TTC BOY November Chit Chat Thread - All welcome!!

TTC5 - So hubby will be drinking a few beers next month... Maybe it wont be too hard for you to get him to cooperate with you in the heat of the moment :wink:

ttc5-don't you think DH just want to drink beer and so he came up with this dream?:rofl:

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Not the date just January 12 but DH said he was told clearly in a dream I would be due Oct 14th 2012

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Oh Ruby told me Nov. Dec. but we are not going in Dec. so it's Nov. or Jan .for us lol.

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Originally Posted by Flava

Oh Ruby told me Nov. Dec. but we are not going in Dec. so it's Nov. or Jan .for us lol.

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Why aren't you trying in December?

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Originally Posted by Foxy

TTC5 - I was thinking the same. So confused. Sorry about the BFN and your temp dropping :( December is a great month to make some blues though! I concieved my 2 boys in Dec.

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Yeah, I am hoping for a blue BFP next month! I conceived my son in Dec. as well. I think it is a great boy month!!

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Me.... crappy BFN 12 dpo and temp dropped this morning :(

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Sorry TTC5!! I thought for sure this was your month... for twins maybe! :(

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Why aren't you trying in December?

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oh because I just don't want to.Im sick of swaying O is screwed up every month and i think we dtd to tale or to early and I just want to bake and hang out with the girls and not eating drinking taking sups all day.I just need a break.

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Originally Posted by Flava

oh because I just don't want to.Im sick of swaying O is screwed up every month and i think we dtd to tale or to early and I just want to bake and hang out with the girls and not eating drinking taking sups all day.I just need a break.

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Yeah, it is a hard month because of the holidays. But I think it is a good boy month! Lots of boys conceived in Dec. My son is one of them! :) So we are going for it. :)

OMG I am SO depressed :(
I weighed this morning. 80 fucking kilos guys, 80 kilos. How embarrassing. I am only 156cm tall. I am now wearing size 16 clothes. How disgusting of me. Why did I do this to myself.
I am premenstrual right now, crying all morning stressing over our finances and to see how FAT and DISGUSTING I am has topped it off.

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Originally Posted by Alexis2007

thanks ladies! Temp dropped a little this am and cm is sticky/creamy mix so I'm not feeling so confident right now. I was planning on testing tomorrow but if my temp drops again, I may just wait and see if AF is late.

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Those little changes don't mean anything. My temp always fluctuates. Your chart still looks very promising. Test, go on!

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Originally Posted by Foxy

I hope someone can help me here. I just got a faint line on a HPT. It's been over 6 weeks now since my DnC. Would I still get a positive HPT at this point? No AF either? I was 9 weeks when I had the DnC.

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Have you had any follow blood test after the D&C? I hope it's a bfp for you!

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

Thanks Bec, I hope you get your bfp soon if not Clomid can help with LP and can bring on ovulation early. FX you won't need it.

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Thankyou :) I'm onto my next cycle now. I hope Clomid and B6 will do the trick.

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Me.... crappy BFN 12 dpo and temp dropped this morning :(

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I'm so sorry :( I know how you feel, I am in the same boat. And sorry that you are feeling so crappy about things this morning. ((hugs))

Bec did the witch show?

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Originally Posted by Flava

we did last night on O at least i hope not O+12 if that thing is real.

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Good luck! I really hope this is your month Flava! Then you can enjoy all your baking over the holidays without worrying about swaying ;)

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Originally Posted by TTC5

OMG I am SO depressed :(
I weighed this morning. 80 fucking kilos guys, 80 kilos. How embarrassing. I am only 156cm tall. I am now wearing size 16 clothes. How disgusting of me. Why did I do this to myself.
I am premenstrual right now, crying all morning stressing over our finances and to see how FAT and DISGUSTING I am has topped it off.

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I'm in the same boat TTC5... I am also the biggest i have ever been in my life and just had to go buy new clothes that fit me, i hate looking at myself naked now and i keep thinking DP is going to stop being attracted to me. Its so uncomfortable i just wish i was pregnant already so people would just think "oh shes pregnant, not just fat" :(

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Bec did the witch show?

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Well I had spotting all day yesterday, but I actually think it was more of a light flow than anything. I don't usually have very heavy flows. And today it is a bit heavier and it's red as well. So I am counting yesterday as CD1. I'll start Clomid on CD4.

Bummer :( I will probably be joining you soon xx

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Originally Posted by Cinss

I'm in the same boat TTC5... I am also the biggest i have ever been in my life and just had to go buy new clothes that fit me, i hate looking at myself naked now and i keep thinking DP is going to stop being attracted to me. Its so uncomfortable i just wish i was pregnant already so people would just think "oh shes pregnant, not just fat" :(

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I feel so down I actually have not eaten anything today :(

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Originally Posted by TTC5

I feel so down I actually have not eaten anything today :(

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:( :( If this isn't your month are you sure you won't try in December?

Prob not... we are really struggling right now so can't afford to eat well/supps and all that either :(

Been a bad morning for me..

5-- i am right there with ya! same size and everything! Maybe you should give it a go in December I have a feeling a lot of BFPs are gonna show up come the 1st of the year !Dec is gonna be a good boy month!

cinss--me too! I wanna be the preggo not the fatty..lol...never been this big in my life either!

Bec, Fab, Lola and anyone else who has taken clomid advice please! how do they determine what CDs you take it, and how much? Bec why r u taking b6 with it? I have a dr apt on nov 21 to talk to the Dr about this and I am scared that it is going to be a negative experience :(

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Originally Posted by ams

Hi ttc5, I hear u on the December thing my dh and myself to be honest love a beer on a hot day... And it sure has been hot lately! But in saying that I am still going with dec! Surely a few beers couldn't hurt??? It's mostly made up of yeast anyway! And have u seen beer ads! All the blokes look like they are full if testosterone so must have something in it right : )

And I don't think my sway will be 100 percent perfect anyway so I am going with it , doing the diet, supps, ural etc and will have a few beers because after all it is the silly season!

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My brother is an alcoholic and his 2 kids are boys so maybe beer drinking has something to do with that?

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Originally Posted by TTC5

OMG I am SO depressed :(
I weighed this morning. 80 fucking kilos guys, 80 kilos. How embarrassing. I am only 156cm tall. I am now wearing size 16 clothes. How disgusting of me. Why did I do this to myself.
I am premenstrual right now, crying all morning stressing over our finances and to see how FAT and DISGUSTING I am has topped it off.

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Aww i'm sorry you don't feel good about that but the good thing is it's only weight and can come off :) hard work yes but it can come off so try not to worry too much about that....you've got enough worries at the moment with finances and so on so yeah don't feel bad about yourself. ((hugs))

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Me.... crappy BFN 12 dpo and temp dropped this morning :(

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Hubby now says he wants to skip December :(

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Noooooooo

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Originally Posted by Flava

ttc5-don't you think DH just want to drink beer and so he came up with this dream?:rofl:

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lol

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Originally Posted by TTC5

OMG I am SO depressed :(
I weighed this morning. 80 fucking kilos guys, 80 kilos. How embarrassing. I am only 156cm tall. I am now wearing size 16 clothes. How disgusting of me. Why did I do this to myself.
I am premenstrual right now, crying all morning stressing over our finances and to see how FAT and DISGUSTING I am has topped it off.

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HUGS

TTC5 when would you be due to O in Dec?

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Originally Posted by 2pinkNoblue

5-- i am right there with ya! same size and everything! Maybe you should give it a go in December I have a feeling a lot of BFPs are gonna show up come the 1st of the year !Dec is gonna be a good boy month!

cinss--me too! I wanna be the preggo not the fatty..lol...never been this big in my life either!

Bec, Fab, Lola and anyone else who has taken clomid advice please! how do they determine what CDs you take it, and how much? Bec why r u taking b6 with it? I have a dr apt on nov 21 to talk to the Dr about this and I am scared that it is going to be a negative experience :(

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Your doctor will tell you what cycle days to take Clomid. For example 3-7, 4-8, 5-9 etc. I conceived my DD2 taking it days 4-8 so that's what I am doing this time as well.

I'm taking B6 to help lengthen my LP. This cycle it was a pathetic 8 days. It is usually 12 days so even lengthening that can't hurt.

Why do you think it will be a negative experience with your doctor?

Oh and I am taking 50mg of Clomid. You start out low and if it doesn't make you O your dose will be increased.

I would be o'ing in the first week or two of Dec x

Ttc5 I know with the boy sway they recommend you put on weight which i did, but I only put on 5kilos, Im normally 52Kgs and for the sway I was 57kgs and I hated that, so I cant imagine how your feeling, & Im 1cm shorter then you.

Try take your mind off swaying for a bit & maybe go to the gym, walk everyday, anything to help get some of your weight off, you will feel so much better for it.

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Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Ttc5 I know with the boy sway they recommend you put on weight which i did, but I only put on 5kilos, Im normally 52Kgs and for the sway I was 57kgs and I hated that, so I cant imagine how your feeling, & Im 1cm shorter then you.

Try take your mind off swaying for a bit & maybe go to the gym, walk everyday, anything to help get some of your weight off, you will feel so much better for it.

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I feel horrible. I am usually only 60kilos at the most :(
I had to cancel my gym membership this week.

I hope you can feel better real soon! Thats Ok Ttc5 you dont need the gym, just start walking, anything you know.

Yeah I need to hey. I feel sooo down in the dumps today my hormones must be so out of whack. I am not sure I even want to sway anymore :(

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Originally Posted by TTC5

OMG I am SO depressed :(
I weighed this morning. 80 fucking kilos guys, 80 kilos. How embarrassing. I am only 156cm tall. I am now wearing size 16 clothes. How disgusting of me. Why did I do this to myself.
I am premenstrual right now, crying all morning stressing over our finances and to see how FAT and DISGUSTING I am has topped it off.

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I am huge too! It is this damn diet. But it will all be worth it when we have our baby boys!

5, how are you feeling now?

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Yeah, it is a hard month because of the holidays. But I think it is a good boy month! Lots of boys conceived in Dec. My son is one of them! :) So we are going for it. :)

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We are in FL so in Dec. is still warm here .And because of that I don't think it matters for us.Like i just don't think it's really a "boy month" here.

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Originally Posted by Bec

Good luck! I really hope this is your month Flava! Then you can enjoy all your baking over the holidays without worrying about swaying ;)

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Thanks I hope so too...but there are times I don't even want to be pregnant anymore...Im so FAT too! Never been this big , ever.
For those of you who is not so big how do you do it???Im thinking I have to start loosing weight.really!

Bec- Im sorry for af is here for you....hope you get a bfp next time with the clomid.

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Yeah I need to hey. I feel sooo down in the dumps today my hormones must be so out of whack. I am not sure I even want to sway anymore :(

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Im sorry big hugs! XXX But you know I feel the same!!! We should really talk about this girls! How on earth some of us get so fat and some only put on a little Like CA??
Is this because they get a bfp fast and did not do the diet long or what??
Im doing it since April and put on almost 30 lbs now!!! I hate it I absolute hate it!!!
Thinking about loosing weight but how can I when we always have to eat? Even at night need a damn late night snack!
And can't just eat a apple or so it must be apple and nuts then or so on YKWIM...
So what now? I know even liek this I have a huge chance for another girl if I stop and loose weight it's a girl for sure!
Only way is stop swaying , no more baby and loose the damn fat!I guess...

Good think is Im in the 2 ww now , it's always easy for me. I hate the wait from af to O.

LBAM - I would definitely start tracking with FF. I did it long enough to determine that I O overnight/early morning after my +opk and that by evening cm I start turning creamy. FF can be so helpful figuring out what day that egg'll drop :)

WP - 4 out of 6 in November?! Wow, you're horny little bunnies in Feb/March lol OMG those cakes sound yummy! Yay for excited kids!

2PNB - I believe Chlomid sways pink because it dries up cm. If you've never noticed ewcm I think that's definitely something to work on. I'd avoid soy, it releases estrogen so I'm not sure why it would be used to sway boy. Also there's studies about soy causing sterility in boys of soy scarfing mom's. Not sure if the isoflavones do the same.
They suck but condoms are great between attempts.

Alexis- fx!!

MFC- hope the meds get things under control asap!

Foxy - if there was any tissue left over it would have caused an infection so you'd definitely know it. Generally within a couple wks of a m/c or D&C your hormone levels would be completely normal. I had a violent m/c and d&c at 13 wks and af arrived 32 days later, I'd say chances are you're preggo!

5- Sorry you're having such a hard time with the weight, I hated all the weight I gained in this process but I choose to believe every pound mattered. I'm seriously in denial about my weight, I'm only paying attention to the last two number at this point.

Bec- Sorry for af.

Flava - I hear ya, I gained 20 ish lbs and already have my weight loss plan figured out. Yay for the 2WW!