I totally understand Gecon, you'll always be welcome on the opps thread but you must do what feels right for you. I flit between a few threads too. Big hugs to you, GD is such a b*tch! X x
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GeCon do not worry about offending anyone. That is what i love about these ladies - no judgement just here to help when needed and understanding when you need to back off.
I am with you on no more children even if i hear blue tonight. I couldnt cope and am too old to start trying all over again.
I have been asked if I'm hoping for a girl - I said- 'not particularly, I mean have you seen how gorgeous my boys are?!'
I hate the assumption that boy mums want girls and yes, the pity - oh it must be so hard. Seriously?! Just wait til your teenage girl has her first boyfriend and we will see who has it the hardest!!
Emily I am thinking of you!!!! Any news??
Another stalker here, Emily...
Emily .......stalking.........
GeCon, your not offending anyone! We are all here to chat and support no matter what thread you would prefer to post on!
Thanks all, I just didn't want anyone to think I was being ungrateful. I appreciate the other thread and will no doubt post in it, it is just at the moment I am finding it easier in here if that makes sense.
Huge GeCon xxx
GeCon, you do what feels right for you! I know how delicate you feel at the moment and sometimes removing yourself from certain situations is easier! I'm slowly getting my head round my feelings, have started exercising, very gently, that is helping with my GD I think, I also figure if I can't be a girl mum then I'm gonna be a yummy boy mum :) ahhhhhahahaha :rofl:
I am feeling pretty okay at the moment. I am excited about our new addition regardless of the gender, have looked the prams and haven't really thought much about it all.
But reading how others deal with it by planning another baby and sway makes me realise what I will never have and as I said at the moment I am not burying my head in the sand, but it isn't really constantly in my head either.