Originally Posted by
Soar
Thanks Emily and Beandin for your replies! The support is very much appreciated!
Ok so this morning I was at a pool play date with some friends and a woman walks in with 3 boys. The baby boy was adorable and they looked to be about where my 3 will be once this one comes. So I thought I'm going to ask her if she has any advice on 3 boys the do's and don'ts. First she asked what I was having. I said we don't know yet. Then she asked if I was caring the same. I said this one is higher up. Then she was like well there are things you are suppose to do to try for a girl and then another woman chimes in oh yea my friend read all the books on what to do and she got her girl. I couldn't believe it we were openly talking about swaying at a pool play date! All this to say that gender desire is totally 100% normal. Whether anyone admits it or not. I have really been beating myself up about these feelings and here I am discussing it with 2 woman who all have boys! It made me feel a lot better and less like a selfish bratty I want it teenager.
Anyway just wanted to share the good that can come of talking about it. And I feel much better today!
Bring on Tuesday!