February 2ww

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Originally Posted by ladybug

Thanks for your support ladies....AF arrived in full force this am....I will try one more month and then that's it I'm DONE....I turn 37 next month and I have been trying for almost a year and hubby is ready to quit because of what this is doing to me emotionally...I never knew how hard TTC could be!!!

Good luck ladies....I hope to see lots of BFP's this month

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I TOTALLY know how you feel. I am really in the same boat. We may not ever get pg naturally anyway, and my DH will be 40 this year (I just turned 36). Time is not on our side. We know the issue is mainly his sperm count, but it is so soul-crushing each month. It does suck when you have to ttc for a while.....I got pg not even ttc before, and even was so concerned with preventing for so long, and now, I can't get pg to save my life. I'm with ya, Ladybug. Hopefully we will get a miracle baby this next month and our woes will be over! We gotta think positive!

Officially in the 2ww now...let the time standing still madness begin! Ugh! I think 12dpo will be Feb 22 for me when I first plan to test...seems forever away!!!

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Originally Posted by ladybug

Thanks for all the support ladies..I appreciate it....I am not really swaying except for the diet and 1 tube of rephresh early in my cycle....I did soy this past cycle....I will do soy again this month as well as baby aspirin....

Good Luck ladies :), I am cheering you on!

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I've heard great things about baby aspirin...I read someone say once (either on this board or IG...I can't remember) that they had 2 chemicals in a row, then the next month they added baby aspirin and got a sticky BFP :) FX for next cycle for you!!

BFN/Evap

So sorry OP...hopefully you will be one of those late BFP's...it's not over till AF shows!!

Waiting sucks!!

Now before anyone says anything....I know 3DPO is way too soon for symptoms....but...I have been checking my CP for years now, a few times a day even when not TTC. Mine is always really, really low. It goes high for O, but then back down for the rest of the month. Even during O I can still reach it and feel the opening without massive effort. 1DPO it dropped low and firm like normal...then yesterday it went up high again...today it is that high that I can't even reach it without acrobatics and even then I can't reach the opening at all! This NEVER happens except during pregnancy. Isn't it way too early for that to happen even if I am pregnant??

PoP - i am not too sure about that, i haven't really done alot of research on the CP, all i do know is that it should go HSO like you describe when you are Oing, to let more of the little guys in. Then after O it should close up to avoid any bacteria or anything else going in there. If you are pregnant your body will form the mucous plug in there as a protective barrier to keep everything else out. So i know you got your +opk on Friday, how are they looking today?

+ was tues night and wed. Was fully -ve by Thursday. I am pretty sure I Oed on wed evening as I had heaps of ewcm and CP was SHO, and by mid morning thurs CP was low and firm. CM was gone.

Today (sat) CP is that high I thought maybe my uterus fell out over night lol. After much struggling I found it high soft and closed. Not normal for me to be that high at all.

Ladybug, I am so sorry :(

OnlyPraying, sorry about the BFN. When is AF due? It's not over yet!

POP, I'm not sure about the cervix during pregnancy. I know when I O'd this cycle I couldn't even reach my cervix. This has never happened before so hopefully it's a good sign for us both.

Hi Ladies - jumping in. Sorry have been away for awhile. Work's been kicking my ass. I am 4dpo and back in the waiting game. 9dpo is our wedding anniversary and DH has planned a date night. Its too early to test and I wasnt sure if I should have any alcohol. Any thoughts?