swayers over 35 buddy group

Hi ladies!

So I post convinced by the spotting and cramping I am done for this month.
However, I have really really sore boobs! What do you think?
They actually hurt every morning I woke up for three days and now they are sore to touch...I think I ovulated on the 19th and today is the 1st!

I stopped temping so I have no idea what my temp is right now.

Do you think I have a good chance at a girl with two attempts on o day????

Hope everyone is having a good New Years Day!

We have enjoyed chips and dip, cheesies, and so many treats that we never never eat!!! So, I guess if I am not pg then this month's diet is going to be hard!!!

I am about to O early...I got a +OPK this morning and again this afternoon...I usually dont O until CD 15-16...today is CD 13....not much earlier but it did kinda throw me for a loop...the weird this is I have no ewcm! I am a little nervous because my diet wasnt the greatest because of the holidays but i didnt gain any weight....oh well whatever will be will be...

Your chart sure looks pretty Mocha!!!!

Hey ladybug!
Were you taking vitex?
Does a chemical pregnancy sway girl? I am sorry to bring it up....just a thought!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just keep hoping age sways girl!!! There must be something to being older:)

Good luck ladybug!

Lemon - that's exciting! I think you have a GREAT chance at a BFP! As you know, I don't believe in timing, so I think you have a great chance at a girl as well! Have you tested yet?? You're 13 dpo, right? TEST!!!!

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Originally Posted by ladybug

Your chart sure looks pretth Mocha!!!!

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Thanks ladybug...that's really nice to hear because everytime I search for charts that look like mine on FF, I get practically no BFP charts, and it's bringing me down.

Mocha - just checks out your chart I think it looks great! Don't need the implantation dip to get a bfp.

And I agree- lemon --- TEST. Maybe this is your month

Ladybug- good luck with your attempt my opk came early in November. If totally threw me off. Ultimately it didn't make a difference.

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Hey ladybug!
Were you taking vitex?
Does a chemical pregnancy sway girl? I am sorry to bring it up....just a thought!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just keep hoping age sways girl!!! There must be something to being older :)...I dont take vitex, just B6 and folic acid...just a strange cycle I guess or maybe it is the B6....either way I am about to drop an egg..lol

Good luck ladybug!

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Thanks Lemon!!! I sure hope a chemical sways girl! I hope age really helps too :)

Goodluck to you...I can't believe you haven't tested yet at 13 dpo....I wish I had your strenght!!!

I dont take vitex, just B6....maybe that made me 0 early....

Ladybug, are you sure you od already?
Are you still trying to bd?

I have no tests!!!!!!!! lol!
My temp is 98.8 though.

I understand the logic that timing does not matter....but I think it does...I can't help it. So, of course I am nervous about possibly being pg with the bding I did.
My bbs are still sore and I am cd 14 I think.
I guess I will know tomorrow!

Mocha...I think if you have a temp it most likely results in pregnancy but very few pregnancies have a temp dip at all!
When are you testing?

Hey Hope, Just wanted to ask how things are going?
What are your plans for this month? Did you get the doctor go ahead?
I hope so...you deserve it!

PS: I know this month will be hard....take care.

lemon - I already tested this morning and got a BFN, though I'm only 9dpo. I'll be testing every morning until af arrives (which she hopefully won't).

I really hope AF stays away Mocha!!!! 9dpo is still early. Fingers crossed for you :)

I am pretty sure I O'd today. I had +opk all day yesterday and - this morning. I have had cramping today on the left side. I really hope there is an egg. There is no way to know with only 1 tube. Dh have done freq bedding for the past 6 days. I really wasn't expecting to O this early! It was just for fun. :). Will do 1 more attempt tomorrow. I am so relaxed which is not normal for me and also I had no ewcm at all. Just creamy. Whatever will be will be!

Mocha - congrats girl!!! That's one awesome way to start 2012!!!

Hey ladies! CONGRATS MOCHA AND KITTEN! (and whoever else is pg now....just popping back on after vacation!).....tons and tons of wishes for a perfect 9 months for you both. xxoo

:cheerteam:OMG Mocha!!!!!!! WooooHOooooo!!! OMG OMG! congratulations, so so super happy for you, such brilliant news, just made my day :):cheerteam:

Thanks, Indigo :HH:

Just popping on to say CONGRATS mocha!!!
Ladybug...love the attitude! Send me some calm vibes please!!!

PS: what is everyone eating?
I think it is the only thing I can do for the next two weeks until I ovulate.
I cannot believe I have to try again:(

Hi ladies ,well im at cd 22,no idea when i ovulated im guessing that im 7dpo?Anyways i did a FRER yesterday hoping i might have oed early?It was neg but i swear it had a slight shadowy pencil line for a minute lol!Omg these tests are making me so obsessed..so now i have one more frer i should wait until sunday i guess.
Im not too positive though , i had more symptoms last 2 bfn cycles ,i had flutters but now there gone and i have no symptoms at all!!
I am totally off the diet only not eating breakfast still.
These last few days before testing are definately THE hardest !

Hi Ladies,
Took a FRER this morning and it came back BFN. Boo. I'm 11dpo and it feels as though AF might start today. If she does come, I think I may take two cycles off (end of Jan and end of Feb) just to give myself a break from thinking about this every, single, solitary day. I know that time is not on my side here, but I need at least a month to feel better about getting pregnant. I may also stop swaying so intensely, because obviously my fertility isn't what it used to be and doing things like making my CM even slightly hostile could be preventing my chances of getting pregnant at all.

Sorry about the BFN, Yuzu :HH:

Sorry about your BFN...fingers crossed AF stays away!

Sorry about BFN Yuzu ..Im going to do the same thing and take off at least jan if i dont conceive this cycle ..i hear u sista im in the same boat as you and time isnt on my side,im pretty sure i have a hostile enviroment too !:bighug:

Sorry, quick question -- what is FRER? Thanks :)

First Response Early Result tests. In my experience, they give you a BFP days before any other tests do.

Thanks, MochaGirl. Those are the ones I have. Oh, and congratulations on your BFP - SOOO exciting!! :)

Yuzu- sorry about the bfn, I'm with you I skipped dec skipping Jan too been too sick. Gonna aim for late February. So you can wait with me! Sweetsister- you too but hopefully you'll get a bfp first!

Hmmm...AF still hasn't reared her ugly head. If she doesn't get here by tomorrow I'll be officially late! But I'm still getting BFNs, so I don't have my hopes up.

YUZU, happened to me too:(
I hope I hear good news from you!

Maybe just relax and try to get pregnant...no sway?
I am in the same boat!! It is very hard and I think about it all the time.

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

YUZU, happened to me too:(
I hope I hear good news from you!

Maybe just relax and try to get pregnant...no sway?
I am in the same boat!! It is very hard and I think about it all the time.

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I try to relax, but halfway through the day I think, maybe I should POAS? For instance, I just tested again. Still negative! But I still don't have AF.

You know what's kind of funny, though...no matter how bad the economy gets the POAS industry will always be busy. Every woman I know is a POAS-aholic!
:poas:

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Originally Posted by HopeandDreamG

Yuzu- sorry about the bfn, I'm with you I skipped dec skipping Jan too been too sick. Gonna aim for late February. So you can wait with me! Sweetsister- you too but hopefully you'll get a bfp first!

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Well i did a internet cheapie and a clearblue plus test and both bfn i will probably take u up on that wait until feb sigh :(
i have 1 frer left so im trying to hold out on it
Can u beleive i USED to wait until weeks after missed AF to test before i came to these sites and learned you can test earlier :poas::shemademe:

Sweetsister~ That was me too... hysterical. With DS1 I thought you had to miss a period to test. DS2 I didn't even know I was preggo! and the baby I lost I didn't try for either and was like "where's AF...hmmmmm....maybe I should take a test!!

Hey girls,...it is just me or is the swayers over 35 having less BFPs???
I know Mocha got hers.....is auroara on here too?
Just waiting for AF to go away and waiting for o,......just scared now I will never get pregnant with all this swaying!

Hope,,how are you feeling?

Sweet sister...I am sooo sorry, you have tried so hard with little to intervene right? I think the FR has to go and just get those spermies in you:)

Yuzu,...what is going on? I don't know why I had a delayed o. The luteal phase should not really change. I am already nervous about ttc in Feb...wah!

I have to know how much vitex to take...mine is 80 mg but extract. Do I need to take 10 pills??? Seems weird! The bottle says 1 to 3....can anyone help?

Lemon, try not to stress too much. If you still aren't pregnant in a few months I guess you can cut out some of the swaying elements, and see if that helps. As for me, still no AF, still BFN. I have no idea what's going on! It's a good thing I have a bunch of tests, because it feels like I'm testing every five minutes.:bigsmile:

Lemon- said this on the other thread vitex is 800-1200 mg. I Think mine is solarray brand. I'll double check in am and get back to you on which exactly I have. I'm feeling better today. But it seems I'm good then suddenly dont feel well again. So hoping it lasts this time.

Yuzu- sorry for the BFNs

Has anyone ever missed their period (anovulatory cycle?) or just had a very light spotting instead of full AF? I'm starting to fear that I didn't actually ovulate in December bec my AF is not normal, just very light pinkish when I wipe on the toilet paper....nothing on the maxipads. Anyone experience that before? It's the second day and still not normal AF...freaking me out a little.

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Originally Posted by ILindGurl

Has anyone ever missed their period (anovulatory cycle?) or just had a very light spotting instead of full AF? I'm starting to fear that I didn't actually ovulate in December bec my AF is not normal, just very light pinkish when I wipe on the toilet paper....nothing on the maxipads. Anyone experience that before? It's the second day and still not normal AF...freaking me out a little.

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Yes i have had 2 cycles like that wait a bit and see mine was very light like u describe first 2 days and then med flow but only lasted 4 days and for me im usually 7 days ,very heavy,but i chalk it down to the diet and i really dont know if mine was just light due to the stress of the diet or i didnt ovulate?I still have no clue why?

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Hey girls,...it is just me or is the swayers over 35 having less BFPs???
I know Mocha got hers.....is auroara on here too?
Just waiting for AF to go away and waiting for o,......just scared now I will never get pregnant with all this swaying!

Hope,,how are you feeling?

Sweet sister...I am sooo sorry, you have tried so hard with little to intervene right? I think the FR has to go and just get those spermies in you:)

Yuzu,...what is going on? I don't know why I had a delayed o. The luteal phase should not really change. I am already nervous about ttc in Feb...wah!

I have to know how much vitex to take...mine is 80 mg but extract. Do I need to take 10 pills??? Seems weird! The bottle says 1 to 3....can anyone help?

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Yeah i have nothing to cut this time except i missed a very important day dtd because dh and i argued so i will have to be strict next time!
Are you trying again in Feb?I am too im skipping January..whats your plan this time?

Yuzu i hope af stays away :luck:

Good luck Yuzu!

AF finally started this evening! Honestly, I'm a little relieved. It was getting kind of strange. I guess somehow my luteal phase has increased by a couple of days.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to taking a couple of months off.:happy:

I'm sorry about af, Yuzu, but I understand your relief. Enjoy your time off TTC!