Nahri- I just feel so happy that this could be my long awaited and prayed for girl! Still have that horrible niggle at the back of my mind saying don't rush ahead yet, could still be a boy! :sigh:
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Nahri- I just feel so happy that this could be my long awaited and prayed for girl! Still have that horrible niggle at the back of my mind saying don't rush ahead yet, could still be a boy! :sigh:
Loving all the sway results ladies congratulations
don't worry it's the same thing with all the boy sways. i haven't seen one boy swayer in the last 3 months say they are having another girl...i feel like i will be the first to break the streak. even though that's a completely irrational thought (someone else getting a boy doesn't affect my chance of one, obviously), it's a very common one to have.Quote:
Originally Posted by happy1981
Thank you ladies for your support!!! I've kept myself busy all weekend so haven't had much time to worry actually.
What I am most scared of is not actually having another boy, I'm scared of my own reaction to having another boy. I am scared I won't be able to handle it, become depressed and not feel like I want the baby. My best friend is pregnant too with her first, and even though I'm so happy for her I will be so jealous if she gets a girl and I get a boy. I know that sounds crazy but that's how I feel.
I'm trying every day to get used to the thought of having another boy and that I will be a boy mom, but my mind just doesn't seem to accept it!
Time will tell and at least I will have more than half of the pregnancy to work on the GD before the baby arrives!
Missxo congratulations! I'm so excited and happy for you!
That's exactly how I think when people have girls, I get boys lolQuote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
I feel sort of resigned to the fact I'm having another boy and will never have a girl. What I can't handle is other peoples reactions. I'm allowed to feel how I feel but other people don't have the right to say anything stupid or insensitive! I just want them to be happy for us and keep their opinions and comments to themselves. I'm going public next week so we'll see how we go!Quote:
Originally Posted by happy1981
Me+4- when is your next scan? Other people are what makes me feel worse. With DS2 it was really hard. When he was born tho nobody made anymore comments.
My DH has agreed to let me have an early gender scan after going on and on ;) so it's booked for sat the 7th of March!!! Scared is an understatement! I wanted to go alone but knew DH would be so sad if he wasn't there (as I would be shoe on other foot) just don't want to deal with gender disappointment again. It hurts so bad as you all know.
When I had my last boy and went public I put it on Facebook and it went like this .......I'm pregnant 24 weeks yes its a boy and yes I'm happy if you can't congratulate me don't say anything seen as all I got was oh no on my 4th son the response was amazing saying how insensitive people can be ........Quote:
Originally Posted by Me+4
We all go into having a baby excepting 50/50 chances of either gender and although we want a certain one doesn't mean we don't want or love the other with all that we are I found being defensive worked for me last time as I cried with my 4th as not one person other than my mom said congratulations to me
Ok so I had my nt scan today. Good results and baby looked heathy.
Unfortunately I think I saw a boy nub but I don't know if it's visible in these photos.
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