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Thank you so much I love you all.
I phoned my mum and balled down the phone which has made me slightly feel better. She reassured me that it's probably mostly the shock that I'm feeling and once I get used to the idea it'll get easier to cope with.
I'm sure my boys will love another brother and I will love another son when he's here.
Dh said to me this morning when he caught me crying again don't worry we can try again when this one is born. Which I thought was sweet but I feel like I'm done!
You have a wonderful dh Tiffani. And who knows what the future will bring. I was done after four too...and look where I am now. lol We're here for you. And we're pretty aggressive too, so if you want us to punch the u/s tech out that will not be a problem!!! What a jerk!!
Pretty sure I have frequent flyer miles and I'd love to use them on a tech like that...
Lol thank you 3m&1l. xx
Tiffani - your DH sounds amazing and I agree with 3M&AL that you just never know what the future will hold. You are an amazing woman and mom and everything will work out. What you are feeling is normal and OK and you are allowed to feel hurt so don't feel guilty at all. I thought I was done at 2 and now I am already planning #4 if this is a boy. Maybe god gave you this boy b/c you are an awesome mom and are meant to have one more.
And as far as that tech is concerned, he doesn't know who he is dealing with and he better watch out b/c all of us raging preggo ladies would love to take some aggression out. I'm so sorry he did that.
Thank you nc it mean so much to have your support xx
I'm sorry Tiffani :( but your thoughts are normal, no reason to feel guilty about your feelings, they are what they are and With baby number 4 , I think this reaction is to be expected! Last pregnancy we were certainly done at 3, was going to Have DH get snipped, and now here we are again and if its a Boy we will be having a 4th, so plans can always change. It's healthy to cry those tears now. With baby #2 my pregnancy was so different I was convinced he was a girl and he wasn't... so I was pretty disappointed but he came out the easiest sweetest baby with curly hair (slept all the time, never cried ) and I felt like he knew to be so perfect since I was hoping he would be a girl! Lol
Thank you spinning hopefully I'll move out of this depressive place I'm in right now and enjoy the rest of my pg soon.
Thank you all for all your support your all so wonderful. xx
Oh, sweetie, I hope so too. Sending you hugs today. You've been on my mind all morning.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tiffani3
So, I actually saw the dr as well as the nurse, so now I am official. He moved my edd to May 23 based on my last u/s and says I am 9 weeks today, which makes me happy. BUT, this dr does not do a 12 week scan. All that means is that we will go to a private place and get a gender scan at 16 weeks lol. It gave me a bargaining tool with dh. ;)
Hope you all are doing well today!