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told you this one would be quicker girlsway!! :) so glad you didnt tear this time :) quick births are very intense arent they, quite a wild ride with no time to get in the zone! did you have time for the pool? i hope that overall you feel positive about your experience even though it wasnt what you had planned xx
Thanks Hun :) no time for the pool sadly! No time for pain relief either! But the no tearing makes recovery so much better! XxQuote:
Originally Posted by 4blue2pink
im sorry you didnt get the pool but im glad your recovery is easier this time :) enjoy every second with your princess xx
Hi all, we recently found out Ava has a cleft soft palate and I’m really upset about it and can’t help thinking it’s my fault due to swaying :( feeling so down
Aww I am very sorry to hear this. I had to Google to know exactly what you meant. I know how hard we beat ourselves up. I did the same after I lost my last daughter bc I took clomid and thought that could have been why. It wasn't but I beat myself up. We are currently dealing with a cyst they found on my daughters kidney during my last ultrasound. I am terrified it could be something bad.Quote:
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What happens from here for Ava? Is it repairable? Is it something children can live with without complications?
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Oh bless you both and your sweet babies. It's not fair, and I really believe it has nothing to do with anything you did before conceiving. X
I think as humans many of us reach for some sort of self blame because it gives us a sense of control -- since feeling like we don't have control can be the scariest feeling. But truly, there is nothing you could have done. I was very, very unhealthy with how LE I was before DD and she's just fine, so don't think it was the swaying that did it. I took prednisone for much of the first half of this current pregnancy which has been linked with soft cleft palate issues, so we'll see -- but ultimately, it's often just a random fluke. I hope they can correct it soon and you can all move on. <3 You are a good momma, remember that.Quote:
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Girlsway very sorry to hear about Avas problem. I really hope doctors can help her with it. Dont blame yourself it is not your fault coz of swaying. I will pray for her:pray::hugs:
Mamabird and girlsway I'm sorry to hear about the issues with your baby girls. I hope they can be sorted out x
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She is beautiful girlsway! The wee sweetheart looks so content. I think u need to try and push the op to the back of your mind for now, and try to concentrate on enjoying every minute with her coming up to her first Christmas!!( says the most anxious person in the world) x