Thank you!!
I will ask atomics advice if af rears her angry head this month!
Thanks for all the advice ladies. Xxx
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BR and signingmommy thanks for thinking of me. My temp is still high (for me) but has dropped a little this morning. Unfortunately my temps always stay elevated until morning of af. She will be here tomorrow. Cant believe how good my chart was looking. Must have been the clomid doing its job I suppose but it was disheartening to see it look like a bfp chart but no bfp to go along with it. At least if there is a next time I will more prepared for a good looking chart lol. I may still temp over the next couple cycles just for comparison/curiosity wise. I used my last frer this morning and its a stark bfn.
Signingmommy dont feel disheartened. Sometimes the strangest charts are the ones that end up being bfp ones. I really hope so in your case and fx!!
Ksmom I think your beta result is fine. As you know the first really does not tell you much. Cant wait for your next bw to see those numbers double!!
Jennypenny agree with ksmom that you should check with atomic. Or maybe give yourself just one more cycle of e4d before adding attempts but you have to decide if you can maintain diet and exercise that long. Its a very tough decision, swaying is really really hard work and I dont envy anyway that is doing it :(
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Must be a boy thing because mine are exactly the same. Been driving myself nuts last few days looking at odds of conceiving a girl when you've had two boys and if there is any such thing as a bloke who only had boys in there. I really want my pink dream to come true but just not at all sure that it is due to the fact that the bfp happened like in my first attempt at trying I just wasn't expecting at all with having just come off all those fertility drugs. Boobs are tingling today don't like it but other than that still no signs at all not a hint of morning sickness. So confused still about all the negative results and then the positive . Plus Dr says hcg slightly raised meaning not by much so I'm back to thinking blood test earlier to find out for sure. What do you think?
Today everything has eased off apart from my tingling boobs too 15dpo. I have been thinking about the odds of having another boy too but do want a girl do bad. think my hubby really needs it too as he just lost his mother in September and my son's have been asking for a sister too
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BR, I know symptoms can come and go in early pregnancy. I remember driving myself insane with DS1's pregnancy because some days I'd feel pregnant and other days I felt nothing. It wasn't long before he reminded me every single day he was in there. lol That is so sweet your boys have been wanting a sister. I really hope this is your girl!! Have you or Pinklady thought about starting a December due date group?
I don't want to start the group yet as I'm still feeling like this is a dream. And tomorrow I will wake up and realise I'm not actually pregnant....also so scared of having a miscarriage I don't want to jinx myself if you know what I mean.
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I totally know what you mean. I had three losses all in a row that were very early and at the same point each time (4w2d) so I'm VERY nervous to get to that point this time again. My tests are at least progressing this time and I'm having more symptoms so that's really the only hope I have to cling to at the moment.
I have never had a loss as yet and I don't want this to end in a loss either because it took so much to get here. I heard that almost every woman has at least one loss. I'm 4 weeks tomorrow and won't be having any blood tests for a while and my 1st scan is on may 11th. All I cam do is keep calm and try not to think about it.
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Internet cheapie tests are useless early. I have only every got really faint lines at about 11dpo. I would probably go to a FRER before a digital as they are a bit more sensitive and here they cost less than the digitals.
At this stage I would say stick to tryng to getting 1 attempt in at OPK if you are happy doing OPKs. Maybe in a month of two reassess :)
Thanks purple! Will try to stick with the one attempt for at least another month, will need to do a headstand straight after bd'ing or something haha!!
10dpo and another bfn with my internet cheapies :( will wait until Wednesday to see if AF has appeared and will buy a frer and clear blue just to double check.
Think my body is playing games with me, I am getting my aching hips that I had early on with my boys but no other symptoms.
Don't know why my body is messing with me like this!we used to be on the same team lol!!!
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Now I have actually missed my AF and my symptoms have settled down. Yay!
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So since Thursday I been busy I went on my sons field trip and then yesterday went to the zoo and the mall did a ton of walking etc, last night had some spotting light pink no red. Woke up it to check and pretty much gone. I just checked again and cm is now back white and creamy. Sorry if tmi.
Should I go to the er? Or wait till my appt Tuesday? I did spot last week also. I did spot a lot with my DS who now 2. But I am just so worried now
Princess mom, am sure everything will be fine. I was always told to watch out for spotting with cramping, if it is stopped now I would be tempted to wait until Tuesday but I have no history of my so I understand completely why you would be worried. You have had similar in a previous pregnancy that was fine, so that is something to bear in mind, sending hugs. Am sure more knowledgeable ladies will be able to advice better x
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Princessmom, when I was pregnant with DS1 I had some spotting early on then again much later in my pregnancy but everything was fine. I also had bleeding with DS2 as well. It can be normal but if it really worries you, you could call your OB and see what they say. I'm sure everything is fine though if spotting is your usual. Anything like sex, lifting something heavy, or just overworking yourself can cause a bit of spotting sometimes. Good luck at your ultrasound!
Thanks ladies I am going to rest today and just have kids play in my back yard we were going to go to a farm, but I just been doing so much walking I need to rest.
I am on day 10 of my cycle and I usually O at day 14 or 15. But yesterday (day 9) my fertility monitor said high fertility and i had so much EWCM, sorry for the too much information! what is that all about? am I going to O earlier? Is it the one of cardio per day having an impact? or do you think I will just have this until my usual O date?
Thanks
The fertility monitor can give high readings for several days and you can get EWCM for a week before you actually O. This cycle I started getting high readings at CD11 and I normally never do so I think diet and exercise can change that. I didn't O until a couple of weeks later though. You could O in the next few days or it could be at your usual time. There's no way to know for sure really.
The only thing I knew about cycles and exercise is that it could help.
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Feeling so sick and feels like the room is spinning should I be worried about anything?
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Is feeling sick not a good sign? I was told that your pregnancy symptoms get worse with each pregnancy, so I was not sick at all with my first, a bit sick with my second and really sick with my third. Hope it settles for you soon!
Have I missed the whole thing? Is it suppose to be good do swaying pink? Is it the whole makes your environment more acidic thing? When are you suppose to take it and stop taking it?
Low BP maybe? There's a lot of blood flowing to the uterus in pregnancy which can make you lightheaded. I had bad vertigo with DS2 but nothing helped it unfortunately. Try lying down for a bit if you can and drink some water.
I have been lurking for a bit and have finally decided to join this thread! I am currently swaying for girl and will have an attempt in May! I did one attempt in April at pos OPK but i used douche the day before so I probably killed off everything so this month is pretty much a write off. I am 6dpo today and was wondering what day does everyone start testing at?
I got my faint positive 9dpo but dome people won't get it til much later
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I wonder if feeling like this has something to do with being in a very hot environment this afternoon.
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Maybe your right maybe this is my body's way of telling me no more lol I have never had anything like this while pregnant before
The pineapple thing is eating it from o til 5/6dpo to help the egg implant I Google it. Something to do with bromine being in the core of a pinapple and that is what is meant to help
I wouldn't eat to much of it after that because if you do conceive too much in early pregnancy can make your uterus contract. Or so I read! I don't war pineapple anyway.
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Nice to know you feel the same way as me as regards the girl situation. I have two boys already and miscarried a third over a year ago now. I'm hoping it will be fourth time lucky. I haven't told anyone or made an appointment at the doctors as I still don't believe the bfp . Going to wait until the blood test confirms a rise in the hcg and its doubling
Wish I could have blood tests done but there is no reason atm to have them so I won't get them
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I know but it's the doctors that have organised this for me two weeks on Wednesday. I'm nervous ... Just because the symptoms I have are no period and that's about it. I know that's a pretty big symptom but because of the negatives I had a week after I was due I'm still in denial I think
I took a test this morning at 7dpo and it was BFN and I have no symptoms at all, so it looks like I am out for this month 😞
7dpo is super early and the majority of women don't get a positive that early. Many women don't get a positive until 10-12dpo and that's with a faint line! Please don't be disheartened!!
7dpo is wayyyyy too early to test! I wouldn't test till at least 10dpo. Implantation usually occurs on 7 or 8dpo, which means you wouldn't get a BFP till 2-3 days after that (once hcg is produced). And if you have late implantation you won't get a BFP till even later (12dpo or so).
Tmrw my doc appt. did have brown cm this morning after yesterday light pink spotting. I'm just not even feeling pregnant anymore
I hope everything is okay Princessmom. Let us know how your appointment goes.