Ahhh, sallygal, there is still a chance it could be your girl, esp. if you could see possibly both kind of nubs in the video. I wouldn't get too sad until you know for sure.
Last night I was at Target trying to find some more maternity work pants and I was trying on this clearance summer dress, came out and asked the clerk at the fitting rooms how it looked. The first thing she said is, "You're having a girl, aren't you?"
I said, "I don't know yet, I find out in 3 weeks" and she said, "You're carrying so high. That was how I was with my daughter. I had two boys before her and I carried the boys low."
So while the lady could totally be wrong, hearing a complete stranger that has NO IDEA about how I dream of a daughter telling me I was carrying so high it looked to be a girl made me feel so awesome. Even if she's wrong, it was just really cool having someone who doesnt know me think that, you know? And the fact that she had two boys and then a girl...I felt like the universe was trying to tell me...yes silly, it really is possible! (My kids were at great grandma's so I was alone in Target.)
On another note, I told my husband last night that I felt this was a girl for sure, and he sighed, and said "you keep changing your mind on waht the baby is!"
I said, "No the whole time I've felt it was a girl, but I kept thinking it couldn't be true because of my desire...."
He just sighed, and said, "well I don't want to talk about it anymore." And I asked him if it wasn't because he didn't believe it'd be a girl, or if he was afraid that it would be a girl, and he mumbled "the second."
So he must have a gut feeling about it being a girl too that he still won't share it with me, lol.
How is everyone else today? Flava? Rainbow? Everyone else? Peony I'm excited you have a scan on April 23rd too...it is always reassuring seeing the babe!