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So sorry to hear this Momamia :( I don't understand why there are so many of us in one select group are having these non-viable pregnancies :( I start to question the swaying, but then I have heard stats like 1 in 4 pregnancies result in a miscarriage - which is a large unbelievable number (I never knew this) and I guess you can see that if you have a large group of women in a 'study' or controlled area (like a forum) you will see this stat pop up :sadflwr:
I hope your Dr's office pulls their socks up real fast. I hope your regular OB can help you in a much nicer way than that too. Thinking of you xox
Tiffsal - OMG - congrats on having a little pink one cooking - I am hoping one day that will happen for me! ;)
Thanks Immi!
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So sorry Momamia :( big hugs xx I hope you heal quickly and get your pink sticky rainbow baby very soon.
It has been very sad watching so many leave from this group. My heart goes out to you all.
Thanks covered! :)
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Momamia I am so sorry for your loss and having to deal with unprofessional people at a difficult time. I hope you have a healthy bubs soon.
True I am delighted that your little one is doing ok. There has been too much sadness here in the last while.
Thanks fox. All the baby dust going your way for your next cycle! Thanks immi. Hope to see you here back soon.
How you been feeling true?
Momamia im sorry about your loss. Hope you will get ll the answers you need. Sorry to hear you came accross a rude nurse. I really think they should know how to have people skills!
Momamia~ just want to say sorry again & that you you should see someone else ASAP!!! How dare they treat someone like that!! Grrrrr.... I'm praying that you get your rainbow baby soon!
Is everyone else doing okay???
I'm so so sorry momamia. It sounds like the nurse was absolutely awful! Is there anyone you can discuss her bedside manner with? Also I don't think it is really necessary to test out the Hcg I think more important is to have an ultrasound done about a week after the miscarriage just to make sure everything really is clear and looks as it should. That is what my normal obgyn did and then I used cheapie HPTs to tell when my levels were finally back down to 0. I ovulated about one week later then normal after having the d&c. I hope the additional testing gives you some answers.
Immi- whenever I'm in a due date type group I always notice that the 1 in 4 statistic about miscarriages is unfortunately true. It's awful but I suppose it is better to lose the baby early on rather then have a baby who won't be able to live. But that doesn't help to make the situation any easier.
I have my next appt on Friday and I'm hoping that everything goes well. Then I will schedule the panorama test for as quickly as possible after.
How exciting Junie!! Fxfx that your babe is healthy & happy in there!
Momma once again I am so sorry. I hate that you're going through this :(
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Thanks hitme! :)
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All the best for your appointment Junie!
I'm in such a strange place mentally ATM. I've only told a few people IRL about this pregnancy and DH and I don't talk about it much. I'm just like obsessively checking this site for updates lol. I just want to know the gender already even though I'm 90% sure it's another boy lol. These next few weeks are going to go so slowly! Anyone else feel like this? Please someone save me from myself :)
This is completely normal CIB! Hang in there! The waiting is rough! I started to bond with this baby once my SCH stopped bleeding/having discharge, and I knew the gender. Oddly enough, I didn't have any inkling of this was a girl or a boy.Quote:
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My DH somehow knew it was a boy and has always been fine with it- so he says. He struggles with wanting a fourth and wanting a DD. he goes back and forth and probably always will! I feel like I can have a better sway this time around, but BFing worries me a little. I've never tried to TTC early on before. At least I always get AF back super early!!!
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I have no feelings on gender either, none at all. I do think the bleeding has turned me off emotionally to a point. I'm quite happy to accept either and although I'm not feeling it's a girl or a boy I can't imagine it being a boy if that makes any sense :D
This pregnancy has been weird for me as well.... Even though I have all the symptoms & am still dealing with nausea, lol, it doesn't feel as real as my last ones.... I also want to know the gender yet I don't at the same time, if that makes any sense.. The results will most likely come this week & I'm scared to death! I think I'm going to have them put the gender result in an envelope then buy a tub of almond ice cream & sparkling grape juice for me & beer for my hubby... That way we can open it together & either celebrate or commiserate, lol!
I don't have any feelings on the gender of this baby but my husband is adamant that it's a boy.... My girls both say boy as well.... We will see!!!
I have no clue on gender either. Most days I don't even feel pregnant. I hope I get a get a good nub shot on the 9th.
I hope you do too Pearl! It's coming up, you'll have to post your pic!!
Well, I cancelled my d&c. I am freaking out too much about it. So, I am just going to wait it out. I have an appointment with my OB on Sept 14th, so we'll see what's going on then. She'll do an ultrasound at my appointment, so I'll get to see if anything has changed. Then I'll go from there.
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Thank you XX. I guess gender is such a huge thing this pregnancy that I just can't bond properly with it till I know what it is. Ash that sounds like a great plan :).
Oh momamia Xx big hugs honey! What is it that's scaring you so much about the D&C? I'm sure you are totally fine to wait as long as you need. what a tough little journey you are on xx
Gl junie and pearl for your upcoming appointments 😊
I know what you mean covered. I was just so stressed out the last few weeks you will know soon.
Xoco momamia
Covered, I'm just concerned that I'm jumping the gun. I'm going to pretend like everything is normal just for a little while and see what my OB says.
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Have you seen your OB yet momamia?
Sounds like a plan :). Praying for a little miracle!
Whoops, saw your other post momamia, disregard my question! Hugs to you, you should always do what you feel is right!! I'm really sorry you have to go through this right now....
Thanks CIB and Ash! :)
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Covered in blue- I think what you're feeling is totally normal. My last pregnancy I felt the same but since that ended in miscarriage this time I just worry about the baby being healthy and just really don't care about the sex. But it will still be nerve wracking for me to find out the blood results when that day comes!
I could have wrote this myself - I totally feel you.Quote:
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Fx momamia
Ok ladies, I'm struggling here.... They said my results would be here by Wednesday & I'm freaking out!! I mean, this is it.... No more chances. This will be my third C-section, so I can't have anymore. Really, 3 is all I can handle anyway! I wish, so bad, that I could've had a clearer nub shot just so I could have an inkling!! I know I'll be fine if it's a girl, but wow, what a ton of anxiety I'm feeling!!! I must say, I do have some super cute names I like If it is a girl!!! This waiting stinks... I'm also hoping that I can feel baby moving soon, does anyone remember when that starts?
Ash, I'm sorry you're having so much anxiety!! I hope they call you soon with the results. I think it's usually around 16 weeks that you can start feeling the baby move.
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Thanks Momamia, I sound ridiculous even complaining about it.....
Ash, we wouldn't all be here if gender wasn't a concern. I totally get exactly how you're feeling! :D Don't be down on yourself about it. :bighug:
Not long to go Ash! You can do this last bit! Try for major distraction to pass the time. Can't wait to here the news, the waiting is the hardest part!xox
Good Luck Ash I am too excited for you :)
Best of luck Ash. I really hope you have your results tomorrow. Waiting is the worst.
I plan on going for my 4th csection if all goes well this time. It is a compromise for me as both myself and DH always wanted 5. We both come from happy big families and wanted to give our kids the same sibling support and company.
My neighbour has had 5 c sections no problems but got her tubes tied during the 5th.
On a happy note my DD started school this morning
I will take the pic down again tomorrow. But here she is and I am one proud mamma
Awww!! What cuties, pearl!! :)
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Im so excited for you! I can just imagine your anxiety!Quote:
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I think I usually feel mine around 16 or 17 wks. But I think it seemed sooner with each one!
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