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I love hearing that your sway didn't include vitex the month you got your bfp! I didn't use it at all -- the month we conceived, I did soy isoflavones and that's about it. Well, except for our unintentional 5 day cut off lol, but I don't believe timing sways. We just thought there was no chance for us that month! So it's encouraging to see someone who is having a girl with a light sway!
Congrats on the healthy bean Spinning :) It must be such a relief to have seen the heartbeat.
HBP i am so happy for you, we are on opposite times so i woke up this morning to read through about 8 pages of excitement, this is so much better than being in the ttc threads! Your daughters name is just so pretty, im sure you cant wait to go get her all the pink stuff :) Congrats again on your successful sway and the daughter you have been wishing for.
I just told my kids about the baby. My oldest was getting nervous because I'm always sick and he thought something was wrong with me...love him. Do you think it was too soon?
Not at all its fine to tell the siblings whenever you feel its right. We told ours the day we got a BFP, maybe that was too soon, but we just felt like they should know, and they are all very excited about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
Thank you Cinss!!
Aww y'all are gonna make me cry! You're all so sweet! Thank you :). And hbp, I am beyond thrilled that you have your DG, as I'm sure everyone here is!! Even though mine is an 'opposite', I sure hope everyone else gets theirs too :D
We told all of ours right after getting a bfp, because the two that are home with me all day (we homeschool my 3rd and 5th graders) were going to have to help out more, and they needed to know why I was already so sick. So I think it's okay. Ours are old enough to understand that there are risks at this stage.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
Once I opened my mouth I got worried about the risks and how I'd explain it to them. I pray this baby is ok. He or she is very wanted in this family!!
I hope my attitude is a quarter of what yours is. You truly are an inspiration. Glad to have you in this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by mrshonyez
With our 2yo, at 10 weeks I woke up at 3am in a pool of blood. I'm not exaggerating. It looked like a murder scene. We had to take my two youngest with us to the er to see if we had lost the baby. After that, I didn't worry so much about what we would tell them if the worst happened, just because they had to experience it with us whether we had told them or not. I don't know of that makes sense or not, but I realized if we hasn't told them, we still would have had to explain what had happened.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
You will be fine and at this point, I think it was a good time to tell them. Especially if your sweet oldest was worried!