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Oh my, what a terrible, unfair decision to have to make!!! Hugs, thinking of you!


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I'm so sorry you are having to make such a heartbreaking decision... But you are giving baby A the best chance of survival. My thoughts are with you. Xxx

So sorry to read this :( will keep praying for you xx

I am so sorry to hear this. I know your heart must be breaking but I do think you are doing the right thing even if it doesn't feel 100% right. Please keep us updated on how you are doing. I will be thinking about you... so sorry you and your family have to go through this:(

Oh mama so so sorry to hear this. My baby had a form of anencephaly and there are no chances of survival. Not one baby has survived anencephaly. It's such a cruel and gruesome thing to go through. I had the pregnancy terminated (that sounds horrible, but we did it so we could end our babies suffering) and didn't have to deal with the health of another baby. I know of one mama who was pregnant with twins and one of the twins didn't have kidney's, which is also fata. She carried both to term and her son passed away during labour. She got to hold her child, hug him, kiss him, say goodbye. I think that is worth more than money can buy. Babies with anen usualy survive the full 9 months, only to pass during or shortly after labour. But I don't know how the chances of the other twin are. I know anen occurs more in twin pregnancies, so there should be info out there about this. Oh mama I'm rambling, I don't know what your best option would be. This is heartbreaking. Will be thinking of you and your babies xx

My heart breaks for u. Am so sorry to hear of ur troubles :-(

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O, sweetie, what devastating news...
An 'online friend' of mine went to the exact same thing. She didn't feel she had a choice but to terminate the life of one baby. The risk of continuing pregnancy with both baby's was too high, she felt. Everything went well! I hope this nightmare is over soon.


I will pray everything will turn out fine for baby A, and i'll pray for courage and strength for you.

Thank you mamas for your thoughts and prayers! I have a level four sonogram on Wednesday and meet with the MFM specialist who will perform the selective termination. As much as I read on it, nothing can prepare me for that event. Just thinking of it I cringe- Baby A thankfully is good, but just don't know how all these "invasive" procedures will affect the remainder of the pregnancy. All I can do is "let go and let God" and see what will happen! I started this journey wanting a little girl, now I just want my baby A and mourn for my baby B!

:broken: I am so heartbroken for you honey, I am so sorry, sending love and prayers to you and your family :HH:

Wow Jewelle, what a heartbreaking update. 💔

I have no advice but I'm sending you all my thoughts and prayers. 💛💛

What a horrible decision and situation for any mum to have to go through and I pray that all goes as well as it can on Wednesday. xxx