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sadly I didn't win the 80 million on the euromillions lottery this week ladies, but good news is nobody did so next weeks a rollover :)
It would be so lovely to have money and be able to help people that really deserve it.
How are things now, have you told anyone? xxx
if people just kept their mouths shut GD would be that little bit easier to deal with i think.
do people just think we love taking their stupid comments like we're freaks or sad and pathetic for having 7 boys OMG
everyone always has an opinion and when you've heard BOY 7 times it's not easy trying to keep it together and look like we are thrilled when all we wanted to hear was "IT'S A GIRL" just ONE time
and when you say you dont know the gender they think you're lying and really having a boy but dont want to say it.
will your dh's agree to more babies? mine says no and i did promise to have my tubes tied after this baby but im hoping he doesnt even bring the subject up because i desperately want one more try
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Originally Posted by mumof6
This was our last too!!! But I think I am gonna beg him to go just one last time!!!
Lol, no haven't told anyone yet. My sister keep asking I told her I find out next month. I tell everyone I find out next month. I guess I'll have to be treated like baby boy is a disease next month, and start to going off on folks :mad:Quote:
Originally Posted by crazyladyneedsababy
the comments make healing worst. The main comment oh keep trying, are you gonna have more I'll say Im gonna have 7 more lol. another dumb comment aww another wild boy. my husband actually said no more, well he said that after #5 our 2nd child together lol. I did tell him I was gonna get the tubal but decided not to. I am gonna get iud. I would say talk it over with him before deciding on having it done for sure.Quote:
Originally Posted by mumof6
Sorry you didn't get to hear pink. I can't imagine how you feel, Im desperate for a girl after only two boys. I really hope that you will get your girl one day.
I also hate the pressure that family and friends give you over having the opposite sex, yes it would be lovely but if not then the next boy will be loved all the same.
I love the name Ashton, ds2 is called that and he is a right little cheeky monkey. X x x
it's the smallest things that set off the GD - if people just would leave it be it would be a hell of a lot easier for us to cope.
i'm always asked if i'll have any more? sometimes i say no way and others i say maybe we'll see.
i have no intention of having my tubes tied i was planning on iud and having one more try at convincing dh in about 3 or 4 years time with #8 i think he will cave since he has been like this with all of our kids - he only ever wanted 2 so any more after that i have had a struggle to get him to agree to ttc.
we have told everyone we arent finding out - i have my anatomy scan next thurs to confirm our boy and plan to go on a little shopping spree after since my youngest ds will be in childcare and all my other boys will be at school so i have the day to myself.
I hope and pray that one day us 7 boy mummys will hear "it's a girl" after waiting so long and seeing everyone else get baby girls i think we damn well deserve it - it's one thing to hear boy 3 or 4 times but to hear it 7 times is a real kick in the backside and is heartbreaking to the point that not everyone understands what it is like. I feel hopeless and I feel like a total failure because i've managed to disappoint not only myself and my dh but my whole family because i cannot produce that one girl that everyone is expecting of me.
Omg you nailed it, I feel the same put me to tears no one knows how deep the pain gets. I also feel like a failure :(Quote:
Originally Posted by mumof6
nothing will ever make that pain go away besides having that girl - sometimes i think i'm selfish and sometimes i think the NEED is so strong that someone is playing some cruel trick on me and doing this to me on purpose iykwim? probably irrational but a very real feeling.
some can make peace with it but i just cant - i'm an emotional wreck and dh gets so angry at me.
all i can offer is *Hugs* and the knowing that there are at least 2 other people here knowing exactly what i am going through makes me feel like i'm not entirely going through this alone and i have somewhere to sound off when things just dont make sense
Aww I know what you mean! I want a girl so bad it's so hard to let go. Plenty of people tell me give up it's not meant to be. That hurts to hear. I do feel like someone put root or something on me lol. All I hear adopt a girl,is it really that easy? It's an emotional rollercoaster I do not wanna go through, I must say I was actually adopted but never felt like an equal compared to her biological kids. So no mother daughter bond, that why I want one with my own daughter. I want to conceive and carry and birth my own daughter, hope that don't sound bad. I pray us mom's of 7 boys finally get our long awaited girls we so deserve! Glad to know I am not alone.Quote:
Originally Posted by mumof6