Lavenderlime, This site helped me identify the moons, you may just need to change the mth and it will tell u at what day/time the moon is new, 1st quarter, full, last quarter- The chart at the bottom explains it all- The new moon was yest at 06.09hrs and the 1st quarter starts 09.52 on 2nd dec, the full moon is on dec 10th at 14.36...hope that helps??
http://www.lunarium.co.uk/calendar/u...lendarMonth=10
Although the moon can be 1 of ur sway factors, like u I tried to get all these things on my side, but u can't help when u Ov...and for me it was so variable! I conceived in the 1st quarter of the new moon.
or this one-
http://www.universetoday.com/20177/moon-phases-2011/
some sites the times vary very slightly, but dates stay the same. In jan the new moon is the 23rd?x