Sorry Angelpink Hugs your way!
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Sorry Angelpink Hugs your way!
aww darn angel I was so hoping I was wrong about the boy nub I saw on yours :( I hope he is healthy and congrats on your son.
I'm sorry Angel your sway didn't work. This little boy was certainly meant to be! We are here for you!
I'm so sorry angel! Definitely treat yourself to something nice and have fun buying him some new beautiful outfits. I'm sure your sweet son will steal your heart !
Thank ladies I doubt it about the shopping I went this afternoon hoping it would help I stood there trying to avoid the pink Isle of clothes and just stared at the boys stuff and it's all shit I've had it all before I just bust into tears and left I've honestly never cried so much as I have today my state even reduced my fella to tears as he could see how gutted I was its his first boy and even he was gutted feels like I'm being so selfish when people can't have kids but knowing my dream is gone is the most heart wrenching thing ever
Oh Angel I am so sorry :-( I hope in time you feel better better it's like going through the grieving process as like you say you feel like your dream has gone! But after that you will feel positive again. It's your hubby's first boy to so you will soon feel his excitement xxx and when he is born you will forget these feelings and be replaced with love. Big hugs xxx
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Angel, I'm aching for you. I'm so very sorry and just know that so many of us understand and we are here for you. Just don't feel badly for having these feelings and be kind to yourself. We all know you'll love your child no matter what and we also know the pain you're feeling. You're in my prayers to feel joy and love in this all.
Angel I'm so very sorry. I wish I had the right words to say but everyone before me has said everything. Time will help, it has to. Lots of love.
Im sorry it was so hard for shopping angelpink. Give yourself some more time to grieve and let it all out! Go punch a pillow, cry all your tears, then treat yourself to a day of your own and have a relaxing soak and some comfort food. No one expects you to bounce right back it takes time!
So sorry angel (but congrats too 💙) with ds3 I really broke my heart crying, and felt so bad for days, but I let it all out. But shopping, even if its online to avoid the other isles, will really help once you are ready. I bought gorgeous new bedding, a new pram, cozy blankets, and new clothes that i really loved etc etc. And did his nursery up, got a new sleigh cot ... Retail therapy really helped me bond and enjoy the rrst of the pregnancy and baby days, because i grieved while pg, his birth was all about him, not the fact he wasn't a girl. Do what you need to do to do and be kind to yourself. Most of us have been there and remember that hurt very much xx