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Google is always mean. Dr. Google is not a nice option.
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K, please don't Google anything ever! It will always make you think worst case scenario. I was GBS+ with DS1 and I had antibiotics for it during labor. It can come and go, so you could get tested for it a month from now and have it come back negative. As far as I know (based on what my OB at the time told me), GBS is really only a risk to the baby after your water breaks or after the baby is born which is why antibiotics are given as a prophylactic measure during labor.
I had group b with my dd and youngest ds it's no big deal
They usually test for group b during 2nd trim or 3rd trim, I showed pos with my daughter around 3rd or whenever they did the group b test, with my ds it showed up early in my urine. Just need to have 4 hours of antibiotics during labor
I'm headed to Disney World Saturday we are heading over to drive there
Oh gee it's gonna be a hard drive haha my oldest son talks to much lol my daughter will be car sick and my youngest son will prob be cranky lol we got their iPads and snacks etc and will be stopping to eat some foods and hotel. I can't wait to see my little guys expressions! We have so many dining reservations. Chef Mickey is my fav place for breakfast I hope my little one isn't scared lol!
We also get to ride on the new frozen ride! So excited I already start packing it's going to be so hot! I will post photos! My DD told me she hopes she gets her sister so when we take her next they can dress together as princesses aww makes me cry that is literally my dream!
Oh wow! Sounds like it will be an amazing trip!! Have fun!
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Just got my ultrasound date today: July 5. I'll be 13w4d. Assuming I can get any photos, is that a good time for trying to guess gender from skull or nub??
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13 weeks 4 days amazing time for nub guessing!
Sounds like an awesome holiday princessmom! Enjoy!
Raezodal yes that will be a great time for nub theory. Hope you get a clear shot!!
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Awesome!! Here's hoping!! (Can the next 3 weeks fly by? :) )
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How fun Princessmom! Hope you all have a good time!
3 weeks isn't long at all Raezodal! FX for a girly nub!
I'm jealous. They scheduled mine for 12wks. Which isn't the greatest for nub.
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Anyone saved be the bell fans? The 90s show? They opened up a diner like the shows popular hang out the "the max" in Chicago near downtown. My sisters and cousins and I went tonight it was pretty cool. I'm so tired! Especially having so many kids over everyday lol. My nieces love staying with me and hopefully my sister gets this house close to me so we can help each other out and be close by
13 weeks u can deff tell gender I was told with my boys at 11week6days
I got this annoying pallet expander put in. It causes headaches and I'm trying not to medicate with Tylenol. And today I spent about 6 hours cleaning my kids disgusting ass rooms. I basically made it almost impossible for them to make a mess!! Lots of breaks.
My issue is, I'm barely eating because this pallet expander makes it difficult. Things get stuck in it and it drives me crazy. I'm living on top ramen, yogurt and fruit. :( this is not fun. I think I've lost weight too, which is OK cuz I'm overweight and could stand to lose a few lbs.
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I used to watch that show. And many others, oldies like I love Lucy, happy days, Laverne and Shirley, etc.Quote:
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Hey ladies. I did end up losing the baby :( good luck to all of you! I don't think I'll be using Aci jel next time around. My dr seems to think this could be what caused it :( hopefully this process happens naturally without intervention and I'll be back soon ❤️ Thanks for all of your support!
I'm so sorry.
Acijel does not cause miscarriages so please do not blame yourself in any way. sometimes doctors (even nice and well meaning ones) like to single out anything that we do to give a reason when the reality is, virtually all losses are nothing more than bad luck, just something going wrong in a very complex process for no reason other than chance.
Oh gosh DRV I'm so very sorry. :( I agree with Atomic that it wasn't anything you did or didn't do. I had three losses while swaying and I do not believe at all it was due to something I did to cause it. Again I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself hun. ((hugs))
I am so sorry DRV. :( Please take care of yourself.
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Sorry drv
Hi everyone been a while since I was on here. Thought I would give everyone an update and looking for advice! So am now 13 weeks and four days pregnant baby three is due 16th December. Started bleeding today was quite heavy I thought so ended up at hospital . They aid baby is fine but I have a small tear at the end of my placenta. From I have read this can go away by itself or lead to full blown miscarriage if it gets worse. Spent all day in bed and so far so good! Other news ... Had a blood test which gave a girl result was over the moon as I have two boys already I was so happy because this is what I had prayed for. Had another test a bit later and that said boy I haven't stopped crying since. Like all the joy has been sucked out of this pregnancy , I was devastated. All my friends have been having little girls and it's all I ever dreamed of. Obviously with this all happening today I feel so guilty for feeling like it's not what I wanted. This is our last baby I had to work on hubby to persuade him to have this one. I had two failed Ivf attempts to get girl and a low ovarian reserve which made me paranoid about not being able to get pregnant at all. I just feel like someone is playing a cruel trick on me dangling girl in my face and then snatching it away. I don't know what to think now. I thought about having a gender scan at 16 weeks so see who was right but in my heart I think it's a boy and now I have such mixed feeling about it. I can see my little girl in my head and knowing that I may never meet her is crushing me. At the same time I'm scared about this bleed what it means and I think have I caused it by being so anti boy
Pinklady I'm so sorry. You did NOT cause the bleeding by wanting a girl so much. What happened is beyond your control. There are women out there that have way worse thoughts about their unborn babies and go on to have healthy pregnancies/babies. What blood tests did you have done? If it was one of the NIPT tests then those are very accurate. I hope the first test was right for you and this is your little girl and I hope the tear resolves itself. Take care and get all the rest you can!
Thanks for the reply :) I want the first test to be right so much but i really think it was wrong. I had a miscarriage twelve 18 months ago and that was a boy, I got a blood test for that as well which was confirmed by another test because I convinced myself it was wrong. The weird thing is that was a nimble diagnostics test which said boy and then got confirmed by a nifty test and then I miscarried. This time again took nimble test which said girl and then a harmony test and it's boy. I know harmony isn't really for gender though and I'm hoping it's wrong . I have read about them being wrong although I appreciate it doesn't happen often. Something about male Dna still being in maternal blood. I pray this is the case for me. I contacted nimble and they said both tests should show same result ... The only thing I worry about is I probably took the nimble test at just over 8 weeks as there was some confusion with the dates of the baby... It's gone from the 8th Dec to 21st to 18th and now 16th of Dec !!!!! It's like having all your dreams come true and then having them ripped away. I'm honestly having a really hard time accepting it. I did think I don't want this baby if it's a boy.. But it's not like I can him away and I'm sure when he arrives I will love him anyway but it's so hard getting used to the idea. I want it to be wrong so much. Was thinking of having an ultrasound to confirm my worst suspicions and then I will have time to get over it. My last baby though... Never to have a mother daughter bond that's a hard thing to deal with. I'm in bed at the moment as well so all I can do is think. I felt so different with this pregnancy I was convinced it was a different sex ... Just goes to show eh .Quote:
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I hate to say it but I would think harmony is pretty accurate for gender, I'm not sure what a nimble test is. I've never heard of that. You will maybe just need to get a gender scan to confirm completely, so sorry you are being put through the wringer and it's entirely possible the first test is right after all.
Please don't feel like you caused the bleeding. I bled in all four of my previous pregnancies and they were very much wanted and not really GD until later. It doesn't make any difference to the outcome who we feel, please don't put that onto yourself. Take it easy and I'm sure the bleeding will resolve.
I'd never heard of the nimble test either but it looks like an at home test. Is that correct? Unfortunately those tests have greater odds of being wrong especially taken so early and there's room for error not being done in a lab setting. I think blood tests for gender are typically done at 9-10 weeks or later. Harmony is one of the NIPT tests and those are extremely accurate. If you're having a boy (hopefully baby is actually a girl!) then I'm sure in time you will come to terms with it. I think you should have the ultrasound to confirm gender so that way you can go ahead and let the GD healing begin or celebrate having a girl. With DS2, I badly wanted a girl and I was so convinced he was a girl that I'm glad I had an elective scan at 16w to find out the gender. It really, really helped me to get used to the idea that we were having another boy so I had plenty of time to get excited. I've already been trying to mentally prepare myself this time around for another boy.
I'm so sorry DRV.
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I had a weird dream. I dreamt that I was calling the baby in my stomach girl girl girl. Then the feet ripped through my side and I had to deliver the baby myself and it was a boy. And I was upset but just worried about the baby. All the while, my sides ripped open.... And then zombies somewhere in the mix later in that dream. Not sure if I ever got the medical attention I needed. Lol.
Why do I always dream about the baby ripping through my stomach. Last pregnancy it was twin girl rats. They ripped through my stomach and I gave birth to them. Again, medical treatment for myself wasn't a priority.
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DRV, so sorry for your loss. You did not cause it in any way honey xx
Drv
My heart goes to you [emoji22]
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DRV I'm so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself this is not your fault.
Pinklady I'm sorry you've had such a rough time. I would be inclined to get the gender scan so you can lay the gender matter to rest. I hope this is your girl but if it is a boy you will love him no matter what once he is in your arms and finding out sooner than later sounds like the best course of action for you.
Omg K what awful dreams!!! Sorry but all I could think about was 'the walking dead' (💓 that show!) and 'Alien' lol. Hope your dreams become a bit nicer!
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Pink lady what is a nibble test? You mean those online blood gender test such as sneak peek? Because those are wrong, I hope harmony is. I know 3D ultrasound places do gender at 15 weeks where I live. Hope it's a girl for u :)
Oh, DRV:sad: I'm so very sorry for your loss. Big hugs, mama
Pinklady, what an emotional roller coaster! I would definitely look into an elective scan so that you can wrap your mind around whatever is coming your way. I know Harmony is very accurate, but I really hope it was wrong for you.
K, your dreams are terrifying!! Lol. More like nightmares. Darn pregnancy hormones;)
I have the most prominent varicose vein that has just started to become slightly uncomfortable. Got it with my 3rd, but it's already so much worse this time around. It's only on one leg, and TMI, but it goes ALL the way up. Like all the way to my lady parts and beyond I'm sure. Not cool:worry:
Yeah I think I will do that and then I know for sure. I'm know deep down that the harmony test is right but at least if I have a scan then I can let go of the little bit of hope I am clinging too and then maybe try and get on and enjoy the rest of the pregnancy. It's hard letting go of a dream
Ehh, I don't mind them. Just wish I'd get some damn medical attention at some point. I seem way to comfortable having gaping holes in my stomach. Lol.
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Had my scan this morning..Baby is beautiful. Is kicking around
Very active. Saw all arms and legs and opening and closing mouth. The placenta is on the front wall and will need checking again at 20 weeks. They said baby measuring 13+1 when by ovulation date im 12+5 (i know when i ovulated because of fertility treatments ) they move up my dd to december 20th Baby not being very Co operative though had to go for a walk and fill up my bladder more! Before calling me back in.
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I'm so sorry drv please take care of yourself.Quote:
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BR did you get a look at the nub?Quote:
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They won't let me have a nub shot though they think it is absoulty nonsense. I thought I saw 2 straight lines parallel to the spine. Can't be sure but if I'm over 13 weeks it's less chance it will rise to be a boy nub? My son's nub was a bit girl but has it done at 12 weeks and it must have rose after
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Going to have a private gender scan on July 10th I think
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Glad everything went good BR any pics?