bec i am really sorry. hope to see you back soon..xoxo
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bec i am really sorry. hope to see you back soon..xoxo
Hi everyone. I just got a call from the Dr. about my 12 wk screening, and they said things are good. THe risk for Trisomy18 was something like 1:3000, and the risk for downs was 1:120 (which is good for my age).
I saw what I think was a girl nub at the scan, which really has me down. We were supposed to be team green, so I didn't get a nub shot to post. I am trying to come to terms with having yet another daughter. :(
Hi everyone. I just got a call from the Dr. about my 12 wk screening, and they said things are good. THe risk for Trisomy18 was something like 1:3000, and the risk for downs was 1:120 (which is good for my age).
I saw what I think was a girl nub at the scan, which really has me down. We were supposed to be team green, so I didn't get a nub shot to post. I am trying to come to terms with having yet another daughter. :(
Bec - I'm so very sorry for your loss, hun. xx
Hobbermittens - I'm glad that everything is looking good with your little one, hun. I wouldn't rule out a boy just yet. I was so sure I saw a girl nub with my son. I actually called up my DH and told him we were having a girl. I was so surprised when the doctor told me it was a boy. xx
I really hope this is the case for me! I can't imagine what an awesome feeling that would be.:awe::awe:Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy
Did you find out he was a boy at birth?
Glad results are good Hobbers x
No. I had a CVS and they asked me if I would like to know the gender when the results came back. I have tried team green before and it made my GD worse in a way, because I actually had hope that it could be a boy. I'm crossing everything I can for you Hobbemittens! :heart:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
Hobber I'm so glad that bean is looking healthy! FWIW I would NOT trust your nub view; I mean ... you saw what you saw, but really, you were early on right? Also I just worry that your fear might have biased you to see "girl" because you were so nervous about it. Maybe you're right, but there's also a very big MAYBE that you're wrong. FX that there's a little man growing away in there :)
FWIW I so badly wanted to be team green but like you I was just miserable over the not knowing, because I was sure it was a girl and I was crying anyway so ... I figured at least if I was going to be upset about it, I might as well know FOR SURE that it was DD3. Not saying you shouldn't stay team green though. My GD was really, really bad right before her delivery and I was wishing I didn't know, because I was so worried that it was going to ruin the L&D experience for me.
Anyhow ... FX you hear it's a boy whenever you do find out for sure. GD is a nightmare and I'd hate to see you have to go through it again :hugs:
Thanks Begonia. I can only hope that if it is a girl, I can be as happy as you in the end... your update about your baby girl and how happy you are after her birth really made my day.
I know swaying isn't 100%. I knew that going into it. But I had this stupid false sense of security going into it, since I had one son already... I guess there is a chance there could be a boy in there, but I think assuming it is a girl is really the best plan for me. If I get my hopes up, and it really is a girl, then I will just feel worse at the birth.