Due Sept/Oct/Nov 2016

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Originally Posted by Gagirl0221

Well I found out today that I'm having my 4th girl! I told myself I would not be upset about it and be greatful that my baby is healthy and I have healthy pregnancy. I'm am saddened I will never have a son of my own or be able to give my husband a son. I dread to hear all the comments people make you have 4 girls. All of our friends have boys we are the only ones with girls. I wish now I would have never found out the gender so I could not have to be upset. I'm greatful and very blessed I just don't understand. I swayed did everything I could do for a boy. I know everything happens for a reason just have to accept it and don't question it but it's so hard. Thank you all for listening to me be selfish and vent. This was my pic today I feel it was poor quality for the money I paid. Attachment 31112

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Hugs :( I'm sorry.

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I wish my husband would hurry up and bring my embroidery machine home. I have several things planned for the twins that need embroidering. Grrr! I bought a bunch of plain onesies I want to do applique on, their blankets need their names, etc. I guess I need to start nagging at him for it. I'd drag it home myself, but neither the machine nor stand fit in my car and both things are too heavy for me to lift even if they did.

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Originally Posted by BunnyGirl19

I wish my husband would hurry up and bring my embroidery machine home. I have several things planned for the twins that need embroidering. Grrr! I bought a bunch of plain onesies I want to do applique on, their blankets need their names, etc. I guess I need to start nagging at him for it. I'd drag it home myself, but neither the machine nor stand fit in my car and both things are too heavy for me to lift even if they did.

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I want one of those so badly lol. Will you share some stuff you make once you get it?

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Originally Posted by Gagirl0221

Well I found out today that I'm having my 4th girl! I told myself I would not be upset about it and be greatful that my baby is healthy and I have healthy pregnancy. I'm am saddened I will never have a son of my own or be able to give my husband a son. I dread to hear all the comments people make you have 4 girls. All of our friends have boys we are the only ones with girls. I wish now I would have never found out the gender so I could not have to be upset. I'm greatful and very blessed I just don't understand. I swayed did everything I could do for a boy. I know everything happens for a reason just have to accept it and don't question it but it's so hard. Thank you all for listening to me be selfish and vent. This was my pic today I feel it was poor quality for the money I paid. Attachment 31112

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So sorry:( It will all be ok when she's in your arms.

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Originally Posted by twointow83

I want one of those so badly lol. Will you share some stuff you make once you get it?

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Yep! At the moment I don't have anything fancy planned, but I can't do anything without my machine. LOL

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Originally Posted by Gagirl0221

Well I found out today that I'm having my 4th girl! I told myself I would not be upset about it and be greatful that my baby is healthy and I have healthy pregnancy. I'm am saddened I will never have a son of my own or be able to give my husband a son. I dread to hear all the comments people make you have 4 girls. All of our friends have boys we are the only ones with girls. I wish now I would have never found out the gender so I could not have to be upset. I'm greatful and very blessed I just don't understand. I swayed did everything I could do for a boy. I know everything happens for a reason just have to accept it and don't question it but it's so hard. Thank you all for listening to me be selfish and vent. This was my pic today I feel it was poor quality for the money I paid. Attachment 31112

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I'm so sorry! :( I feel for you, and I hope by finding out early you can be ready and feel less gd when she gets here. Hugs!

I know my uncle and his wife so badly wanted a little boy... and they got 4 girls. Those girls are grown now and the absolute best of friends. They had so much fun growing up that I was always jealous—they put on shows together for family and friends as a "girls" group, they had sleepovers all the time, and as adults did girls night and vacationed together often. Now they're starting to have kids of their own and my aunt and uncle have THREE adorable grandsons. They're loving all the boys things they get to do as grandparents now.

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Originally Posted by Gagirl0221

Well I found out today that I'm having my 4th girl! I told myself I would not be upset about it and be greatful that my baby is healthy and I have healthy pregnancy. I'm am saddened I will never have a son of my own or be able to give my husband a son. I dread to hear all the comments people make you have 4 girls. All of our friends have boys we are the only ones with girls. I wish now I would have never found out the gender so I could not have to be upset. I'm greatful and very blessed I just don't understand. I swayed did everything I could do for a boy. I know everything happens for a reason just have to accept it and don't question it but it's so hard. Thank you all for listening to me be selfish and vent. This was my pic today I feel it was poor quality for the money I paid. Attachment 31112

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I'm right there with you. Well I'm having my 3rd girl and felt I did everything right. I have come to think luck of the draw is a huge part of it. Maybe we can do a small part to help but whichever one gets there first, wins. We only know one family with all girls so I've done a lot of angry comparing. I'm still sad, 3 weeks after find out. I think even when my daughter is here and I'm loving all of them, a part of me will always miss not having a son (especially for my dh). It really has nothing to do with our love for our girls because we know how much we will love and cherish them. It's the loss of the son we dared to hope we might have.

I'm happy to hear you have a healthy girl and I hope everyone is excited and kind to you.

I'm sooo sorry Gagirl0221. The sadness is why I wanted to wait also but then I also didn't want to be sad when I finally met my baby. Hopefully, this will give you time to heal and come to terms.


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I'm sorry gagirl. It hurts huh. I haven't found out for sure, but my nub shot could be the poster shot for a girl. It is very unlikely that I will get the gender I prefer and it does hurt. I'm sorry for your grief. My sister has four girls too and they are very happy even tho they too wished for a little boy. Now they look to the benefits and tell me they are sorry for me that I have one boy in my mix (whatever). Anyway, feel what you feel. It's completely rational to feel sad and disappointed and grief. I hope you can process it before bubs arrives.


Two girls and one boy, due October 16

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Originally Posted by girliedreamz

I'm so sorry! :( I feel for you, and I hope by finding out early you can be ready and feel less gd when she gets here. Hugs!

I know my uncle and his wife so badly wanted a little boy... and they got 4 girls. Those girls are grown now and the absolute best of friends. They had so much fun growing up that I was always jealous—they put on shows together for family and friends as a "girls" group, they had sleepovers all the time, and as adults did girls night and vacationed together often. Now they're starting to have kids of their own and my aunt and uncle have THREE adorable grandsons. They're loving all the boys things they get to do as grandparents now.

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Thank you! I know that it's all in GODs plan and I pray they will all be close. I have been a lil angry today and I'm mad at myself for it bc I said I would not be like that. But I love this lil girl already she will be spoiled just like the rest of them. It's just hard to explain the feeling I feel right now. I am blessed to be a mom at all and to have healthy kids. Thank you for sharing your aunts story with me.