I vote for whatever you need to do to get through right now. On one of my babies I was really really hoping for a girl, 18+ week ultrasound they told me girl 100%! I was so excited. I knew I was having a girl before they told me....well, 4 weeks later I had another ultrasound and just kidding, it's a boy! Was very obvious too. I was heartbroken.
Not because I was getting a 3rd son but because I had a girl and she was taken away. It was an awful feeling. I still left hope in my head that it was a girl right up until delivery. The entire process was hard but I am smitten with this now 5 yr old little boy. He's my super special snuggle buddy and I wouldn't trade him for 100 baby girls.
This time I think I'm having a girl again. Trying really hard to tell myself that it's a boy and not to be ridiculous.
Hope you're feeling better today Hun!

