back clear for next week as I MUST get back to work. No more leave up my sleeve for time off.
There hasn't really been much more communication between me and my DH trying again. ATM its been crazy so Id rather wait til things are settled. Neither of us have booked in anytime soon for permanent birth control so i figure I still have access 😂
I was reading up on the Cyprus clinics for HT And their cycles were approx $9500 AUD. I think with meds, flights and accommodation it would be about $15-$20k. To be honest I would totally go down that road to guarantee the next be a girl but I know my DH would be more hesitant and it still requires us to find that money to start with. The process of HT does scare me abit however I have read through some diaries. I have been praying though for a small win somewhere to fund my dream 😂
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Netti-sorry to hear you aren't feeling well & your poor ds! I'm sure it's not easy being an active 2 year old with a cast!
Skyblue-glad to hear from you! Can't wait for your tests soon. Hoping for tons of BFPs in this group!!!
I think maybe I fixed my chart Moma & pbn, so hopefully it will be more accurate now. I'm 5dpo-almost 6. I have cramping in my side....hope something's going on in there!!
XX-I can't wait to hear your results!!!!!!
Iwant4kids-are you waiting until tomorrow to test again?
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Lola what happens if you leave all temps in and disregard Saturdays only?
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Sky that's so exciting you'll be up next!! You have way more self control than me I'd be poas 7dpo lol but I guess it's not recommended. Frer does say up to 6 days before af or maybe even seven...
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I only see a graph in my FF. It's nothing like everyone else.
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I figured it out. It's because I don't enter temp.Quote:
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Oh ok no worries! So when was your pos opk?
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Are you entering other info other than temps as it should still give you the 3 boxes and cd's etc? Screenshoot me a pic if you can so I see what you mean :)
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Pbn-I tried disregarding Saturday's & looking at diff scenarios, but then it changes the chart to say I o'ed Tues instead of Sat. Pretty certain it was closer to Sat based on dark +OPK, cramps etc...I think my maybe temps were not accurate :(
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It says chart not updated Pbn. [emoji854]
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Yep that works! And so your 5dpo'ish if you oed day after peak and pos opk :) (it's Friday the 31st in Australia) when will you test??!!
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I guess I need to make some changes in order to see my chart. Will spend sometime at night. I am 4dpo as per FF. [emoji52]
What do mean sky? Sorry I'm confused what you mean by needing to make changes to see chart?
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Oh that works. I thought that It didn't.Will update again. It's 30th night here.I am not sure about O since the cramps were there the day after BD. It could be due to BD and stress too I think. When should I test? That's the question. I am so worried and nervous. Just two attempts after solid smiley. What was I thinking?[emoji51]
I still have a few days to go. It says 7 days to Af now. [emoji52] I don't think I will be able to hold for long though. What about you?Quote:
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Oh I am sorry. I meant that I may have skipped a step that's y it's not showing the stage of my cycle like 4dpo. It shows when I goQuote:
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To FF but not in my signature. In the signature it shows chart not updated. Hope I am not confusing you more. [emoji51]
No all good lol!! I wouldn't test any earlier than 8dpo with frers but I used to start at 7dpo 😂
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Lol. It's hard to wait. Isn't it? I still have 4 more days to go. [emoji854]Quote:
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Thanks Lolabelle.
Turns out I had influenza A ugghh just gota hope I can get back to work next Wednesday.
All this serious sickness just keeps reminding how great it is for a girl sway 😂😂😂 ive been on strongs antibiotics though. Im not sure if Ive even ovulated yet I had some suspicion it may have been Thursday as I had really bad pains but im still getting O pains and fertile CM. Maybe I currently am O'ing. Oh well don't think that's enough to convince my DH 😂
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Sky my hubby is gone until Monday evening so I will be testing Tuesday morning 7dpo.... I know it's early so I know not to get upset until 9dpo that's when I got pos with other babies
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Yikes Netti! Get well soon! ...And yes, at least it helps your girl sway :)
Ash-1st time I've wanted to rush the weekend so we can get closer to testing yay!!
I want4kids-can't wait for today's testing update!
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I hope you get better quickly Netti!
Ash and Lola, I can't wait for Tuesday!!
Iwant4kids, wake up and test!! LOL!
I'm so nervous for my IUI today!! DH can't be there with me because he has to work. I just have to lay on the table and have a nurse shoot DH's sperm into me. So. Weird. I think it's amazing the lengths us women are willing to go to in order to get pregnant, lol! It's crazy! I hope I don't have too much cramping afterward.
I don't know what it is about today but I'm feeling so emotional. :sad: My anxiety is horrible!! I'm all over the place! Sometimes I'm excited, then I'm sad, then I'm freaking out, then I'm angry, then back to excited. Holy crap! I'm exhausted and it's only 10am!! Maybe it's grieving since this is my last cycle? I'm definitely still trying to come to terms with it. Sometimes I'm totally ok with it and then I get kind of sad. Nowhere near as sad as I used to, but just a little. I think it's more the thought of letting down DH. He wants a DD more than I do at this point in our journey. He'll be so sad if it doesn't work! He's been telling me that he's been having dreams of what she'll look like and holding her in his arms. UGH!! I'm so sad!!! I wish I could just do this for him!!! We're both so exhausted though. He's doing the same thing as me where sometimes he's fine with being done and other times he gets really sad about it. I definitely can't keep doing this though. It's too emotionally draining to continually have so much heartache. The roller coaster of getting excited at the beginning of each cycle and then complete devastation when af shows up again has taken it's toll on me. Sorry for all the whining. :worry:
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HUGS Moma. It is so so tough. Praying that this is it for you and DH!
Moma-vent anytime :) Positive vibes sent your way!! I'm excited for you!! You've got this :hugs: It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions. It won't be easy, but try your best think positive thoughts and know that you've tried your absolute best to make this happen ...and the rest is out of your control. Fxfxfx soooo hard!! Keep us posted on how it goes.
Thanks ladies! I will definitely keep you posted! :)
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Oh mommamia I'll be thinking of you! I can't wait to get your results! I've been trying to stay calm but it is so hard!! How many times have you done iui? I couldn't even imagine getting to that point
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So DH's sperm count was much lower this time, which makes sense given this is the 4th day in a row of ejaculating, and less than 24 hours since our last bd. Pre-wash his count was 48 million. Post-wash the count was 33 million. His motility was great at 80%! Hopefully 1 sperm will be able to do its freaking job!!!
Ash, this is my second cycle of iui. It's really inconvenient. I've read of women doing like 10 cycles of iui. I would never be able to do that!!! It's so time consuming. My doctors office was running 45mins behind schedule today!! Then after they finally took me back, I had to lay there for 20 mins after the iui. It seemed like forever!! I wish they would have told me when I got there that they were running behind. I would have gone pee and gotten a coffee from the Starbucks in the hospital, lol! Just one more iui tomorrow and then I never have to do it again!!! Yay!!
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GL mommamia I'm hopeful for you!
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Thanks Ash! :)
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Sorry to keep you waiting, BFN so I'm out. My fevers really could have been to blame as they were so high. I think fertilization occurred but no implantation. Good news is that I'll still ovulate and test during April!! So I can stick around
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So sorry Iwant4kids what a bummer I don't like bad news it gets my hopes down ☹️
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Sorry Iwant4kids!! Hopefully next cycle will be the one for you! :D
Sky is up next.... bring us good news!
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Sorry I want4kids :( what dpo are you?
Ash I'm loving those jumps in temp on your chart. Looks like how my bfp chart in November started! Its the temps from 6dpo'ish onwards that count but I think sometimes the first few days temps can be promising which in your case it looks it to me!!
My chart looks very ordinary but this was first cycle taking clomid later so I know it messed with my temps abit... will have to see what happens over next few days but its hard to feel excited when it looks so crappy lol!
Yay for iui number 1 momamia 😀 are you sure you don't have a couple cycles left in you? I can hear in your words that your exhausted for sure but it still sounds like you and dh haven't quite come to terms with stopping. I say this with love and understanding ❤ it's taken me almost a year (11 months) to finally be ready and at complete peace to stop again. I don't know what I'll do if I get a bfp and miscarry again, I think this is why I'm so ok with moving on as the uncertainty of a healthy pregnancy if I do get a bfp is always in the back of my mind......
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Yes, I'm sure. The threat of miscarriage is the exact reason I want to stop. I have no idea if I'll ever have a healthy pregnancy again. I definitely need to take a lot of time to focus on me and my kids. I've spent so much time, energy, and money ttc for the last 2 years. It's been the main focus of all of my thoughts and plans. I'm tired of it. We might NTNP eventually but I'm definitely not going to be opk testing, temping, or following any message boards. As much as I care about all of you ladies, it's just too hard to come on here and see all of the women who now have babies (sometimes more than 1) in the time I've been trying. It's just too emotionally draining for me. I have other things in my life that I want to accomplish and have put on hold while we've been ttc. I'm ready to actually finish those things. :) Now that my first iui is done, I'm feeling more at peace. I know that we've put everything into this cycle and have exhausted all of our options. If it doesn't happen this cycle, I'll be ok. We've also already decided that DH is getting a vasectomy at age 40. That's 5 years from now. What will be, will be. I'm done thinking about it.Quote:
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