Due in June/July/August 2016

Netti: so sorry you didn't hear girl, but I love the name and what a lucky little boy to be so loved! Plus, his pictures are adorable!! Those cheeks! [emoji7][emoji7]

Yogi: I agree with you about being done for your health and yourself. I also agree with others about sitting down with DH and his family, but I think keeping in mind how many women feel when they're told no more kids and are longing for that daughter/son. It's so tricky, but I hope that DH can see this is what's best for YOU! I think physically, emotionally and mentally.

Mamma: scan coming up fast!! Hope you get some great nub shots!


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I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl [emoji20]. I love your attitude and idea about a granddaughter box. I think it will help you and give you something else positive to look forward too.

When it gets tough, if it gets tough, just focus on snuggling with a squishy newborn! That is what helped my DH and its seemed to work. So much so that when he has a tough day at work, he loves to snuggle with our DS3 when he gets home! It's so cute!




[emoji170]DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602] completes our family![emoji170]

@has2: I took a quick look on the internet for the reviews of Sneakpeek and it really doesn't seem reliable at all. 60% is just a little bit better than a guess. They look for the Y chromosome, but for some people they said boy so they found Y, but it was a girl. A little bit strange, isn't it? I wouldn't put too much stock in it. It's good though to prepare yourself for hearing boy and Tobias Asher is a wonderful name, but I just don't know if the test you did is reliable...

@Yogi: your hubby has to realize that it's not because he felt bad about being the only boy with just one sister, his son will feel the same. He has 3 lovely sisters to take care of him and very loving parents. And the sway worked this time, but it might not work the next. What if number 5 is another girl? Would he want a 6th one? Or 7? I think he really has to discuss this with you before announcing it to the whole wide world. I hope you'll be able to come to an understanding. Big hug, hun.

@Netti: I'm so sorry you didn't hear pink hun, but you seem to take it very well and you sound very happy with this sweet little boy on the way. How is your DH feeling? I'm sure he'll be a wonderful adition to the family. Just out of curiosity, a girl would also have been called a name ending with -on and with 7 letters? Like Allison?

@Luvmyfam: I agree with you about the more permanent birth control. I do feel now this is our last one, but that might change 5 years from now. You never know what live brings. It's more of a financial choice for me, but if my hubby or myself earn a lot more money in the future, maybe I'll sway again for another daughter.

I'm starting to think about decorating my little girl's nursery. Do any of you want to share pictures of the nurseries of your girls? I am thinking baby pink and light grey and maybe a grey wallpaper with white dots and some scandinavian style accesories. I want to keep it simple and not to flashy.

But first the boys will get bunkbeds, so we can reuse one of their beds for the baby. We have received their beds and will be assembling it this weekend, 'we' as in my 'DH' :giggle:

I'm sorry your result wasn't your DG has2. I am sending shedloads of hugs and support your way, and hoping its wrong xxx

Fiya I was on LE for about 26-28 weeks, actively TTC for 3 months. It was emotionally draining and I won't do it again lol. HT isn't an option either. This is definitely 100% our last child. I just have to come to terms with never having my girl. There are worse things in life and I wikk be fine in time x

Netti hun I am so sorry your heard boy but can I just say those pics are absolutely fabulous. He is gorgeous!! You sound so OK with things, I definitely feel inspired by your right now so thank you xxx

Yogi I agree with the girls. Try talk to your DH about needing to draw a line and complete your family. As one if the ladies said just cause this sway was successful doesn't mean the next will be too. This pregnancy has been a roller coaster for you, I can understand not wanting to do it again in a hurry! X

Mammacass I have everything crossed for your scan hun xxx

I'm feeling a little better today girls, sorry for my massively negative post yesterday. I'm OK now. Another son is in the cards for me, I am excited about his arrival (I am not holding onto any hope the nub theory is incorrect for me, I can't do that) and the loss of a possible daughter will be dealt with over time. I'm finding it easier today to put it to the back of my mind and I hope that as time passes I won't even have to consciously put it to the back of my mind, that it wikk just remain there. This is definitely our last child, I just want to enjoy my final pregnancy and I can't wait for those wonderful newborn snuggles :) But I will be taking a step back from the site for a little while, just while I move past these feelings. I wish each and everyone of you your DG and I will be back in the not too distant future I hope. Hugs xxx

I am so sorry Yogi for your struggle. I see both sides as well. Pregnancy with the added risk of more C-sections would be hard to go through again. I see your husbands side too. I grew up with 2 brothers and no sister and it was something that I craved my whole life growing up and even still to this day I wish I had a sister. So that made me all the more important to me to make sure my kids all had sisters and brothers. It makes it all the more frustrating for you because you would have no promise that the 5th one would be a boy as well! Big hugs!! I am sure you and your DH will work through it.

Well I always wanted a sister as Well. I didn't get one then at least I wanted a daughter. (Wich at Some point seemed that wasn't gonna happen) lucky me I did get my DD and would loved a sister for her. But we are done.
I know she probably wants a sister at Some point too. But hope its enough with 3 brothers.

I'm sure it will be! My sister in law had 3 older brothers and I don't think she had the same need as I did. So all families are different for sure!!


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Fiya dh is taking it better than i thought. I think since our nt scan when we got likely boy we both kind of started thinking this is another boy and tried to push that disappointment aside and just be greatful and thankful. If i had a girl her name would be Evelyne Joyce Ann. 7 letters but an exception to the 'on' 😊

Thank you ladies for your kind words. I really just want to enjoy this last pregnancy 😊 i can't change anything that's happened and theres no more opportunities to try for a girl (unless i come into money but i doubt it 😂) so im just going to enjoy this last little snuggle bear because that will be it til grandbabies 😂



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My boys are pretty adorable so im definitely lucky 😍

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