Originally Posted by
Lissastick
I'm on 8 DPO today and I have been testing since 5 DPO (Silly, I know). All negative tests. I am still thinking this cycle was a bust. AF is due next Thursday, I think.
My son's 3rd birthday is on Sunday.
I just really want to give my son a sibling. I was feeling like I wanted to give up on a 2nd child altogether, but, I think I'm just giving up swaying for a girl. I know that I will get another little dude, and I am actually now MORE than ok with that! I've always kind of saw myself as a boy mom anyway. It's easy, natural and just makes sense for me. Even though I'm super girly! Haha. But, I have a big brother and he made me like fart jokes and nasty things. So, I would actually love another little boy.
If my suspicions are correct and this cycle is a bust (even if I am pregnant, I am pretty sure it will be a boy!), next cycle I am just eating how I feel (which is not L.E. in the sense that I snack, often) and I am going to do 2 or three attempts at BDing because I just want to be pregnant already. I don't want to have the baby in the dead of summer again because I live in a desert climate and that's just a big NO. I would have rather had the baby in April, but next try the baby will be due in May. Still not too hot that time of year. I won't be pregnant all through the summer again like I was with my DS.
Good luck to everyone waiting for their BFPs and to everyone who is strong enough to sway! Haha!