Ladybugs: one thing comes seldom alone. I hope your brother is going to get completely well, just a little shaken and bruised..
AFM, thank you for your kind words of encouragement. I believe we did see girl bits, but the boy bit pictures are text book examples for me, have put on my mask today, where it will stay, hoping my DH can turn me around somehow.. They bought me pink roses yesterday which I wanted to throw back at them.