I'm so sorry Boysway! You must be so frustrated and exhausted. I must admit, it feels like you've been at this for a long time. I'm hoping this is your lucky, boy-making month!
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I'm so sorry Boysway! You must be so frustrated and exhausted. I must admit, it feels like you've been at this for a long time. I'm hoping this is your lucky, boy-making month!
Boysway maybe late implantation?
Janamom Good Luck and I hope your hard work pays with a bfp :)
Thanks Jana. I actually checked my temp again because I realized I hadn't had enough hours of sleep before checking my temp. It did go up but it really does feel like af is coming. I even took pain relief for cramps last night which I don't even need to do when af is here. I have spotted in the past with pregnancies but I really don't hold hope. I had another bfn this morning. I expect af to either arrive through the night (night shift tonight) or some time tomorrow.
I really thought we had a good chance this time. We bd the morning and afternoon of my +Opk. Maybe the thing missing is we bd the morning of and the morning after my +Opk on the cycle I fell pregnant with Miss 4.
And, yes it feels like I've been attempting for a long time. 9 months on the diet so far :( three months worth of actual chances in that time.
You aren't alone Boysway...this month marks 2 years of TTC for me with nothing to show for it but two miscarriages and a bucket of BFNs!Quote:
Originally Posted by Boysway
Nervous for my approaching positive opk. Me and the dh have started bd'ind since cd 4. We bd everything day from cd 4 till cd 7, and every other day since positive opk. Dh is on board with putting in all three attempts @ + opk. I read on someones post regarding the smep plan that it sways blue by atomic. This is pretty much what we are going for because my dh doesn't want to hold back. I am so close to my positive opk but the green tea or one of the supplements I am taking has pushed my cycle a little farther in. Wish me luck ladies and good luck to all you gals still left in October. I hope we see many bfps :p
I find all this so complicated - I'm just going to copy you yogiandboo! You BD every OTHER day from CD4? Is that right? I'm CD3 now. AF only lasted 2 days which makes me think my cycle is still weird. I'm not taking clomid this month so I just have to HOPE I O without it.Quote:
Originally Posted by yogi&booboo
GL to you!
tm
I've read to bd every 2 to 3 days and at positive opk you bd basically three times. Once that night or following morning you first see your positive. The following morning and at night the same say. The more the marrier. I know what you mean with AF. I usually ovulate by cd 16 but I had a chemical last month and im still waiting to see my positive. Almost anything can throw a cycle out of wack. From my previous experience I know green tea and certain supplements can do that..Good luck to you too!.Hope you ovulate soon 😊
Boysway, I'm still holding out hope for you this cycle then!!! And if not, I have a strong feeling it will happen soon. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
Adia, that's awful!!! Have you went to the Dr to see why this might be happening?Quote:
Originally Posted by Adia
Yogi- I'm hoping this is your month also!
Good luck tm29.
boysway - I am so sorry. And I don't want to give false hope but thats what happened to me the month I got my BFP, temp dropped had awful AF pain so bad i had to take pain relief, then nothing....3 days after that I got my positive.
I was so hoping this was your month too, you have suffered enough with this :(
Tm29, yes, you absolutely have a chance! Did you know some ladies catch the first egg and never have af return because of breastfeeding? I actually know someone who had this happen and didn't realize the surprise was in there until she was 6 or 7 months along! And the breastfed baby was only around 3 months old at the time conception must have happened. I am still breastfeeding my 2 year old, but af came back at 8 months. I've been monitoring my cycles and all is normal now. I had to take B6 to get my leuteal phase long enough to sustain a pregnancy. If you're having trouble, it could be the lp length, and I don't think Clomid affects that does it? I thought it affected egg maturation? Also, I personally start opk testing at cd9. I tried internet cheapies, but they're so hard to read and will definitely stress you. I recommend the Clearblue digital regulars (not Advanced) that give you a smiley face. I used them with fmu. And how is your cm quality? You might need some supplements like the cough medicine or try some Preseed. If only we could wish to be pregnant and have it happen instantly! Sometimes I desire that and sometimes I think maybe things are better this way anyway.
I am cd 16 today by an hour or so because its 12:59am here in California. Only a few more ours and I test again. My opks still aren't fully positive but offly close. I swear I wish I was as optimistic as my dh. He can see and feel-good my frustration. I had a few tantrums but he kept calming me down and hugging me saying not to worry and that I should see my +opk within the next day or so. I hope hes right. Im going on 11 months now trying to conceive without success and I am pretty worn out.
Yogi , keep dtd you may get your positive bfp this month!
Im very concerned about CM
I dont have much and i got my positive opk yesterday
I took mucinex 600 2 pills every 12 hours and didnt do much!
Rubitssuin gave me better results in the days before my O
And im having bad O pain
Hats off to you for keeping at it adia. I can't begin to imagine the pain and frustration you must go through.
Good luck yogi :D Good luck tm :)
business.woman, are you drinking enough water/juice?
I am definitely out! Onto the next cycle.
Jana, I will be 32 in December.
Adia and boysway - I'm so sorry to hear you don't yet have your bfp. Adia - I feel sure a dr would have a view on what's going on for you. Maybe you've already thought about all that.
Either way, I wish you the best of luck. I'm really worried I'll regret not taking Clomid to induce Ovulation this cycle - but I'm in with a shot - thanks sageviolet for the pep-talk. Breastfeeding and weight loss after pg was to blame I think. Just hoping I'm now good to go.
Do you all use Cleablue smiley face opk? I don't like them much - any better ones?
Boysway
Yep actually im drinking water more than i usually do
Welp ladies I think I can unofficially say I'm pregnant because my right leg has been aching all day and all night and it only did that when I was pregnant with my DD. Except this is a little too early for this ache for me. I don't know if my boy Sway worked though because we only got 2 good attempts all week and no positive Opk. But we just keep praying and knowing to put our faith in God because he gives us what we need not what we want. So here is the the dreaded 2 week wait! I'll be praying for boys for all the ladies here! Send blue dust my way please!
Massive amounts of blue sparkly luck to you! How interesting about your leg?! Great to have a sign like that. FX this is your gorgeous little sonQuote:
Originally Posted by BeckMom89
Buisness woman have you tried mucinex liquid form? I heard your body absorbs it better than the pills :)
Boysway I am truly sorry & Thank-you . Good Luck to you too!
Tm I hade the clearblue smileys. It always gave me a smiley at the wrong times.I use wondfos and I think I am safe to say almost everyone here uses them too. They work great and are affordable :)
Good Luck Beckmom! I hope this is a great sign leading to your bfp :)
Yogi , i couldnt find it in liquid form only found the pills
Anyways im done with dtd and dh is worn out lol
Bd on the positive opk +
Twice the day after
I dunno if we can bd tonight we are exhausted
Beckmom
Best of luck to you , tons of blue dust 😍
Only 2 weeks and we will see lots of bfps , I swear
I have ordered wondfos yogiandboo - thank you.
I am doing the SMEP plan and trying some of the HE diet. Only just started though so I am not sure how useful it really is.
OPK is already starting to darken and I am only on cd10. Also using preseed on the non fertile days. Can't find soft cups in Australia which is frustrating.
Those are great attemps! Good Luck to you and keepingy fingers crossed we se a bfp in two weeks!Quote:
Originally Posted by business.woman
Janse good luck and welcome here!
Hope u will get your blue bundle soon:cool:
Yogi im sure we will 😍
Boysway, did af come?
Congrats beck!
Welcome and good luck janse
Jana, yes af made her appearance. I'm on cd3.
Uh , i have had a bad infection down there!
I think it started in my fertile window 😞
Yesterday was the last day in my fertile window
I hope this wont kill the lil swimmers😣
Can i take treatment , or this will affect in sorta
Do u think infections sway pink??
Business Woman try some yogurt down there. Atomic would recommend you use this for a yi. You can try taking a probiotic. From what I hear some help sway blue.
Here is a short thread Business Woman
A FLIPPIN YEAST INFECTION days before my attempt! Help
http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/...ad.php?t=43497
A FLIPPIN YEAST INFECTION days before my attempt! Help
Thnx yogi , i will try the yogurt today
And i will eat garlic as well
If i took the probiotic , even though i already Ovulated , this still could help?
I will try it 😃
As far as swaying goes not that I am aware of. Once the egg is fertilitzed the gender is already determined. In other words by the time implantation occurss usually 10dpo the gender of the baby is already in its dna.
It is more what you do before ovulation that sways. Take the probiotic though as it's in keeping with a blue sway and can help your YI :)