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Thanks for the advice ladies! I know she wants t keep the baby and totally opposed t giving it up.... I don't think it's fair for her mom to pressure her to give a baby she wants up!
About people over after a baby... NO lol I lived with my mom for my first two and now after having ds3 I see all the special moments I missed! I want to basically be alone with my babies lol even right after I had ds3 DH took him and walked into a corner that I couldnt see him lol, I was so mad!
Yay can't wait thorz please don't leave us hanging all night :)
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Good luck Thorz!! I'm just off to bed so will be looking forward to your update when I wake up tomorrow!! xx
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47 1/2 hours till my u/s! I am nervous, excited, anxious! I don't care what the baby is I just can't wait to know! I was having a hard time boning with it the whole pregnancy until it started kicking and I fell in love and lost my gender desire
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Thanks everyone... DH still isn't speaking to me and it is making me feel awful. DH is going to be taking at least two weeks off of work when the baby is born (maybe even more) so there shouldn't be any reason for either of our parents to be here a whole lot. That is what is making this even more frustrating. Not sure why he is so insistent on his Mom being here before until after the baby is born. I completely agree with you Mum to three girls... I don't want the added stress of the house guests. I don't want to have to go upstairs to get some privacy when feeding the baby, I don't want to have to worry about what she wants to eat and if she is comfortable in the bed and if her room is too hot or if the house is too messy. The thing that bothers me the most about all of this is that it isn't her that wants to be here, it is DH. He isn't even that close with her?? They talk maybe twice a month and it is usually something about the kids when they do talk. I think I am just really pissed at him right now for putting this added stress on me... just when I was breathing easy about having a healthy baby!! I feel like he isn't putting my needs first. Sorry to vent so much... I just don't want to talk about this to anyone IRL.
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Thorz can't wait for an update!! Wanting a girl I can't wait for your update to!! I love hearing the results of all the gender scans!! So excited for the both of you!!
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Ooooooo wanting pink I would be pissed too! Thats not fair what he's doing to you! I remember with ds3 my parents just coming over for an hour and I'm a pretty private person with my parent I dont share much with them cause we didn't have close relationships ever and so uncomfortable tryig to breast feed! I had a hard time breast feeding cause of my breast reduction so the added stress is not needed! I say put your foot down and make him know that its not happening... You will be caring for a baby and you don't need to worry about someone else's comforts!
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Here and stalking Thorz! Good luck, hun! :)
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Her scan is in 10 minutes! I wonder how long she will keep us waiting!
