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Exactly!! I'd be like "girl!?...get another sonographer please!" lol
Kick that negativity in the butt girl!!! Your future is bright no matter how you take it...you've already got four beautiful kids so another one would be the cherry on top whether it is conceived now or next year! I've been on here yonks myself so we can hang out together lol
Like I say I hate the waiting an wondering. If I knew I would have a girl one day I'd wait as long as I needed to for her. But not knowing drives me mad and makes me want it all to hurry up so I can just know lol
You know I don't think it helps that today was dh Nan's funeral. She had 3 boys herself and no girls. We got a lot of comments from distant relatives about "wow 4?" And closer relatives with "you'll have a girl next time" no one knows we plan any more. And my nephews girlfriend who is 21 was doting on ds4 then started raving on about her friend who is pregnant with a girl and how cute all the clothes are and how previous all the girls stuff is.
Also my best friend gave birth to her second girl on the 5th.
Most of the time now I find myself ok with everything and happy with my boys and so positive about another boy. Then I have days where the desire is just too much.
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Just yesterday a friend of mine that is having a boy (due at the end of the month) asked if we are going for #3 and told me I better be careful as I would probably end up with another boy or worse yet twin boys! All I could say was well I'd be so happy and blessed to have any child once it is healthy is all I am concerned about... the insensitivity of others is unbelievable!!
I want to be pregnant yesterday...I stare at pregnant women in public in awe thinking "please let that be me soon!!"
So sorry to hear about your DH's nan...my DH's nan also only had 3 boys!! Hence why everyone is convinced we can't have a girl. I think I really want a girl just to tell people where to stick it. If I could get just 1p for every time someone reminds me that 'well the husband determines the sex' I'd be a bloody millionaire!
Yeah one of my friends told me after ds4 was born that I'd best not have any more as I'd have a boy. Felt like saying "and what's wrong with that" she has 1 of each, and told me a few days ago that her and her new bloke have decided they want a baby together and are hoping it's a girl because (get this!) he already has 5 boys! Yet she still maintains that I shouldn't have another!
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Ohhhhh love it lol Hope she has a girl then!!!
Hi ladies! Omg I totally get everything you are saying! I just wish someone will say oh yes you're going to have a daughter or not as the case may be and then I can just continue on as normal and know whatever will be will be and be happy with either!
Oh the insensitivity of people makes me sick they have absolutely no idea what it's like when they throw their silly ideas and owts at us!
Ah I'm so desperate to starts trying soon but know I need to wait till we Move first! Feel like everything with the house diy has ground to a halt at the mo, maybe once that's back on track I'll feel a bit more positive! Finding myself around a couple of really negative people at the mo too that's getting me down so am distancing myself from them as can't bear the way they make me feel at the mo..not always baby related with them they are just negative people in general and it is just about everything. Lol
She's rubbed it in my fave for years, even before it was important to me , that I don't have a girl. I know it makes me sound bitter but is quite like it if she got a taste of her own medicine. But I'm not that mean. I like to see my friends happy, so hopefully we will both have girls lol
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Meant this in a sarcastic way!! Sometimes "friends" that know our most inner secrets or desires can be our worst enemies I think as the friend who said that to me knows about my swaying and said if I get a girl she wants to know what I did...errrrr fat chance!! I'm not as nice as you motherofboys!!Quote:
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Hoping house moves speed up and ttc journey is next on the agenda! I have done the same and just not getting in touch with negative people because I tend to want to get into "debates" with them over nonsense and raise my t levels and not to mention my blood pressure. I will talk to them again when I get my BFP lolQuote:
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morning girls..... o lord i need some advice, was fed up of waiting for positive ovulation and the mood just felt right last night that we bd, huge problem being i had the big o twice which was a bloody first lol and done my test this morning and ive finally got a high fertility, its not the peak face which is when i need to bd acording to my plan but i dont know if i should bd now at peak, but i really do want to get a bfp this month arghhhhhhhh help xx