Thank you Kitkat you have made me feel a lot better! Definitely finding out - or at least confirming Team Blue lol. My boys will be 6 & nearly 4 when this one is born. I'm starting to get nervous about surgery too - after two emergency caesareans I'm electing a caesarean this time & that will be quite different than showing up deep in labour after 30+ hours of pain with that "GET IT OUT OF ME AT ALL COSTS!" mentality. I'm sure I'll be fine. You're right - 3rd time around I AM practically a pro!