I feel you!
Even though you know nubs can be wrong at 12 weeks, you just want everything to point in the direction of blue! I hope you get your results back asap! Sending you all my blue dust!!!
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I feel you!
Even though you know nubs can be wrong at 12 weeks, you just want everything to point in the direction of blue! I hope you get your results back asap! Sending you all my blue dust!!!
Yes! Lol exactly and thank you [emoji170] ill trade you for my pink [emoji175][emoji175][emoji175]Quote:
Originally Posted by ProudMom90
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I am torturing myself checking mychart even though I know results take longer than a few days [emoji17] and I'm setting myself up for heartbreak because all I am imagining is hearing they found Y for a boy [emoji24][emoji24]
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How do you get your results? Is it on a portal? I am making myself not thjnk about it at all as I’m so scared about jinxing it by letting myself imagine I hear pink, but also then I don’t want to be realistic and think it could be blue because I feel like I’m jinxing it with negative thoughts then - ARGH! I was told 5-7 working days so not expecting it until next week. It’s been a week since I sent sneak peek back now and not heard anything :(Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
I have a mychart account with my hospital so as soon as they update the notes in my test results I will be able to see it. I have no idea if they will update their notes or call me first so I've been checking anyway [emoji28] they used Harmony so there's no portal or anything just what they write in my chart.Quote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
Im in the exact same as you. All I can imagine is hearing blue but then I know it might be pink and I tear up [emoji24] im so torn between we did really well and we didn't do enough. Guess we will know soon enough! I hope one of your test results comes in soon and it is what you want to hear. And I hope your results match so you don't have to worry about which is correct [emoji175]
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Hello ladies,
Hope you all are doing good. I was away for long time from the forum as was not feeling too well due to nausea and weakness then sone family emergency came. I had a scan last week at 11 weeks 5 days and they said everything looks normal . I did my NIPT too on 25th Nov and still waiting for the results. Suddenly radiologist updated my last week ultrasound report stating that baby could have neural tube defects and need to recheck . I had a bad panic attack as due to the previous losses I am already very nervous and not able to enjoy this pregnancy. I was sent to the hospital to repeat the ultrasound with a high risk doc to check the measurements again , and need to do some more genetic counseling. Baby was measured ahead as 12 weeks 7 days , as per my LMP I am 12 weeks 2 days. As per high risk doc she didn’t see any neural tube defects and want to repeat the ultrasound at 16 weeks, I am really confused and depressed at the moment and hoping for the best results.I feel like I am sitting in the middle of nowhere. Please keep me in your prayers! Though after looking at jumping baby my heart believes that baby is perfectly fine and doc had some confusion. I truly believe that I will bring this baby home , sorry for the long post. I am attaching my lil bean pic here! I am leaning towards a girl as I have feeling it’s a girl, however I am praying for a healthy baby. My elder daughter is almost 8 as desperately needs a sibling https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202...ba8c8cbc4c.jpg
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Ugh I'm so sorry you are going through that! I really hope they did just need to double check and babe is perfectly healthy. I will be praying for healthy babe and hopefully you hear your dream gender from the NIPT [emoji177]Quote:
Originally Posted by g.pooja812
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G.Pooja I really hope everything is ok - never nice to have any worries.
I have my nipt results back but I’m too scared to open them (and it’s dark already here so can’t go to my field!!!)
So terrified. This is where my GEnder dreaming may end or come true.
I should add someone from the clinic called me to say results are all clear - but the gender will be on the report in email. I would obviously open it straight away if I was concerned about the results!
I feel so physically sick knowing the answer is there.
AHHHH! So exciting but no nerve wracking. You are definitely stronger than me I would have looked straight away! I really really hope it is what you are wanting. We are all here for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
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Oh my god it says girl. I’m shaking so much I can hardly type.Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
Atomic is this really reliable? In order to give myself false hope incase it was a boy result I’ve read loads of false nipt results but obv the stories are of dramatic ones. Can I really dare to believe this is true???
AHHHHHH! CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm so happy and excited for you. Obviously atomic will answer when she sees but usually the wrong results happen when the sample js contaminated with Y causing a false male. Or when it is done too early and not enough fetal fraction was collected so if they gave you results I'm sure there was enough and that it is reliable! [emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175][emoji175]Quote:
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Thank you!! I am hoping and praying - still shaking!!!! Decided not to tell anyone else though until 20 week scan to have it 100% reconfirmed and also to enjoy the little secret just the two of us knowing. So unbelievably happy!!Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
Yes it is as reliable as it gets RD!! Huge congrats!Quote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
the majority of the false NIPT results (at least the ones I've seen) involve a person who has an ultrasound, often done too early or done on themselves, or by their mom who retired 20 years ago, or by the receptionist at the doc's office after hours, or in one case by a veterinarian) and then they choose to believe the ultrasound and not the NIPT. So you have a sketchy ultrasound and a probably-correct NIPT (and in most cases the person will never come back to update) In a couple cases there was something genetically wrong with the baby like it had XXY chromosomes. But the vast, vast majority of the time the NIPT has been spot on. You're having a girl!
Congratulations, really so happy for you [emoji175]Quote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
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Congratulations. Very happy for you [emoji4].Quote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
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I've been on edge waiting for NIPT results and am dying having to wait all weekend now [emoji24][emoji24] I feel like everyday that passes just solidifies that it won't be good news
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Aaaaaah sooo happy for you!!!
You must be overjoyed❤️ I understand the shaking, your wish has come true!
Have you posted your sway yet?
Omg im so so happy for you!!
4 more nights of sleep and then we have our ultrasound and find out too!
Im so so nervous. Hope I can join you in pink happiness!
Hang in there polaris!Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
Hang in there! I have heard of others who had their results a lot later than usual. Maybe due to covid it just takes a little longer. Hold on, you can do it!!
And Im sure everything will be ok with the little one!
Ya doc called me next day and said that high risk doctor doesn’t think that baby has any defect as such. That made me feel better, again going on Thursday to meet high risk doctor , she will repeat the ultrasound for sure so praying hard that everything should be good. Anxiously waiting for NIPT results to be good .Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
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Wow, that’s a great news! Really happy for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
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gpooja, what is going on?? I can't find your original post?!Quote:
Originally Posted by g.pooja812
Hey don’t worry , everything will be good. These days NIPT taking time. I went for blood work for 25th Nov and still waiting for the results . My doc sent the sample to Myriad.. do you know where did they send your sample? I am praying you should get your results back soon with your desired gender. Be positive, everything will be good.Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
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Hey Atomic,Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
Thanks for checking back on me. I had a scan last week at 11 weeks 5 days and they said everything looks normal . I did my NIPT too on 25th Nov and still waiting for the results. Suddenly radiologist updated my last week ultrasound report stating that baby could have neural tube defects and need to recheck . I had a bad panic attack as due to the previous losses I am already very nervous and not able to enjoy this pregnancy. I was sent to the hospital to repeat the ultrasound with a high risk doc to check the measurements again , and need to do some more genetic counseling. Baby was measured ahead as 12 weeks 7 days , as per my LMP I am 12 weeks 2 days. As per high risk doc she didn’t see any neural tube defects and want to repeat the ultrasound at 16 weeks, I am really confused and depressed at the moment and hoping for the best results.I feel like I am sitting in the middle of nowhere.
But now feel lil relaxed now knowing that my MFM doesn’t think that there is any defect. Still lil anxious . Praying hard for my sticky bean
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Also attaching my ultrasound here which was done recently. I am leaning more towards girl.. what do you think?Quote:
Originally Posted by g.pooja812
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What was the specific criteria they were concerned about?
Praying for good news on the upcoming ultrasound!
I personally think the nub is rising and would guess boy on this.
Radiologist updated my ultrasound report after one week saying that possible abnormality of distal spine however when I met the doc after the ultrasound they didn’t show any concern. I really don’t know how come after a week they gave me this kind of study. I had a panic attack after hearing this so was rushed to the hospital. There I met the high risk doctor who did my ultrasound again . She almost spent an hour to check everything to make sure that they are not missing anything. After her thorough study she assured me that she doesn’t she any neural tubal defect or anything and baby is doing absolutely fine . Baby was measuring ahead and was fully active. I got a call from the my doctor later on and she said that I would trust high risk doctor , so if she said everything is fine then everything should be ok. I am really confused with these statements. Going for an ultrasound again next week with the high risk doctor as already had a scheduled appointment for consultation. I hope I would get my NIPT results by then. Praying for the best. Please keep me in your prayers.
Thank you so much once again for always being so kind and supportive.
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Really hoping today is the day for you. That must've been a long weekend waiting. Will have everything crossed for you this week.Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
Thank you [emoji173] they sent it to Harmony and last time they got them with in 3 business days I know with Covid everything has been slow but I'm climbing the walls waiting lol. I have been praying everything turns out alright with your babe. It seems like they just needed to take a closer look at something and I'm very happy for you that your ultrasound leaned boy [emoji170]Quote:
Originally Posted by g.pooja812
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Thank you me too! It has been a very long weekend and I couldn't sleep last night because I've been imagining hearing all the different resultsQuote:
Originally Posted by reddevil
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Low risk and it's another girl
As a lot of people have said, I'm happy to have another girl but the fact thats its not a boy and I may never have a son is heart breaking. I feel like I have failed. We changed so much and it still wasn't enough. We weren't really trying but we still changed our lifestyle. We want 4 but I feel it in my heart thats its most likely going to be 4 girls at this point since nothing we have done has helped.
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Oh how nervewracking. I agree that if the high risk doc doesn't see anything to be concerned over I would not worry. I do want you to know that the NIPT ~probably~ would not reveal a neural tube defect as those are not genetic in most cases but they will be able to see on the ultrasound if anything was wrong. :pray: for healthy baby!Quote:
Originally Posted by g.pooja812
Congrats on your new baby girl Polaris!! I'm sorry it wasn't the news you were hoping for.
Thank you so much Atomic! Ya even my doc told me NIPT doesn’t show any neural tube defect . I am really hopeful that all is well this baby and will bring this baby home for my daughter. She is really excited !Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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Thank you! My daughter is really hoping for a baby brother however doesn’t matter for me and my husband . We are praying for a healthy baby even if it’s another girl for us we will be more than happy[emoji3590]Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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Congratulations for the healthy baby Polaris!Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
I am really sorry you didn’t get the desired gender as I know how much you were hoping for it. I am sure with time you will be all good. You are an amazing mother! If you wanna talk to someone please know I am always there! Take care
Sending you virtual love and hugs[emoji8]
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I’m so sorry it wasn’t the news you were hoping for, and totally understand that confusion of not being sad for what you have but what you don’t have. Your girls will be thrilled and a little gaggle of girls will be too cute!Quote:
Originally Posted by polaris.kai
First of all congrats on the low risk!
Sorry to hear you didnt get the gender you desired❤️
Know we are here for you!
Cant believe it...
32 more hours and we find out if we are having a girl or a boy:HH::nails::HH:
Excited and nervous at the same time...
Edit 4pm: lady doing the ultrasound has covid so she has arranged that we can do the ultrasound in another clinic with her colleauge!!! Omg in less than one and a half hours we know!!