UK SMOG Wannabes - November (moved from PL)

Aww happy birthday to your sOn inglewood!

Deaks good luck with upur sway! And Indego fingers crossed you got it this month! Have everything crossed for your bfp's girls!!

We've had all three boys this weekend! It's actually been quite calm and nice for a change lol! There was an art and craft fair here Saturday, we took them all with Nanny, the boys it to see Santa, and
Reindeer and held an owl! They had a great time! I didn't even get to walk about the show :( it was so busy it was really hard work getting the pram around!
We've also had the older boy cut out bits from the Argos catalogue an make a Xmas list! That was fun!
They are 6&8 and pretty much want the same stuff! Btw if it ever gets a bit confusing me talking about the older boys they are both called Tommy! Me and dp have been friends for 14 years and both had a son from previous relationships, my Tommy is eldest, dp's is youngest! It's confusing at times even for me lol!

I've been cleaning no end this weekend! Getting this bfp has spurred me on to sort our house out, I want it all homely and nice for when baby arrives! Glad I've found something to motivate me lol!

My bp went up to 97 as had ds1 birthday party yesterday and found out dh has spent another £300 on his credit card ( took revenge by transferring all the joint account money into my ISA ) so mad at him! Plus I have been ignoring mil but after her emailing me as if nothing ever happened I replied to her. I told her I look five months gone and have put on two pounds. She asked if I was having twins! I ever anyone was asking for smack in the chops it's her! Everything she does and says grates on me.

FX for you attempts ladies Indigo and Deaks and anyone else i have missed x sorry still bleurgh.....much love to all x x

hugs maybe - my DH has been a twat with his card again too why do men never learn - i wish it was different and i was the one spending money and him telling me to stop but that is never going to happen i have to be the boring sensible one and do the worrying :( hope you are ok x x Sorry MIL being a cow again x x

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Originally Posted by maybebabythree

My bp went up to 97 as had ds1 birthday party yesterday and found out dh has spent another £300 on his credit card ( took revenge by transferring all the joint account money into my ISA ) so mad at him! Plus I have been ignoring mil but after her emailing me as if nothing ever happened I replied to her. I told her I look five months gone and have put on two pounds. She asked if I was having twins! I ever anyone was asking for smack in the chops it's her! Everything she does and says grates on me.

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Maybe, my ds1 was 9 yest, is ur ds1's b'day the 19th too???

Sorry to hear ur Dh has been spending again and ur MIL is still being a pain! x

Ds1 was eight on the 10th so we have just been really bad at aranging a party! That's the problem with the boys being born three weeks apart.

Charlie I could seriously kill my husband. I just can never trust him. I have my own savings so it's not bad but I don't want to be the one who saves while he acts like a Pratt. I want do the house up but decided the only way is he pays for that or we go 50:50. God knows what I will do with my savings but he certainly never any benefit from it! I am not paying anything off the mortagae or deposit for a new house or holiday or sod all that he would share in. Might buy a 4x4 and run the idiot over with it. I told him to leave today and find himself another woman who has low esteem and brain functionality like him - but alas he is still here! It's his house too so I can't throw him out lol! Trying to think of some revenge now...

Maybe my oh is the same, some how last month he managed to waste over £500 and I honestly couldn't tell u what he brought! I've taken his bank card off him, it's rediculous!
We don't have any savings at the moment but I've been trying to get some together and he just goes and spends it! He wants to breed our lab this month as well. That's going to cost a fortune but I suppose the financial reward can be good.
I'm not sure about it yet!

Hi all, just a quicky again...dont know where today has gone!

Cant believe it.... after 10 months of swaying my ewcm finally seems to be behaving itself!!! i got my smiley and my ph is still 4.4-4.6!!!!!! sooo happy as it means that if i cant get pg soon doing 0+12, then i could potentially dtd over ov! Hope it stays low tomorrow too. must be the acidiphilus as its the only thing i am doing differently!!

Maybe- sorry your mil is being annoying still!

Also excited as i bought my secret santa pressie today! i know its a bit premature as i dont know who i have yet but i figured so many of us have similar taste and if i get someone with different taste, i will just have to keep it for myself!!! Btw, sorry in advance for not attempting something homemade!

Kell I have dh cards too. I earnt about £500 in over time last month and now I don't know why I bovered. Makes me feel like I am the stupid one! I could have got a credit card and drawn out £500 with no effort just like him! Thing is I feel guilty spending myself. Must feel nice to be so selfish all the time. I would love to really hurt him but I just can't do it. wish I could just so he knows how it feels.

hmm - whats up with our Nest tickers?

Oh don't get me started on MIL again! How can 2lbs be twins??? serioulsy??? I might tell her I was so concerned about my massive weight gain that I mentioned it to the consultant and he has signed me up for slimming world (you go on that free while PG BTW) with the aim to lose 2 stone before baby is born and I have a apointment to discuss a gastic bypass six months post birth. Just tell the old boot what ever she want sto hear. Not the reality of I probably will not have a normal weight baby even if but on 20 stone as my stupid placentas never work. And why would I want to take parenting advice from a woman who raised a man who can't live within his means an another who can't keep his d*ck in his pants??

Again..... gggrrrgghhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!