It's a boy!!! I'm in shock ladies, I know I'll love him. Just will take some time
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It's a boy!!! I'm in shock ladies, I know I'll love him. Just will take some time
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Good luck!!!
Congrats on a healthy baby boy!!!
I know he's meant to be, I did everything I could, poor DH is upset and I don't know how I will handles my boys GD too...and I think we're going to tell everyone we're team green
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Big, big hugs. I'm so, so sorry that you have to fight disappointment right now. It isn't fair when we want something that seems so simple and easy for other people. It's ok to be upset and angry, those feelings have nothing to do with the love you feel for your son and everything to do with your grief over your daughter. Even if she never existed except in your heart, you are allowed to mourn her. Lots of love and sympathy to you tonight.
Tem-thanks for your support!
Good luck ladies! I truly hope you all get your DG! You all definitely deserve them!!
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I'm so deeply sorry Smarston. Be kind to yourself and give yourself plenty of time. It will be hard, especially since your DH is having a difficult time too. Big hugs sweetie! Take all of the time you need to mourn the DD you tried so hard for. Know that we are here for you, and you can vent/process this with us.
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Smarston, congratulations on your healthy baby!
Hugs to you:( try not to think about it right now, it was meant to be. if this happened it means your little boy has to be here with your family, he will need you and I'm sure time will pass a little bit an it will become better. Maybe don't tell anyone yet, keep it in the family. As soon as you will hold this baby all GD will go away. We all are here to support you:kiss::kiss::kiss:
Smarston...he is meant to be (as every life is). The bond your boys will share will be amazing.
I have a friend who just revealed she is having her 6th boy!!!! Some of us are just not meant to have the opposite sex. (I am preparing to hear boy too)
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Congratulations on your healthy boy Smartson. I'm sorry that you didn't hear girl. I do believe some things are meant to be although we might not realise that till years later. I hope you are feeling OK.
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Congrats on your healthy boy smartston. Sorry u didn't hear girl but he will be a bundle of joy.
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Has anyone had bouts of diarreah? I had it yesterday and the day before. Only once a day. Yesterday I felt fine then around 8pm I had explosive diarreah. Don't know if it's a virus or pregnancy related
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Why don't you tell your boys you don't know, that you are not finding out? I bet when he comes along they will be so smitten they won't care!! Sorry you didn't hear girl you did a great sway he is really meant to be. Big hugs XxxQuote:
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Thanks ladies, didn't get a lot of sleep last night. I know he's a strong little boy for pushing through my sway. It's just a hard pill to swallow. I wish I didn't find out when I'm on vacation. I guess I thought if it were a boy, I wouldn't have time to be upset about it. We've only told family about the pregnancy and they were already cracking jokes that I'm due at Xmas ( we have an Xmas baby) now I'm dreading telling them it's another boy. I would stay team green with them(think I will in public) but I'm afraid I will flip out on someone if they sit there and try to convince me its a girl. I feel like I failed everyone including myself. I'm upset that I convinced DH that we could sway. And the poor thing feels like it's his fault. He already said we will find the money somewhere for HT but we can't have five kids!! I don't know how I'm going to handle four boys.
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Take a deep breath, sweetie! Stop and just breath. You've only just begun to process this. I strongly suggest waiting to tell people the gender, until you are in a better place to handle negative comments. As far as dealing when people bring up girl comments, I would say we will have to wait and see, then change the subject.
I know you are panicking, thinking about having four boys. Try and relax until you are in a better frame of mind. Most of the time, our fears are far worse than reality so try and focus on the here and now. Try to enjoy your vacation with your children. Slowly allow yourself to process all of this. Don't try and tackle it all at once- you'll be too overwhelmed. Deal with this in bits and pieces, when you are ready. You have the time.
We are here for you. I'm praying for strength and clarity for you.
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It's a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!
Am I dreaming????? a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!
Congratulations sc! I'm so happy you got your DG :)
smarston, I would definitely just hang on to the news for a little bit. It will get easier to handle as you have more time. ((hugs))
Smarston, my happiness is a little bit bitter, because I'm celebrating at the same time:( I really hope it feels better already.
Smartson, I'm so beyond sorry you didn't hear girl :( my heart hurts for you. I know all too well the feeling of longing for a baby girl. Try and keep your head up.
Sc.. congrats on your DG!
Sorry you are upset :( hugs. I wish I had some words of comfort but I know that once you see your little ones face you will be comforted and in love. So sorry you didn't get your little girl :(
What did your hubby get to show it was a boy?
Congratulations on hearing blue sc xx
Sc-you deserve him!!! Please enjoy this happy time!!
Thanks everyone for your support!
Mulberry-DH got a small stuffed Mickey Mouse. Poor guy, felt so bad that he had to tell me
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SC1411~ congrats, soooo happy for you!! :bluecheer:
Sorry for crashing the thread ladies and I'm sorry smartson you didn't hear your dg....
Thanks Ash! I hope you'll here same soon!!!
sc1411 yay congratulations :bluecheer: super duper news !!!! When will you buy your blue elephant :HH:
So happy for you :)
Thank you True!!!
I will buy my elephant when my hands will stop trembling and I will be able to google search for this toy,lol!!!!!!
I really hope you will hear the same very soon:kiss:
Congratulations on your baby boy smarston3! I know he will be perfect and a great addition to your family. Everything will be OK, and however you are feeling in this moment is OK too.
Congrats sc1411!!!
Congratulations sc[emoji4] that's wonderful news
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SC- yay! I'm so happy for you!! Enjoy!
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Girls, would it be ok if I don't believe it's true until after our vacation and next ultrasound? (Day after we get back) I feel like it's the only way for me to get thru this trip without crying every day...DH kinda said the same thing. "Do you think the person at the office read the results right?!"
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Do it! Maybe it was wrong? :)
Five-I know its 99% accurate but maybe I took it too early, etc. girl can still have a little hope right?
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Smartson, I'd be the same way! Which is why I'm doing the early gender scan so I can actually see the boy/girl goods. I say enjoy your vacation girl!
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I probably won't believe my results are true until my anatomy scan, whatever way they go, so I say seeing is believing. Just take care of yourself.
I'm still having doubts regarding my results and probably won't feel 100% comfortable until the 19 week scan. I had a dream where the ultrasound guy says " there is the scrotum " and it was so real Im half expecting that to happen.
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Smarston..sorry you didn't hear pink. It is so hard to lose a dream and desire you want sooo badly. I hope being on vacation will ease some of the pain.
Sc--super congrats on the boy!!
Seems a lot of boys are popping up lately!
Just wanted to jump on and congrats SC on the baby boy! Big congrats! :)
smartston3 - so sorry your bean isn't pink, but what a lucky little boy to have brothers and parents who will adore him and love him! I also love that your DH hasn't given up on HT either. There's still a little girl waiting for you!
Aw a mickey mouse toy is so sweet :) I think that's fine to just carry on, I think what you're maybe asking for is the approval and validation to be able to experience happiness right now as you feel that it is not being true to what your emotions should be feeling if that makes sense? You are absolutely allowed to be happy and carry on through this pregnancy not confronting how you feel about if this is definitely a boy. There will come a time when you're no longer able to deny that (potentially) but life will have changed so much you won't be experiencing it the same way, because you'll have a new family member to love and who loves you. xxx