No judgement here, Hobber - I honestly don't know what I'd do if I found out my child had Downs. Hopefully I'll never find myself in that situation.
Personally, I don't see the need for an amnio if all your tests have come out good. It's a very personal decision, though. I know in the past they recommended that all women over 35 get them, but my mw said that now they don't usually recommend them until you're over 40. I'm 37 and have had 3 healthy kids, so I hope the odds are in my favour :pray:.