Lyagirl, hope she won't turn up!
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Lyagirl, hope she won't turn up!
Sorry, lyagirl! :(
Mumofsix - I agree...I think your timing is spot on!
Well, I couldn't get dh to move a muscle last night despite my best attempts. So, no dtd. Grrrrr. Hoping we're not too late if I can get him hopping today. Technically this is day #4 for dtd every 4 days, so I'm hoping if that method work we're still in the running. Had another +OPK this morning. (I do the digital so it's either smiles or no smiles...both yesterday and today I got smiles!) I've been doing 1 attempt at +OPK for 3 months, so I'm hoping that maybe by doing something a little different, this might be my month?
This had me in tears today... one of my friends from junior high posted a photo on facebook of her and her toddler daughter getting their nails done together with the caption "first time doing our nails together... I've been waiting for this my whole life!" Really hit home. Me too, but I may never have it!
Trying to be happy for her and not depressed for me.
Sigh. Is it too late in the 2ww or a glass of wine?
That comment would crush you! It got to me just reading your post, it's so hard when others seem to 'get our dream' and then mostly unintentionally "flaunt it". Fingers crossed this is your month & you have your baby girl in your arms soon. x
I say it's never too late in the 2ww for a glass of wine!
I am not sure what is going on. I have yellow stretchy cm...The kind I have while pregnant. I thought it might be yellow from left over miscarriage stuff and that I should be ovulating soon. Nope. Even though it's ewcm my opk tests are sooo negative it's not even funny. Every other month they would get darker as soon as the ewcm showed up. It's been two days. I did have ewcm a week ago and we attempted just in case but that is so soon after a loss...it was cd7. Today I am cd14. I think we might do an attempt tonight and just see what happens. I'm not sure what to think other than I know those tests aren't turning positive anytime soon.
I am honestly very in love with wonfo OPKS. They are very affordable and give great results :) cd25 and 2bds only 1 more to go. I am highly considering a fourth but i am hesitant. For all the blue mommas out there is 4 bds ok for a blue sway? :) http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/30/ybe2u4uq.jpg
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Rosie you're probably just ovulating late, either due to hormone issues after the miscarriage or maybe even stress from the miscarriage itself. I've always had really regular cycles, but even then I've O'd as early as CD12 and as late as CD20! I have 52 charts to look back on and things change for no reason. I'd keep testing and I'm sure you'll get your +opk within the next week. Maybe just DTD every 4 days in the meantime. Good luck!!!!!
ash - that is so weird but remember that each pregnancy is different, some women may get implantation bleeding for one and not for another. Fingers crossed for BFP news from you soon!
mumofsix sounds perfectly timed and I am really hoping you get your BFP!
girliedreamz - hopefully you can get DH cornered soon and you catch that egg!! and of course you can have wine at this point, my motto is drink til its pink :) no alcohol deprivation in the 2ww for me like last time TTC. Really sorry that comment from a friend hurt you, that would not have been her intention.
lavie - hoping to hear BFP news from you in the next couple of days
yogi - good luck for your attempt! Yes 4 attempts is great for blue, in fact I had 4 attempts leading up to my positive OPK when DS was conceived - thurs night, sat morning, sun afternoon and monday night (the pos OPK was monday). So glad I dont have to do that now for a pink sway!! Too exhausting!
Rosie - perhaps a good idea to BD and then keep testing? Good luck with what you decide.
Opk's are still positive??!!! Trying to restrain from attempting again but so worried about missing that egg!? 😕
remind me when your last attempt was? do you have ewcm?
Our attempt was 48hrs ago.
I don't really have any ewcm.
hmm its a tough one. I know what I would do but thats not necessarily what is recommended. I know that atomic says to go with the first positive but this does seem odd. Maybe contact atomic to see what she thinks?
She said just one attempt at the first pos opk.
The boys just unintentionally crushed me! I went to pick them up from a school disco and there were all these kids dancing with their mums for the "last song" so I asked the twins to dance and they said no. They then said "we're not girls. We're not going to dance with you, if you want a child to dance with you should have had a girl". Broke my heart! 😞
oh no i am so sorry to hear that! I would have thought that boys would want to dance with their mums :( are they getting to an age where mum is no longer cool (which happens to boys and girls)?
They're 7. It's probably not cool. Lol!!
yes you are not cool to a 7 year old lol
Aww, mumofsix, how sad :(
Weird, you and I are in the exact same boat. My opks are still pos. As in the test line is still darker than the control line. Since Tuesday (the day of our attempt). Tomorrow's going to be hard to fit in an attempt, but I'm going to do it...somehow, someway. I don't have any ewm either. Bodies are weird. They never act how you think they're going to.
Good luck. What CD are you? I got my pos on cd 10, which is why I'm hesitant to believe it was accurate. I was expecting my first one today. It would be so much easier if the stork really brought babys :P
Angie
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Sorry you feel that way Girlie...I know that feeling all too well. I have a snotty snob cousin who loves to throw her girl in my face intentionally. It sucks! (Although your friend likely didn't do it on purpose).
Aww Mumof6 xx It's a shame how quickly kids grow these days, moms should still be cool at 7!
Rosie, I agree, thinking late O caused by m/c or the stress from it. Hope O shows up soon <3
Ladies I think your multiple days of positive tests are okay. Mine were positive for 3 days but I only did the deed on the 1st day. Still ended up pregnant and I know I Oed like 2 full days after.
Today is CD 38 and 12-13DPO if I ovulated late like I think I did.
Still very very light spotting only sometimes when I wipe. (tmi sorry)
Took a frer yesterday afternoon with no hold, had a big white indent that was showing up but didn't see any color. This morning took another FRER, I saw a faint line so I took it out to make sure it wasn't an indent and it's not, but it's also pretty much colorless as far as I can tell. Have wondfo's coming in the mail tomorrow.
Sore boobies yesterday, to the point where my bra felt a bit uncomfortable. Felt kinda yucky this morning, like I need to eat a couple of crackers. Could be AF symptoms too.
If AF doesn't show by Wednesday morning and I'm still getting BFNs I'll call the dr to get a blood test in just to be certain one way or the other.
I'm on CD13. I think we will have another attempt tomorrow too. I can't believe it's all so hard, our boys were so easy and there was no tracking ovulation or anything with them!! They just happened! 😜
I wish I could just order a daughter and have her delivered by stork. 😉
I think i have finally got a positive OPK, the lines are the same colour!!! Unless anyone thinks it still isnt dark enough? (please be honest!) typical that it comes when I am eating like a pig and the weekend of sushi and meat and general feasting is here....will have to try my best to be good now for a couple of days.Attachment 19084
dammit it looks lighter in the picture!!!! Thinking of BD first thing tomorrow morning, then if todays is the true positive its not too far off, if I get a positive tomorrow its all good? DH is leaving at 11am tomorrow for a party so there will be no BD after 11am tomorrow or on sunday.... last BD was weds night and I am 100% fine with having an attempt before the 4 days is up.
That looks positive in my eyes Stephk! Good luck!
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Really?! Wow finally a positive!! I might take another test in a couple of hours to see what it looks like too. I emailed atomic to see what her opinion is on BD tonight (7.30pm when DS goes to bed) as opposed to first thing tomorrow (7am-ish before DS wakes up). Because we last BD on weds but by the time the egg comes out in 24-48 hours time there will be no spermies left, I have had hardly any EWCM this week. You have to understand girls I am so broody and desperate to be PG now so I cannot let weds be my attempt, I am not confident with a cutoff like that.
Looks like a positive opk to me Steph!
Those OPKs are causing so much stress! On my ipad, the color looks a little lighter Stephk, but that could just be my device fault. Sorry it's not really helping! Maybe bd first thing tomorrow ? (That's what I would do as a good compromise)
Well. I couldn't resist POAS so did another test but as expected its BFN - AF is due on Tuesday - I don't feel pg so I'm prob out for may...at least I can enjoy a few drinks this weekend - we are off on a family camping and I think I will need alcohol to keep me warm! (Had to pack so many clothes to b prepared for the British weather - it looks like we r going away for a month lol!)
Have a lovely weekend girls, enjoy bd, POAS, OPKs and other GD's paraphernalia ! Xx
Have a lovely break lavie - and you are not out until the witch shows :)
Tuesday is 4 days away!!! I wouldn't say you're out yet :) But, having said that, have a great time and enjoy the alcohol. May be the last chance you get :P
Angie
I think the right line is a tad darker than the left....and I don't know which is which! But if you say that the left is darker in real life, then I would agree, positive and BD away :)Quote:
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Good luck!!!
Angie
and, I agree! I'd BD again. I wouldn't feel confident with Wed as an attempt either. I'm so excited for you!
I hope to see a positive Wondfo tomorrow morning!!!Quote:
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Angie
Hello ladies. I am back. Currently 5 DPO. This cycle I did not let hubby on to when u was Ong in hopes he would be more relaxed. I too was much more relaxed so we shall see. Baby dust to all :)
just took another test and the lines were the same colour after only 3 mins - Im taking that as a blaring positive!!!!!!!
Yay, time to attempt for you steph!! Good luck!
The deed is done :) poor DH had trouble finishing, he said the pos OPK put him under pressure!!
stephk - knowing it's "for real" also makes it really hard for my Dh to finish! Welcome to the 2ww! :-D
Thanks for the commiserations, ladies! I'm sure my friend meant no harm by her comment... just happy to be sharing a moment with her daughter. As she should be! But it's nice to be among women who get how crushing it can be to see that mother-daughter moment while living with the fear that I may never have one!
Yay, stephk! fx for you!
My dh had the same problem... so much so that we haven't dtd yet. Gah! I fear I'm out this month unless O was either really early or really late. Hoping to get one more attempt in tonight on the off chance it's really late.