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Thanks NCBeachyGrl... so you know exactly how I feel. Shock is putting it mildly. We DTD (only once) throwing caution to the wind. Then I started getting EWCM and I was like CRAP. Didn't really think much about it though. Then it started rattling in my mind so I started testing at 8DPO and was getting negatives so I thought I was just being mental about the whole thing. Skipped a few days testing then a BFP on what I believe to be 11 DPO. The test wasn't really even positive until several hours later. I felt like I was going to pass out and puke all at the same time. We will see if the lines keep getting darker. I think I need to get use to the idea of having another baby (and making sure this isn't a chemical) before I tell DH. I don't want to throw him into panic mode if this is a chemical.
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May I join? I'm due 10/10! I swayed :DD:
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Thanks Coocoobananas!! This whole thing is so crazy... I am 39... I thought you were suppose to be less fertile the older you get?? I am just looking at this pregnancy as if it is meant to be, it will be, and EVERYTHING happens for a reason. I have already started thinking that this is kind of a good thing because our 3rd is 4.5 years younger than our second. She would have a sibling her age which would be good since all the kids in the neighborhood are the age of my older two. I am trying not to think about it too much either way since A LOT can happen but my brain cant stop thinking about it. I wish I had a friend IRL that I could talk to or could relate with my situation. The one friend I have that is closest to this situation just had a MC so not sure I really want to say anything just yet to her. I feel like that would be insensitive. Thanks girls for your replies!! Any guesses given my situation if it is a boy or a girl?
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Wanting your daughter looks so sweet in your picture! Congrats on the pregnancy. I pop over from time to time to keep up with coocoo and beachy since we were all buds from last time we all swayed and got opposites.
I just wanted to say some things are really meant to be. Hopefully you have a sister in there for your beautiful little girl! Either way you couldn't have ended up with a better bunch of ladies!
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Thanks Rosie... if this little one is meant to be it would be so great to have a sister for my daughter. Thanks for the kind words I really need them right now!!
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I'm 37 pink so I was shocked I got pregnant so easy too!
I would vote girl for you. I mean your body is def fragile at this point with such a little one and b/f!!
I told my friend who has 4 girls today and still would like more! She teared up she was so happy. It was so nice and she just pumped me up about it all! Her last 2 are the exact age that my youngest will be so I will be seeking her advice!
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Coocoo I am very happy you were able to talk to someone with such a positive outlook for you, besides us of course! Having someone like that really helps.
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Congratulations wantingpink! I'm 38 and got pg in jan (blighted ovum) and again February with one attempt, shocked but really hoping this one sticks. It's been such a roller coaster this year. No symptoms this time so far but only 12dpo, in January I had every symptom going before I even got my bfp. Bit freaked at the lack of symptoms x
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Coocoobananas I wish I had a friend like that to talk to... I know everyone (including my family) is going to be like WTF was she thinking. Not that I really care, it would just be nice to talk to someone who would be really supportive and who could make me feel better, be genuinely excited and not give me the obligatory "congrats" with a half smile. I think my SIL will be totally excited so maybe I will talk with her after I get over this shock.
Mrs. Incredible I also have a lack of symptoms. Usually I know before I get my BFP that I am prego. I have a super sense of smell and my boobs will super sensitive. Since I am BF maybe it is different. I too am thinking that because I have a lack of symptoms that maybe it is a chemical or something similar.
Now I am having a whole new freak out... This will be my 4th C-section and I got pregnant only 6 months after my last!! So now I am freaking out that if this baby sticks that me or the baby could die. I am sure this only has a .001% chance of happening but I am thinking getting pregnant right after your 3rd C-section is sooooo not smart. My OB is going to kill me:/
