So sorry momamia! K was praying you would get your BFP.
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So sorry momamia! K was praying you would get your BFP.
Oh Momamia I'm so very sorry. :( I was really hoping you'd get your BFP this month. Hugs!!!
Momamia I'm so sorry. I was really hoping for a different outcome this morning!
PBN- here's my chart. A temp drop today lol so I guess I haven't ovulated yet... Maybe I geared up to but didn't. Idk. Here's my chart http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/16/02...8b5483af8e.jpg
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Oh momamia I'm so sorry. I must have missed something and just saw your bfp. What a draining process this can be. I hope wherever you are, you can have some fun and relax.
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I'm 9dpo and feel nothing. The last two times I was pregnant, I had cramps on this day. Doesn't make me feel good about this month.
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It's not uncommon to O 3+ days after a first positive OPK. Oing the same day is also possible but not super commom. Only temps can tell you for sure! I bet you will get a positive OPK today!Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
I wouldn't personally BD a ton my first month on Clomid, bc you can still get a biy doing the diet and Clomid. Most of the failed Clomid + LE sways have 2+ attempts in the fertile period.
Momamia, I noticed your BFP was on an old FRER but your BFN today on a new one. The new ones are much less sensitive so you may still have a shot. Fx for your beta in a couple days! I still have hope for you.
Quinn, I'm feeling out too. Not a feeling I enjoy! My temp dropped today. I'm 12dpo. I feel like AF will arrive tomorrow.
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My Ovulation Chart
Just posted my chart. We are e3d so we will dtd today again. I'm hoping we can still catch the egg.
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Thanks everyone. I'm going to try to stay distracted today
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Okay, I don't think I've ovulated yet. I have more EWCM than I've ever had in my life today (maybe from the Clomid?) were about to bd (if we can sneak away from DS) and cross our fingers!!!
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I'm sorry momamia :(
My fingers are crossed for everyone still .
I'm on cd 13 and feel like i don't know what to do anymore.... I know we should attempt today but I need reassurance that you can get pregnant with a couple day cut off while on clomid.
I usually O on cd 14 or 15 but I have o'd as early as cd 12 before so I feel like i should bd today just in case as I am having all signs of O (intense cramps, ewcm..). But I guess I'm just afraid that I won't o until cd 15.... being on clomid which apparently makes conditions more hostile for sperm.. is a cut off still good chances?
As far as opks go, I haven't gotten a positive yet but I have had cycles where I never got a positive and then still clearly o'd according to ff... so I don't really have much faith in them. That cycle I was using wondfo's but now all I have are the clear blue smiley face ones.
Kmom I would definitely BD again today! It's harder to conceive with a really long cut off (more than 4 days) on Clomid for sure, just due to reduced CM.
Thank you maiden!
It's so frustrating to me to have such a hard time getting positive opks! I have ewcm but it is minimal... I feel like that must be an effect of clomid... my cp is very high. I can't even tell if it's soft or hard cause its out of reach almost.
Tmi question but does anything effect cp other than O? Like needing to have a bowel movement? I don't feel like i have to go to the bathroom at all but I'm just trying to think of any reason why it would feel so high other than ovulation it's self.
Sorry maiden. Your temps are still high overall. Mine dropped before my bfp in December. Also saw tfahn started. It really is disappointing to get a negative after a mc. So close but so far.
I still keep getting upset about my cp. Being pregnant would have saved me so much money between the RE and acupuncture. Plus I always think of the baby that could have been...
I know the best results for girl are one or two times but I conceived my last dd with an IUI and tons of bd before and after. I had a really LE lifestyle though so that helped I'm sure.
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Kmom I've only gotten positive OPKs twice in 6 years of using them. On Clomid, my OPKs were even lighter than usual! It is indeed very frustrating. I love my CBAD bc I get a Peak on it preceded by 3-4 days of Highs. But it can't be used on Clomid. :( I think it's great that you are BDing every 4 days. I planned to do that this cycle but I felt so bad from the Clomid it wasn't possible. Hoping to do every 3 days next cycle.
Awww Quinn i really hope this is your month.
I just noticed some clear EWCM with a tiny blob of rubbery, very pale pink CM. I'm inclined to think that means I'm out...but my pre AF spotting is always at least a little brownish. Often it looks beige bc it's so little and mixed with creamy CM. This pink is completrly devoid of any brown. Last pregnancy I has a few days of pink tinged clear-creamy CM around the same dpo. Gah! If it WERE brown I'd just assume AF was coming...i hate limbo!
Also I'm retaining water? I noticed bc I wore some jeans and almost couldn't button them but I definitely haven't gained weight. Has anyone retained water post O on Clomid? This is not a normal symptom for me, pregnant or not.
I can relate Quinn, the BFN hit me hard yesterday and I kept thinking that the MC I had last month was probably a boy that I wanted since it took so long to implant, as people usually say boys implant later. I had tested through 11dpo and never got a positive on a FRER so when I started bleeding on 13 dpo I naturally assumed it was my period which in hindsight it never was, I so wish I had tested Christmas day.
I just have heard so many people get there BFP after there MC that I was focused on that all month but alas a new cycle began, crying over it won't change my BFN so trying to stay positive. I will start Clomid Monday evening, After I call the RE and request a blood HcG test Monday morning. I just don't trust the FRER's and the heaving bleeding enough to take Clomid again without a blood test. Fingers crossed for a healthy BFP this cycle.
I still think this is your cycle Maiden, pee on a stick already! LOL
Yeah, tfahn your situation was such a strange fluke. I've never heard of that happening so I would probably get a blood test too. Hopefully this is it for you!!
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Hi all so I'm trying for a girl as well:) this is month four of hoping to get a positive preg test but AF came at 11 days past o about 4 days earlier then normal! It was def a period as it was not just spotting lasted only 3-4 days usually have two light days and three heavy! Didnt have the heavy this time ? U think its messed up from diet and supplements! Atomic said to dtd 1 time at positive but I'm going to do every three days? Also do any of you use refresh debating if I should use it or if maybe that us another reason I'm not getting prego! I usually get preggo easily! First month w my first and 1 time w my second!
CD 4 AF is more heavy than usual, can't wait to get my bfp already! Really hoping for a Thanksgiving Baby!
Will do e4d then see when I will about to ovulate and maybe switch to e3d I really need to get off this diet and be pregnant already lol
Refresh cuts conception a lot and odds are not even that good, I used it before and didn't conceive dropped it and did. I used ky jelly and won't be using it again.
Just fiber and coffee and alcohol daily and BD e3d
I think you're pregnant Maiden! I can't wait for you to POAS!!
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Thanks! I am taking folic acid vitex and saw palmento as well per atomic! I had a plan from atomic but my subscription ran out really can't afford the 100 to renew right now or I would ask her what to do! I wonder if these lower my odds if conception as well? How about taking antihistamine before ovulation?
Oh and I hear you on this diet I need off too I'm going crazy
It's only $25 to renew your plan, sweetie!Quote:
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I'm so over the diet too :-(
So sorry momamia. Sending lots of ((hugs))
Maiden - fx for you, sounding promising.
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Maiden still cant wait for you to test!
Quinn when are you testing?
Momamia I'm so sorry - what an absolute mind (insert swear word here) this has been for you :( hoping the new style frers arent as sensitive as maiden suggested and you still have a chance.
Fx Lauren! Hope the e3d timing works out perfect for you!
Sorry for everyone whose had to deal with a bfn this month :( it such a hard result to cope with especially when you've experienced a loss or have been ttc for so long :(
As for me I've mentioned privately to a few friends here that this is it for me and I couldn't be happier. I'd become an obsessed freak with ttc and it was taking over my mind 24/7. I feel like I've thought of nothing else for the last year and had recently even began dreaming about it as well. I would wake up after dreaming sometimes twice that I'd temped or somehow missed a bd and it was ruining my life. I truly am ready to stop and after finally having a wonderful, dreamless sleep, feel a million dollars and more resolved than ever to move on if I get a bfn. I believe I'm currently 2dpo regardless of my temp dip (think I oed early friday morning and caught it as temp was rising but not at height, then caught my fall back rise the following morning.) My cm had started turning post o by friday afternoon. After very little/poor sleep all week trying to get as many bd's as possible I am very happy that I feel we've given this our best shot! So here's my chart (its not pretty or very readable) magical I'm sorry we may nit end up pregnant together after all - it wasn't through lack of trying lol and I cant wait for your successful fet!! I'll be waiting and watching 😊 http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/2016...25fe60d3a9.jpg
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Mommamia, you have already had a bfp whether you believed it truly or not, it was there, which means that a baby formed and produced hcg. The chance of a frer having a false positive is almost 0. You had two in fact. I am inclined to agree with whoever said this last test you did is one of the ones that is less sensitive and that's why the test showed negative. Yes there is a small chance that you have had a chemical pregnancy, but a lot of your symptoms say something is going on. Can you lay down and close your eyes and see if you can feel your uterus inside your body and see if you can feel a throbbing sensation? I've been pregnant five times and I have always picked when I am pregnant because of the way my uterus feels to me. I essentially take pregnancy tests to confirm what I already know. I know that sounds all a little woo, but I've known when I'm not pregnant. It just feels quiet down in that region. When I'm pregnant it feels like all the blood has run to that area and is getting busy. I still have my fingers crossed and I think you will be surprised again when you take your next hpt. Good luck.
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Unfortunately, af has started officially. I won't mark it until tomorrow as my Dr said the first full day of flow is the first official cycle day, plus it's 10pm here. Thank you all for your support. It means so much to me and really helps me get through all of this. I'll be letting my RE know that I had a chemical and see what he says. I just don't understand why my body is having such a hard time staying pregnant. Hopefully the hsg will tell me something. I'll be calling tomorrow to schedule it.
FX for everyone!! I'll have to catch up with the thread when I'm back home in a few days. :)
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Hopefully we all get our bfps for the cycle!
Momamia sorry to hear that!
Pbn I will miss you! But I totally understand I have 2 frosties left that I don't want to waste and if they don't work I think that will be it for me after over 1 year ttc and obsessing I'm actually content with it, so I totally understand where your coming from.
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Stalking you maiden!! [emoji102]
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Tfahn, Ksmom and momamia - I'm so sorry af showed up. Praying you all get your sticky beans very soon
Maiden - I am keeping my fx this is your month!! The water retention on clomid is normal for me too; in fact, my first month on clomid I actually had a lady at work ask me when i was due :suprise: that's how bloated I was! LOL!
Cmiller - you could also ask in the forums, atomic may not answer right away but she is usually pretty good at replying and you may get some other suggestions too!
Pbn - I hear you on the obsessiveness, even when I try to let go and not temp, or track opks my mind still runs a mile/minute trying to plan and overthink everything. I am glad you have found clarity and solace but I am still keeping my fingers crossed you caught your eggie this month :)
Princessmom - fx this is your month!
AF showed up yesterday for me :( Sigh. I am sorry if I missed anyone, really hoping we see lots of BFPS this month
Sorry honeybug [emoji17]
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Sorry honeybug :( try and take a day off thinking about things (hard I know if not impossible). Really hope your bfp comes this cycle.
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PBN I'm sorry that this year has been so disheartening for you but I'm so so glad you feel such peace with your decision. I love when I'm so worried about something and I finally let my heart and mind work together to give me calm.
Momamia- I'm so sorry.... I hope you can finally get some answers about what is going on.
Maiden- stalking!
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Thanks Lauren :) its been nice discussing projects and goals with dh that I'd shelved during this ttc time. I'm actually quite excited about things and even the idea of going back to work maybe a couple days a week. So while these things will never be the same as one more baby they mean something to me and my family and will be really good goals we can focus on and achieve together!
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Oh mommamia! I'm so sorry. Sorry for all you ladies who have been disappointed this time around.
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Ok so as you know I'm waiting for AF to start my next FET, I stupidly tested as AF is due but I'm not sure if I can see something. http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/2016...2a7955ae87.jpg
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