Ahorn i didnt find out gender with my 3rd son. I just remember giving birth to him and them saying boy and i refused to even look at him, dont know if it was the g&a sending me loopy or not i just kept apologising to my hubby for it not being a girl. But the minute i looked i fell madly in love with him. He had the softest skin ive ever felt on a baby and i had such a lovely time alone in hospital with him. Hes a crazy 8 year old now and i adore him. We did go on to have a girl next x