Trees im so sorry :(Quote:
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Though it sounds things are lining up great for testing etc this cycle so fingers crossed if there is anything to find that they find and address it fast xx
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Trees im so sorry :(Quote:
Originally Posted by treens
Though it sounds things are lining up great for testing etc this cycle so fingers crossed if there is anything to find that they find and address it fast xx
I just wanted to mention to go in expecting them to be very negative about your chances. Don't take that at all personally, it's because they like to push people towards IVF. As long as you're making eggs and getting your period every month, you can get pregnant.Quote:
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treens.. sorry AF arrived .. but you are on right track with doing all the test and good luck with all that.
we are in fertile week .. and expected to ovulated tomorrow or Monday.
i couldn’t find out the result yet so am thinking to book a telephone consultation on Monday for the doctor look at it and let me know.
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Sorry that you didn't hear BFP this month treens, I'm glad to hear that you get will get your blood work done in the upcoming cycle! Hopefully the numbers can tell you something! Is it to check whether your hormone levels are normal?
All the best Jazmin and hope you get good attempts in this cycle! I cannot believe that it takes weeks to get your result and consultation. It must be frustration to be kept waiting and you need to push for the next step. I hope you get the teleconsultation ASAP!
As for me, I had my eggs retrieved on Friday morning and it went well and easy. I barely slept the night before so had a pretty good sleep during the procedure. To my surprise they retrieved in total 28 eggs but only 16 matured and 12 fertilised. Not sure if this is good for my age and now I am waiting for the D5 result to know how many can be sent for PGS. Super nervous..
I’m sorry Treens. I tried private messaging you but It wouldn’t let me.Quote:
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I just had a D&C to clear out a missed miscarriage , I thought I was 8 weeks but baby stopped at 6 weeks, I seem to get pregnant ok but this time round keeping them is so hard for me. I’ve had a few chemicals and a few blighted ovums in a row now, and the missed miscarriage. Very anxious to try again in a few months. Trying to eat healthy now as gender doesn’t seem as important as just a damn sticky baby at this point [emoji24]
Hope you are ok. It’s a long journey
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All the best that sounds like good numbers alright! I have all it fingers crossed for you! Are you doing this for gender selection? Just curious no judgment !! 🤍🤍🤍Quote:
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No problem at all, we have two sons and conceived both easily. This time we have been trying for 2 years and we found out that theres issue with sperm count and quality. So here we are trying HT. Gender selection is not legal but it seems that they will take into consideration family balancing if I have good quality girl embryo…so waiting game is on!Quote:
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Where abouts are you in the world? It’s illegal to gender select here where I am (NZ) too. But I hope this works for you either way and you get a healthy happy baby. Have you been getting pregnant and MC or not pregnant for 2 years? So stressful [emoji30]Quote:
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Glad it went well one little.. so the process happens when you are asleep? and painless?Quote:
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Wish you the best with next step and all prayers for you.
I called the doctor today with an appointment and he said there is nothing they could see.. and everything is normal.
I am going to do further check up from India from a proper fertility clinic and ensure that NHS is right .. and everything is ok.. meanwhile.. I am ttcing.. and CD16. I might have ovulated last night or today.. we are continuing bd for 1/2 days and [emoji1696] ..
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LMSM-thank you for the kind words.
onelittlewish- That seems like nice numbers fingers crossed for you and you get positive news
Jasmine- Im glad you got results back good luck with bedding and catching the egg!
Nowmarriedgirl- Sending love it has been so hard for you. Wishing you a sticky healthy bean, when you are ready!
Atomic- thank you! Yes I more really just want to know if there is anything wrong or blocked. I am really unsure if we would go further than that. But who knows :)
I had my cycle in Taiwan where I am originally from. I don’t live here now but it is the only place I can travel and stay for a longer period of time on my own with two kids. We cannot afford going outside Asia and the total cost is also lower than malaysia, thailand and singapore plus I get gov subsidy as a citizen so that helps abit financially but legally they won’t tell us the gender of the embryos so that’s the risk we are taking. I never got a proper BFP in the past two years…at one point I also only wanted a healthy baby regardless gender. I pretty much gave up all the diet and ate as healthy as possible but still no luck. Then we agreed to try one time with ivf not sure if we would still transfer if theres no girl embryo but we will see. so sorry to hear about your loss too. How long have you been trying? Are you swaying for a girl or boy?Quote:
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Gooooooooooood luck!!!!! My doctors at where I live also didn’t want to do fertility tests for us apart from semen analysis(because we have two healthy boys) and I had to push to get exams done. Super frustrating when you know time is ticking and you are just stuck. Luckily I have this site and I come up here rambling when I am at a loss for what to do. Hopefully you can get things moving soon in India. When will you travel there? Fingers crossed thisbmonth is the month so you dont need to go through all the hassle…Quote:
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Egg retrieval was done under “general anesthesia” so I was totally knocked out and done before I woke up. No pain during the process but abit of discomfort after the surgery. I had my post surgery checkup snd my ovaries r still swollen and there are fluids but no major concern from my doc. As of day 3 all 12 embryos are still growing and I was told that probably half will make it to blast. I am so nervouuuus
That makes total sense for you to do it in Taiwan then! I really hope it works for you and that there are girls in there!!!! It’s a roll of the dice but a good chance there will be a girl, and if not then another wee boy will be amazing too. I’m sure there will be a mix did they say what the chance are at all, or can they not even tell you that? It makes me realise that people like the kardashians who use surrogates and have 2 boys and 2 girls etc etc have definitely gender selected.Quote:
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I’m swaying girl, I started in July. Then had attempt in November , I have gotten pregnant every time but have had Mc every time. Had my other 3 children so easily , but for some reason #4 is making me work for it. All my bloods have come back good so that’s positive , I guess just bad luck and I’ll keep trying. I kinda went off the sway when pregnant (thought I was 8w but wasn’t) and now I’m just eating really healthy and praying for a sticky baby next. Waiting for AF then will attempt [emoji1695][emoji30] such a hard process isn’t it.
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I am so excited for you! Try to stay relaxed, get your body ready to carry babyyyyy! Maybe even a massage or some kind of self care each day!
Have you had thyroid checked? Babies are hard but are so worth it :))
Thank you treens .. fx fx stepped into 2ww.. willQuote:
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wait n see probably another negative as usual..
but 2loong weeks with mild hope [emoji16]
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Wish you the best dear. it is really hard.. have you started your new cycle ? . xxQuote:
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Hope the swelling all get cleared for you.Quote:
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oh that’s good that you were in general anaesthesia.. i always wondered how it is done when i see graphic videos in utube. its amazing and all the best n luck with the process.. and keep us updated. xx so excited for you [emoji3531]
yes.. I am also hoping it happens this month magically .. lol ... we r thinking to go in August to India.. when the schools are closed here.. if not conceived by then.. the check ups/ treatments from india is my last hope..
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I got your private message Treens but it still won’t let me reply! It comes up “server error” I’m not sure why?! Sorry!!! I’m not ignoring you!!!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍Quote:
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I was going to as if you are on Facebook xxQuote:
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The private messages are going through, it's just that they don't seem to be sending.Quote:
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Oh i see messages I just didn't get notifications :)
Oh so you can see my reply? It says server failed but that’s good lol !Quote:
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That was a rather cryptic statement, let me clarify - the recipient is getting the messages, but to the SENDER they don't seem (by which I mean, appear) to be sending, even tho they are.Quote:
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Never post before coffee...
Haha! Thank you, yes it seems she is getting them, so [emoji1303][emoji1303][emoji3059]Quote:
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Nowmarriedgirl - With the gender they say 50/50 but who knows..there are plenty who only gets one gender when doing IVF. If that is the situation then it is how it is but my oldest boy will be pretty upset. He doesn't want another brother at all. I feel you, never thought making a baby is that hard. Cannot imagine the multiple losses on top of that. Keep going I'll keep you in my prayer too! Hopefully you get your rainbow baby soon. Every cloud has a silver lining and it will be so worth the wait :cheer:
Treens - Thank you! Feeling much better now! How are you doing? Have you gotten your CD3 blook work done? How are they looking?
Jazmin - Thank you I am feeling much better now...although my tummy didn't go down much probably from eating too much LOL. My new cycle just started so I will wait for my next period and start the transfer procedure. I am excited too at least there is hope! Out of my 12 fertilized egg 10 made it to day5 so it was beyond my expectation. Now I am waiting for the pgs results to come back and will know how many normal embryos I have. Aug is not too far away! Either way there's hope at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there! Do you consider IVF if they couldn't figure out what's causing the problem?
I just checked and I can see my bloodwork but i don't know what it means LOL what should I be looking for. I am sure they will tell me tomorrow I have an ultrasound. I have another blood test on the 20th too.
I o'ed yesterday on CD12 seems like another short cycle
Jazmin- I am so happy with how many fertilized eggs you have gotten!
Keep us updated how it went! Cd12 is early! I Oed 1x on cd12 early this year but normally 14-16. Is you LP same as normal and just O earlier? I believe cd12 is still in the normal range…and on the good side you get to start a new cycle sooner if its not the month!Quote:
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Thank you! Normally I will just have a shorter cycle. So we will see, I have a little cold again not as bad as my winter illnesses but it is going around again.
Treens - CD 12 is not early ovulation though so please don't worry about that. When we see truly short concerning cycles they have ovulation like on CD 8-10. O on CD 11-12 is fine! :)
Finished my appointment. They said CD3 bloodwork was good. With the ultrasound today they said by tubes are clear and i have lots of eggs. I have a follow up appointment with how we should proceed in a couple of weeks. We are still waiting for my husbands counts but he had them done 2 years ago and they were good and he is only 31.
I am happy it was good news so far :)
How's everyone else doing?
That is such good news Treens!Quote:
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Fabulous news, Treens!
That's fantastic news - so glad to hear that Treens!Quote:
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So happy to hear that Treens! Hope all is well with hubby's results too! Will they monitor your ovulation for you this cycle? Hope this is the month!Quote:
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Thank you ladies!
I need to go do CD 20 blood work next tuesday.
I am hoping that the procedure they did to check my tubes did not push a possibly fertilized egg somewhere its not supposed to be. Googling i think they are supposed to do it before Ovulation, but they didn't ask me if I know if I ovulated or not so who knows.
How are you all doing?
Huh yes they were definitely supposed to ask you and not do the procedure at the wrong time of the month. I would probably mention that to them on the followup visit not only for the purposes of your future care, but so they are aware they made that error that they should not have.
Thank you attomic. I definitely will!
Hi onelittlewish, good luck with the transfer, omg so exciting .
yes Aug isnt far .. fingers crossed I fall pregnant before that .. No, we are not looking at IVF as of now.. thinking to try naturally, if it is hormonal and tube blockage or something we will try to treat it.. if unknown.. we will just leave it .. and continue unprotected and ill try to focus on something else like finding a new job as my younger one is now full-time at school.
Hi treens.. glad all result came back with good news. Wish you all the best.
No , we are not trying with IVF but one little wish is..
what was the procedure they did to check if you have any block inside tube? I had an internal scan and they said all ok.
I am currently 10dpo and this is probably the first ever month that I didn’t bother symptoms spotting at all or googling [emoji23].. i was too busy and it went so quick.
I feel like period ache.. so I think AF is around the corner.. i will wait for AF [emoji16]
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Af is here [emoji174]
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