Hey ladies - I'm out of town this weekend at a big family wedding. Last night we had a rehearsal dinner at my aunt's house, and I felt like I was the head of a 3-ring circus managing my 3 boys in the crowded house (there weren't many other kids there). I am always such a spectacle doing things with all 3 of my boys (5 and under), I'm starting to worry about how much people are going to gawk when I'm out and about with 4 kids 6 and under! Can any of you ladies with 4 kids or more reassure me about this? I'm starting to panic that I'm going to be the freak show of my city, where no one seems to have more than 2 kids.... I'm ESPECIALLY not looking forward to the comments if #4 ends up being a boy too - I already hear enough of 'You need a girl!', or 'You have all boys? God bless you - that must be tough!'.

