I can see a line, hitme!!! :)
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I can see a line, hitme!!! :)
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Pbn - here's my chart. http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/08...24f97c5f95.jpg
Thanks two. That's what I thought. So hopefully my O-2 attempt gets is that BFP! And woo hoo about your results! Great news for that and your positive opk :) Now go get busy!
Momamia - look at my chart, it's similar to yours as far as temps right around O. I had that same dip after the first elevated temp. Based on mine, I think you O'd on CD 18 instead of 16. So definitely not out yet.
Hitme - hoping your line is a true BFP! I can see it :)
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Netti hope everything turns out ok with your son
Two -Goodluck hope this is your cycle[emoji3]
Momamia - so sorry hope that is the case that you o'd later
Hitme- fx looks like a line to me [emoji2]
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It's all I can do not to run into town and get the FRER. What a mind fack. I woke up in the middle of the night needing my heating pad the cramps are so bad, and was so convinced it was over for me, then this morning im all hopeful again.
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Hitme!!! I see a line! Go get a FRER and keep us updated :) fx!Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
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Yaybaby, I agree!! I'm going to tell myself that I'm only 9dpo and keep some hope, lol!!!
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Here's my chart thus far. I also feel i Od one day later than FF thinks.
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I'll try and hold out til tomorrow. Im 9dpo and af usually comes by 10 dpo but each month it gets a little longer or so it seems (thank god, but time will tell)Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
Im feeling awfully pre-menstrual but I guess the symptoms are all from progesterone so it's hard to know what's up. I'll pick the test up tonight and test in the morning.
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Oh!! I def see something and I usually can't see squinters on the inverse pics!!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
:fx: for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
:fx: for you!!Quote:
Originally Posted by YayBaby678
The deed is done :bigsmile: No female climax and I intended to J&D after 5 mins but... I kinda lost track of time and J&Dd after about 30 mins :oops: In the final stretch of the wait to O and then the wait to test begins! :nails:
I am curious to see what my post-o temps will look like since they are so high pre-o this cycle!
I agree with you... I think you Od a day later based on temps though your one little "sticky" CM does give me pause... it is possible that both you AND FF are right and you O'd shortly before the temp taken the day FF has marked as O, but temp wise I agree with your assessment.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
Mine turned out to be a chem last cycle but the day I believe was implant day I felt exactly like you are describing. Full-on AF cramps, backache, etc. Keeping my :fingers: for you to get a darker BFP tomorrow.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
FX Hitme!!! I can't wait to see your FRER!!!
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Thanks mama
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Ok so I have a TMI question - have you girl swayers been completely avoiding the big O? I've been avoiding it when DTD but that is really getting old fast so on CD 20 I ended up taking matters into my own hands (literally [emoji16]) since I thought I had already O'd on CD 18. Well now it looks like CD 20 was O day and I'm nervous I screwed up my sway. How much do you think it matters? Especially since it wasn't when DTD? For you blue swayers that have girls, did you avoid the big O when you conceived your girls?
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Well I had several big O's with DS1, none with DS2 (too depressed about my miscarriage and it taking a bit to get pregnant), and none with DS3 that I'm currently pregnant with.
I would say it's no magic bullet and you will be fine. It's one of those things that is hard to tease out the effect of considering all that everyone does to sway.
FX and GL!!!
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Last cycle I avoided climax completely until after O. I had planned to avoid all cycle but couldn't take it anymore so I just "let go" while DTD and let myself get there and I didn't regret it either lol. This cycle I climaxed the last time we DTD (5 days ago) but avoided this time. Personally I think it is an easy way to sway, but I am not gonna drive myself off the deep end, going crazy like I did last cycle. If I had climaxed this time I would wouldn't have stressed about it, I just didn't and I didn't force the matter. I wasn't "in the mood" to begin with lol so I just enjoyed it for what it was and when it was over I just let it go. I climaxed the night we conceived our angel DD so I don't think it has any strong sway elements to it... it is just an easy thing to add in if you can tolerate it. I think stressing over the fact that you did will sway much stronger than the climax itself! :fx: for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by YayBaby678
I climaxed a few times bding. I'm over it. I can't get my dg if I can't get pg. Plus, I am frustrated with the whole thing. I figure a few times won't do much.
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I cannot enjoy sex on Clomid. Im too swollen and uncomfortable that I want it over with. That being said with ds 4 I avoided o bc I read back then it swayed BUT atomic has theories on here that more or less debunk it (and she herself had the big o with dd). I did a poll awhile back too and most people were having the big o and still getting dd
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I think I just might be crazy lol. I am fighting the urge to BD again! I don't think this one attempt thing will ever feel normal to me. I want soooo badly to get preg this cycle.. boy or girl (though obviously I'd be on cloud 9 with a girl!!) for so many reasons.
1: DH's b-day is right around the time I'd deliver. Our angel DD quit growing on DH's B-day this year of all days and I think it bugs him so I think it'd be nice for him to get a baby right around then to take the sting out of a loss on his b-day.
2: As I have said, prob 100 times, I'd like to avoid being preg in May if I can as both my DD and DS loss were confirmed on May 1st 6 years apart so May makes me nervous. This is the last cycle were I know I can avoid being preg in May all together. If I O tomorrow I'd be due May 3rd but because I have to have a scheduled c-section it'll be about a week before then. (might even be able to schedule ON DH's b-day if that is what he wants!)
3: I am freaking impatient lol. I have spent WAY too much of my life TTC. I was over TTC before I even started. I am ready to have a new baby in my arms already!!
So hard not to BD again...
Two... I agree, it's hard to not just try try try.. The one attempt thing makes odds feel so much lower (which I guess is the point.) ugh. I feel ya.
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Thanks ladies, I'm going to try not to stress about it. Usually it's no problem for me to avoid the big O, as I rarely seem to be in the mood lately. But of course the cycle when I already thought I ovulated, it ends up happening.
Two - I can definitely see how you are torn. Every month I question if we should just go for an attempt everyday or just shoot for one. If I don't get a BFP this month, we're going for at least 2 attempts next month. Maybe since you're taking clomid and that sways girl, you could go for an extra attempt and still be ok?? I would honestly try to just stick with the one if you think you can do it though.
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Two - I know exactly how you feel; my thoughts are this: if you're doing every 4 days, and you get s pos OpK on day 3, Id probably add the attempt. I was first doing e4d and missed it at 0-3, and 0+1 (ish) and then I missed it doing one attempt also do its so hard to know when that second attempt would be anyways.
Are you thinking maybe. E2d?
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Sway wise I have a lot of things in my favor. Clomid, zantac (which lower nutrient absorption), a "natural" (meaning I don't make it happen, it just does due to some tummy issues)tendency towards malabsorption of nutrients, etc. I won't claim the diet at this point though lol because I haven't been a good little dieter lol. Plus my angel DD was a no-sway baby... no real sway anyway. I was doing some things that sway but they weren't intentional... just worked out that way. For example, we BD'd 5 days before O then again at midnight the night between O-day and O+1 so we had one attempt... but it wasn't intentional... it just happened that way.Quote:
Originally Posted by YayBaby678
I don't really know whether to give in to increase my odds of a BFP or stand strong and fight the urge to increase my odds of a PINK BFP (assuming I get a BFP at all this cycle...).
Honestly? I am thinking more like every 2 HOURS :rofl: that is an exaggeration, obviously, but knowing I could O tomorrow or as much as 2-3 days from now, I am kinda wanting to DTD again tonight or tomorrow evening. It's crazy, I know, but with all things considered it is hard to weigh which I want more... a halfway decent sway or to throw caution to the wind and just do everything I can to get that BFP.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
I feel you. I call my sway a wishy washy sway. Loads of diet cheats, started off strong with cardio, went couch last 2 cycles, Frequency changes, diet changes... Nothing will be consistent or measurable one way or another. I REALLY with ALL I have hope I nailed it this time. I can't deal anymore. Idk how some of these ladies do it for a year or so.... I marvel at them.
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I think I'd quit trying to sway long before then! Yikes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
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Hitme - how many months have you been ttc? I feel you, no way can I do this for a year without losing my mind. My sway is definitely wishy washy too, especially since this is our fourth month trying and I started swaying 6 weeks prior to that.
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I've had 3 full attempts, and the sway period leading up to my first ttc was a 58 day cycle so my swaying plans were in effect for awhile.
I guess I was hardcore swaying 8 wks before attempt 1. I started skipping meals and practicing eating at the right times in JAN, by March/April I was doing the diet properly, avoiding all te boy foods (of most often anyways). So 5 months of true swaying Id say.
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Im hotter than hades today. Feel so flushed even though it's not a hot day here.
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Gotta "love" hot flashes. *~*Cool vibes*~*Quote:
Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
OPKs are driving me nuts! Yesterday's super dark morning... Then white last night.... Had our attempt and today it's a positive again lol not as dark as yesterday morning but still a positive.
What gives?
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Mine did that to me once... very frustrating. FX for an O very soon!
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Are you temping too Lauren?
At least you know your attempt is probably good!
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No temping... I get up out of bed way too much to even try that. I'm thinking I should stick to our one attempt last night.... I'm hoping it was close enough in either direction.
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You may have already O'd and not know it then (since you don't temp). I'll attach my chart that had the +, -, + on it. I actually O'd on the day in between the +'s. Back then I tested until O was confirmed because I hadn't been charting long enough to be 100% I O'd before 3 elevated temps. I had been charting for a few years but that amounted to only a handful of cycles and even fewer ovulatory cycles. I'll never understand HOW it happened, but it did!Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
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So do you think my attempt last night Inbetween positive tests was good??Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
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So do I, and I don't temp at the same time every day, and sometimes get less than 4hrs total let alone in a row, but the shift after o is usually big enough to show it. Here you can see the circles that are open are at inconsistent times http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/08...666b4dcad3.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
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And one other
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