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Just popping in to say my anatomy scan went well! It's still a boy and a girl and most importantly they are both looking healthy and measuring on track! I'm so incredibly grateful for my babies and couldn't be happier. I teared up at the scan from the sheer joy of it all. As a child I always wanted boy girl twins when I grew up and although as an adult twins were one of my biggest fears it does feel very special to have a childhood dream come true. Sorry for the mushy post, just feeling so happy today!
Look forward to hearing from you Ugee!
It is so wonderful to read that so many of you girls are getting your much longed for gender. I catch up on here everyday and this really is an amazingly lucky thread! It's why I've waited so long to post anything, I don't want to pee on anyones parade but.......I just wonder why me? My weight loss was good, my timing was good my sway was good! So why am I having another boy? I feel it must be something I did or didn't do as everyone else who swayed has got what they wanted. I'm sorry to put a downer on this thread. I don't even need a response as there is nothing to be said. I just felt I needed to vocalize how I was feeling. I have come to terms with never having a daughter (sort of) and will love this little boy as I do the others.
Oh I'm so sorry. I wish I had some words of wisdom to tell you why. I know I would have felt exactly like you do, and I am sure there are many women out their who swayed and got an opposite and feel like you do now. I'm sorry again, I wish I had answers for you. big, huge hugs.Quote:
Originally Posted by Me+4
I still think girl ugee! GL tomorrow!
Me+4. I think sometimes we can do everything possible to put the odds in our favor and luck still isn't on our side. I truly think luck has a big part of it. I do. Sending hugs and thoughts to you. I always hear people with opposites say how special their GD babies are to them. I hope that for you. Xo
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Me+4 I'm sorry your sway didn't work, I will feel like you do if mine hasn't either. I will also love the little boy just like you do. My boys have been little angels this week and I truly love them with every part of me and hope if that's all I have I will find peace without a daughter and I hope you do too if it's your last. I wanted to post this to you now as I'm not sure how I will feel later today. Either too sad to say something or to happy and it won't come across as sincere. Hope we keep seeing you on here :bighug:
My scan is at 1.30 today so will update later once we get home. Wish me luck
I did post earlier but, Tapatalk ate it. Me+4, please don't think you're putting a dampener on the thread. You are just saying what's in your heart and head. It's healthy to talk about it. When I was pregnant with my youngest and we found out we were having another girl, I was crushed. I love my girls to bits and wouldn't change them but I longed for a boy. At the time we had no intention whatsoever of having any more kids. It took a little while but once I saw my new baby, the pain pretty much went. I will admit when my sil was pregnant for the first time and she found out she was having a boy, I distanced myself from her. To this day I still feel terrible about it. But, I did get past the pain and enjoyed having another bub of the same gender. You will get there, in fact it sounds like you're already on your way. Remember, we're here for you x
Im so sorry Me4 , this boy is ment to be , and u will love him no matter what !
Ugee FX fx fx
Happy for everyone else having there desired gender !!
Do u take vitamines ?
I keep forgetting to take them and im eating junk food , nothing healthy , I hate myself for this , as Im gonna hurt myself and my baby's health ! Ahhh