Pearl our 2 current sons and also our expected son all have cousins within 6 months of age. They love it and are really close friends!
Especially after spending more time on this site I think swaying is not for everyone. Even without swaying you always have a chance at either sex and I think some people are much more disappointed by a failed sway then they would be if they had just gotten the same sex again without trying.
I mean don't get me wrong I think this site is fantastic and I think Atomic really knows her stuff but I can understand people who would choose not to sway.