Roll-call!! Due June/July/August 2013

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Originally Posted by mummyof3boys

hi ladies! Just thought i would pop in for a quick update
Firstly congrats to all your growing babies and to the ladies that got thier prefered gender!!!
And sorry to the ones who didnt!
So i camped for the week i bled for 5 days but not bad cramping ect stopped bleeding a few days before we came home still got to enjoy a little bit of our time away!
went to doctors when we got back he was happy with what i told him so no need for dnc or U/s he said unless i start bleeding again or have lots ofdischarge
ALSO was thinking about what someone said about lots of miscarriages i think its just the case that noone tells you if they have an early m/c but on here we do....as at the school or even with friends they dont tell u till the 12 weeks
ANYWAY i was VERY unsure about going again and as u can see from my past m/c s i have waited inbetween
so this time we have decided to start trying asap and like my previous 6 pregnancies i hope it only takes 1-2 cycles as if it takes longer we may have to put on hold as we have an over seas holiday next year to scatter my husbands fathers ashes,,,,anyway have prob had the worse 2 months of my life my fil dying and the m/c so bring on lots of positive happy vibes~~~

sorry was so long :)

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Goodluck!!! I hope you get a sticky bean :)

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Originally Posted by Praying4Pink

Mommyof3 is there a reason why your family is against you having a certain amount of kids? I mean I guess I could see if you were "Duggering it out" but I think 4 is a phenomenal amount of kids if that's what your choosing is. Again, so sorry you aren't getting the support you deserve from your family. I do hope things get better for you and that your family is happy for you. ((Big Hugs))

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There aren't any reasons that I could think of that would make anyone against it. My DH and I have been married for 12 1/2 years, we both graduated college and have had steady good jobs our entire marriage. Financially we are better off now then we ever were before and are in a position where I can stay home with this baby while I finish my last year of my second college degree. We have never asked anyone for financial help and have owned our own home for the last 11 years. Two of our boys will have to share a bedroom now because we only have 4 but my sister and I always shared a bedroom so I can't see her caring about that. To be honest my mom has only kept my kids overnight maybe 4 or 5 times since the youngest was born almost 6 years ago and has only watched them for a few hours maybe 10-15 times since he was born so it really shouldn't make any difference to her. I am the only person in my family to have 3 kids so I guess having a fourth would seem like a lot to her.

And the worst keeps on getting worse.....

After my mom texted me all day yesterday she called me in the evening too. I guess she just needed to verify my answers in person. Then she had the nerve to say...."you should tell your doctor thanks for the baby since he's the one that took out your Mirena."

Seriously, who says these things to another person especially their own daughter.

Mommyof3boys, the sooner you tell your mum that your baby was planned, wanted, not an accident and ultimately your and your husband's choice the better. Have you been straight with her? Perhaps she really feels the conception was an accident? Sounds like it. Tell her your feelings and that the topic is no longer open for discussion.

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Originally Posted by jennaesue

Step away from the computer!!!

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Ok ok...I have diverted my attention to finding maternity photo shoot ideas. I am in the process of booking my session so at least that will occupy me until the 29th.

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Originally Posted by Praying4Pink

Ok ok...I have diverted my attention to finding maternity photo shoot ideas. I am in the process of booking my session so at least that will occupy me until the 29th.

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We just had ours on Wednesday evening! I am waiting for my photos back but my photographer did some really cool stuff with us she seen on Pinterest! I will post a few when I get them back :)

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Originally Posted by Mommyof3boys

And the worst keeps on getting worse.....

After my mom texted me all day yesterday she called me in the evening too. I guess she just needed to verify my answers in person. Then she had the nerve to say...."you should tell your doctor thanks for the baby since he's the one that took out your Mirena."

Seriously, who says these things to another person especially their own daughter.

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Ouch, that is rough... Sorry to hear this negativity. Not easy esp with what you are going through.

Best of luck for the time ahead, it's exciting! I hope it happens quickly and I hope it's super sticky. XX

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Originally Posted by Praying4Pink

Ok ok...I have diverted my attention to finding maternity photo shoot ideas. I am in the process of booking my session so at least that will occupy me until the 29th.

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Lol, much healthier! I might look into that also! X

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Originally Posted by cvd

We just had ours on Wednesday evening! I am waiting for my photos back but my photographer did some really cool stuff with us she seen on Pinterest! I will post a few when I get them back :)

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Cvd I pulled a bunch of stuff from Pinterest. They have some great ideas that I really want to use! I can't wait to see your pics cvd!

Maple - Wow! Identical twins. What type are they?